Episode 158: Abbe Greenberg and Maggie Sarachek | Anxiety Sisters
Jun 20, 2022
Remarkable Quote:
“Anxiety is a human emotion. We've all experienced anxiety. What makes it something that needs to be paid attention to is when the anxiety starts to make the decision for you, starts to shrink your world.” ~ Abbe Greenberg
“When we talk and share stories with each other, we could be each other's touchstone. One of the most hopeful and healing things is to know that we're not alone and that someone gets us.” ~ Maggie Sarachek
Guest Bio:
Abbe Greenberg, MCIS, and Maggie Sarachek, MSW are trained counselors, mental health advocates, researchers, educators, writers, and long-time anxiety sufferers. In 2017, they launched their online community which now includes more than 215,000 people in 200+ countries and territories. Together the Anxiety Sisters write an award-winning blog and host a twice-monthly podcast, The Spin Cycle. Having learned to live happily with anxiety, they spend their time coaching anxiety sufferers and conducting workshops and retreats all over the U.S. Their book, The Anxiety Sisters’ Survival Guide was released by Penguin Random House in September of 2021.
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Episode Transcript
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[juliet_hahn]: time
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[maggie]: on this podcast
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[juliet_hahn]: is i want you
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[maggie]: all
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[juliet_hahn]: guys
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[maggie]: the
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[juliet_hahn]: to
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[maggie]: time
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[juliet_hahn]: go
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[maggie]: is
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[juliet_hahn]: back
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[maggie]: i want you guys
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[juliet_hahn]: so
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[maggie]: to go
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[juliet_hahn]: each
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[maggie]: back
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[juliet_hahn]: of you
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[maggie]: so
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[juliet_hahn]: can
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[maggie]: each
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[juliet_hahn]: kind of give
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[maggie]: of
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[juliet_hahn]: a
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: little bit
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[maggie]: can kind
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[juliet_hahn]: of
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[maggie]: of give
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[juliet_hahn]: history
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[maggie]: a little
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[juliet_hahn]: of
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[maggie]: bit
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[juliet_hahn]: where you
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[maggie]: of
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[juliet_hahn]: grew
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[maggie]: history
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[juliet_hahn]: up
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[maggie]: of
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[juliet_hahn]: you know
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[maggie]: where
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[juliet_hahn]: we already
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: told
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[maggie]: grew
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[juliet_hahn]: them when
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[maggie]: up
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[juliet_hahn]: you went to
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: university
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[maggie]: know we already told them when
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[juliet_hahn]: but
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[maggie]: you went
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[juliet_hahn]: then
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[maggie]: to university
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[juliet_hahn]: i know you know
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[maggie]: but
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[juliet_hahn]: obviously
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[maggie]: then i
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[juliet_hahn]: you
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[maggie]: know
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[juliet_hahn]: guys met
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[maggie]: you now obviously
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[juliet_hahn]: at
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[maggie]: you guys
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[juliet_hahn]: pen
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[maggie]: met
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[juliet_hahn]: and then that
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[maggie]: at
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[juliet_hahn]: is where
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[maggie]: pen
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[juliet_hahn]: kind
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[maggie]: and
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[juliet_hahn]: of
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[maggie]: then
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[juliet_hahn]: the anxiety
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[maggie]: that is where
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[juliet_hahn]: sisters
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[maggie]: kind of
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[juliet_hahn]: blossomed
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[maggie]: the exiety
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[juliet_hahn]: years
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[maggie]: sisters
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[juliet_hahn]: later but
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[maggie]: blossom
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[juliet_hahn]: just give us a little
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[maggie]: years
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[juliet_hahn]: history
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[maggie]: later
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[juliet_hahn]: about
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[maggie]: but just give us
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[juliet_hahn]: you're
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[maggie]: a little
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[juliet_hahn]: upbringing
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[maggie]: history about your upbringing
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[juliet_hahn]: ah
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[abbe_greenberg]: want to
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[maggie]: sure
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[abbe_greenberg]: be a waiter
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[maggie]: wait
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah yeah yeah you can go way
back yeah
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[maggie]: you can go away back
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[abbe_greenberg]: okay
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[maggie]: where our parents
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[abbe_greenberg]: yeah
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[maggie]: met
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[juliet_hahn]: no
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[maggie]: and every no i'm just kidding i'm
kidding
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[juliet_hahn]: that would be funny but yeah now
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[maggie]: so but
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
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[maggie]: i grew and actually in law i
was born in queens and grew up mainly
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
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[maggie]: in long island actually entirely in long
island and so
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[abbe_greenberg]: m
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[maggie]: i anxiety wise realize now that i
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[juliet_hahn]: ye
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[maggie]: was always an anxious child
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[juliet_hahn]: my
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[maggie]: and i particularly had a lot of
separation
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
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[maggie]: anxiety particularly because i grew up with
one parent who was fairly ill from the
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[maggie]: time i was really young physically ill
not mentally ill but was in and out
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[maggie]: of the hospital for long periods of
time so
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[juliet_hahn]: i
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[maggie]: i think that
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[juliet_hahn]: yah
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[maggie]: really influenced that whole
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[abbe_greenberg]: oh
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[maggie]: piece
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[juliet_hahn]: h
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[maggie]: of and other things did as well
but i had separation anxiety but there was
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[maggie]: no words for it there was no
vocabulary for what was going on um and
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[maggie]: i just think i was a very
anxious kid but nobody picked up
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[juliet_hahn]: right
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[maggie]: on it
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[juliet_hahn]: it was it was just kind
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: of the
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[maggie]: know
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[juliet_hahn]: way things were
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[maggie]: and
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[juliet_hahn]: right it
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[maggie]: of
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[juliet_hahn]: was
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[maggie]: the way things yeah that's when it
was the nineteen seventies you know it was
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[maggie]: like when you you left home for
the day you know you're six years old
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[maggie]: and you come back dinner you know
and i had very attentive parents but it
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[maggie]: wasn't something that was really looked
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[juliet_hahn]: well
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[maggie]: at and i think
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah it
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: probably
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[maggie]: know
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[juliet_hahn]: was more like oh she's
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[maggie]: it probably
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[juliet_hahn]: just a
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[maggie]: was
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[juliet_hahn]: warrior
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[maggie]: more like oh she's
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[juliet_hahn]: right that's
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[maggie]: just
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[juliet_hahn]: what they
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[maggie]: a warrior
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[juliet_hahn]: used to call it like
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[maggie]: right yeah i wouldn't even say that
they would call me a warrior because my
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[maggie]: worry was a little bit different but
it was more separation based and you know
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[maggie]: and i had and i would get
very sort of
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[juliet_hahn]: ye
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[maggie]: overwhelmed um there was some a
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[juliet_hahn]: there
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[maggie]: d h d in there there was
dislexa
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
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[maggie]: like
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[abbe_greenberg]: hi
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[maggie]: you so there was like all these
things kind of lend into each
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[juliet_hahn]: right
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[maggie]: other
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[juliet_hahn]: well and also
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[maggie]: right
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[juliet_hahn]: with
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[maggie]: well
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[juliet_hahn]: with
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[maggie]: and then
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[juliet_hahn]: you
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[maggie]: also
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[juliet_hahn]: know we talk
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[maggie]: with
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[juliet_hahn]: about
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[maggie]: with
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[juliet_hahn]: this
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: with
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[maggie]: know
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[juliet_hahn]: other
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[maggie]: we
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[juliet_hahn]: guests
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[maggie]: talk about
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[juliet_hahn]: that
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[maggie]: this
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[juliet_hahn]: you
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[maggie]: with
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[juliet_hahn]: now come on
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[maggie]: other
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[juliet_hahn]: and
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[maggie]: guests
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[juliet_hahn]: say you
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[maggie]: that
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[juliet_hahn]: know
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: they were
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[maggie]: come
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[juliet_hahn]: just like
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[maggie]: on and
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[juliet_hahn]: sick
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[maggie]: say you know
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[juliet_hahn]: with
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[maggie]: they
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[juliet_hahn]: that
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[maggie]: were just
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[juliet_hahn]: you
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[maggie]: like sick
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[juliet_hahn]: you really
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[maggie]: with that
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[juliet_hahn]: do
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: have
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[maggie]: you really
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[juliet_hahn]: some sort
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[maggie]: do
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[juliet_hahn]: of
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[maggie]: have
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[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
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[maggie]: some
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[juliet_hahn]: because
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[maggie]: sort
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[juliet_hahn]: you don't
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[maggie]: of
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[juliet_hahn]: know what's
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[maggie]: anxiety
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[juliet_hahn]: going to happen
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[maggie]: because you don't
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[juliet_hahn]: you don't
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[maggie]: know what's
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[juliet_hahn]: know
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[maggie]: going
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[juliet_hahn]: where
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[maggie]: to
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[juliet_hahn]: you're
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[maggie]: happen
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[juliet_hahn]: going to
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[maggie]: you don't
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[juliet_hahn]: not
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[maggie]: know
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[juliet_hahn]: understand
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[maggie]: where you're going
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[juliet_hahn]: something
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[maggie]: to
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[juliet_hahn]: or
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[maggie]: not
782
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[juliet_hahn]: where you're
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[maggie]: understand
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[juliet_hahn]: going to feel stupid
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[maggie]: something or
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[juliet_hahn]: or
787
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[maggie]: where
788
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[juliet_hahn]: someone
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[maggie]: you're
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[juliet_hahn]: is
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[maggie]: going
792
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[juliet_hahn]: going
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[maggie]: a feel
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[juliet_hahn]: to
795
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[maggie]: stupid
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[juliet_hahn]: figure
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[maggie]: or
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[juliet_hahn]: you
799
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[maggie]: someone's
800
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[juliet_hahn]: out
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[maggie]: going to you
802
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[juliet_hahn]: and
803
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[maggie]: figure
804
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[juliet_hahn]: so
805
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: i feel
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[maggie]: out
808
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[juliet_hahn]: like you know
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[maggie]: and
810
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[juliet_hahn]: that
811
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[maggie]: so
812
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[juliet_hahn]: with anyone
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[maggie]: i feel
814
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[juliet_hahn]: that
815
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[maggie]: like
816
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[juliet_hahn]: learns
817
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[maggie]: you know that
818
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[juliet_hahn]: different
819
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[maggie]: with anyone that
820
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[juliet_hahn]: there's
821
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[maggie]: learns
822
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[juliet_hahn]: even
823
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[maggie]: different
824
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[juliet_hahn]: even if you're not
825
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[maggie]: even
826
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[juliet_hahn]: you know kind
827
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[maggie]: even
828
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[juliet_hahn]: of
829
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[maggie]: if
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[juliet_hahn]: built
831
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[maggie]: you're not
832
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[juliet_hahn]: and
833
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[maggie]: you know
834
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[juliet_hahn]: someone
835
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[maggie]: kind
836
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[juliet_hahn]: with
837
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[maggie]: of built
838
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[juliet_hahn]: anxiety you're going
839
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[maggie]: someone
840
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[juliet_hahn]: to have
841
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[maggie]: with
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[juliet_hahn]: some
843
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[maggie]: anxiety
844
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[juliet_hahn]: level
845
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[maggie]: you're
846
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[juliet_hahn]: of it
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[maggie]: goin
848
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[juliet_hahn]: because
849
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[maggie]: to have
850
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[juliet_hahn]: you're
851
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[maggie]: some
852
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[juliet_hahn]: trying to
853
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[maggie]: level
854
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[juliet_hahn]: navigate
855
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[maggie]: of it because you're
856
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[juliet_hahn]: a
857
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[maggie]: trying
858
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[juliet_hahn]: world
859
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[maggie]: to navigate
860
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[juliet_hahn]: that
861
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[maggie]: a world
862
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[juliet_hahn]: you know other
863
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[maggie]: that
864
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[juliet_hahn]: people don't always
865
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[maggie]: you
866
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[juliet_hahn]: fit
867
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[maggie]: know
868
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[juliet_hahn]: into
869
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[maggie]: other people
870
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[juliet_hahn]: so
871
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[maggie]: don't always fit
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[juliet_hahn]: i you
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[maggie]: into
874
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[juliet_hahn]: know appreciate
875
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[maggie]: so
876
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[juliet_hahn]: your sharing that
877
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[maggie]: you appreciate
878
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[juliet_hahn]: so a
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[maggie]: your
880
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[juliet_hahn]: little
881
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[maggie]: sharing
882
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[juliet_hahn]: bit
883
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[maggie]: that
884
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[juliet_hahn]: more though
885
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[maggie]: so a
886
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[juliet_hahn]: when
887
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[maggie]: little
888
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[juliet_hahn]: you
889
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[maggie]: bit more
890
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[juliet_hahn]: cided
891
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[maggie]: though
892
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[juliet_hahn]: okay so
893
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[maggie]: when
894
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[juliet_hahn]: obviously
895
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[maggie]: you
896
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[juliet_hahn]: you
897
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[maggie]: sided
898
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[juliet_hahn]: were a good student
899
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[maggie]: okay
900
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[juliet_hahn]: and
901
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[maggie]: so
902
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[juliet_hahn]: this
903
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[maggie]: obviously
904
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[juliet_hahn]: is what i
905
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[maggie]: you
906
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[juliet_hahn]: also
907
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[maggie]: were a good
908
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[juliet_hahn]: love
909
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[maggie]: student
910
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[juliet_hahn]: when people
911
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[maggie]: and this is what i also
912
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[juliet_hahn]: don't understand
913
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[maggie]: love when people
914
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[juliet_hahn]: dislexia
915
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[maggie]: don't understand
916
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[juliet_hahn]: and eighth
917
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[maggie]: dislexia
918
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[juliet_hahn]: day they always assume
919
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[maggie]: in eight
920
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[juliet_hahn]: okay
921
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[maggie]: each
922
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[juliet_hahn]: they
923
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[maggie]: day
924
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[juliet_hahn]: weren't
925
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[maggie]: they
926
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[juliet_hahn]: a
927
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[maggie]: always
928
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[juliet_hahn]: good student
929
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[maggie]: assume
930
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[juliet_hahn]: you
931
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[maggie]: okay
932
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[juliet_hahn]: know
933
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[maggie]: they
934
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[juliet_hahn]: some
935
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[maggie]: weren't a good
936
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[juliet_hahn]: i
937
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[maggie]: student
938
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[juliet_hahn]: was not a
939
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[maggie]: you
940
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[juliet_hahn]: good
941
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[maggie]: know
942
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[juliet_hahn]: student
943
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[maggie]: some
944
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[juliet_hahn]: but not
945
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[maggie]: i was
946
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[juliet_hahn]: everyone
947
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[maggie]: not a good
948
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[juliet_hahn]: is
949
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[maggie]: student
950
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[juliet_hahn]: not
951
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[maggie]: but not everyone
952
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[juliet_hahn]: so
953
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[maggie]: is
954
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[juliet_hahn]: how
955
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[maggie]: not
956
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[juliet_hahn]: did you end up going
957
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[maggie]: so
958
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[juliet_hahn]: to university
959
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[maggie]: how did you
960
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[juliet_hahn]: of
961
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[maggie]: end
962
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[juliet_hahn]: pennsylvania
963
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[maggie]: up going to
964
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[juliet_hahn]: and
965
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[maggie]: university
966
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[juliet_hahn]: what did you major
967
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[maggie]: of pensylvania
968
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[juliet_hahn]: in
969
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[maggie]: and what did you major well i
ended up major again philosophy
970
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
971
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[maggie]: very practical but you know for me
972
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
973
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[maggie]: and this lexie as you know there's
so many different presentations of
974
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
975
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[maggie]: dislexia um and so people tend to
think it's like there's one kind
976
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[juliet_hahn]: right
977
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[maggie]: of dis
978
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[juliet_hahn]: spectrum
979
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[maggie]: lexiastre right but here so many
980
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
981
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[maggie]: presentations of dislexia and for me i
was
982
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
983
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[maggie]: someone who didn't read at all
984
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
985
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[maggie]: till fourth grade could not read
986
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
987
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[maggie]: at all um but of course i
wae in school in the nineteen seventies and
988
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[maggie]: there wasn't quite so much like testing
like can you do this like if you
989
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[maggie]: were a quiet good girl like no
one was saying anything
990
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
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[maggie]: but i think my my third grade
teacher realized like at the end of the
992
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[maggie]: year
993
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
994
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[maggie]: that i could not read and you
know
995
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
996
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[maggie]: basically said for next year we think
she should be in special education which was
997
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[maggie]: very different then
998
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[juliet_hahn]: right
999
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[maggie]: also
1000
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[juliet_hahn]: now
1001
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[maggie]: from what it is now and
1002
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1003
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[maggie]: basically my mom worked in the schools
as a social worker and had
1004
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[juliet_hahn]: ah
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[maggie]: a friend who was a reading teacher
who instructed
1006
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
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[maggie]: my mom on how teach me to
read because she realized i couldn't learn phonic
1008
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[juliet_hahn]: right
1009
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[maggie]: like so many
1010
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[juliet_hahn]: just
1011
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[maggie]: of us with this lexifphonic
1012
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1013
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[maggie]: phonic is not helpful in any way
and my
1014
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1015
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[maggie]: mom worked with me really hard and
then my four great teacher understood stuff about
1016
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[maggie]: reading
1017
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[juliet_hahn]: m
1018
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[maggie]: and she worked with me and
1019
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1020
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[maggie]: it was that year from the beginning
to the end i was sort of in
1021
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[maggie]: the beginning in the lowest reading group
barely reading to the end i really had
1022
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[maggie]: gotten the hang of
1023
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[juliet_hahn]: ye
1024
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[maggie]: it i was really reading voraciously
1025
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[juliet_hahn]: right and yeah and you know what
i love because that's
1026
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[maggie]: yeah
1027
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[juliet_hahn]: again
1028
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[maggie]: and you know what i love
1029
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[juliet_hahn]: and
1030
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[maggie]: because that's again
1031
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[juliet_hahn]: it's so important
1032
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[maggie]: and
1033
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[juliet_hahn]: because people
1034
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[maggie]: it's so
1035
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[juliet_hahn]: also
1036
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[maggie]: important because
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[juliet_hahn]: okay they
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[maggie]: people
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[juliet_hahn]: think okay you
1040
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[maggie]: also
1041
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[juliet_hahn]: can't
1042
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[maggie]: do
1043
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[juliet_hahn]: read
1044
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[maggie]: okay they
1045
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[juliet_hahn]: but
1046
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[maggie]: think okay
1047
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[juliet_hahn]: so many
1048
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[maggie]: you can't
1049
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[juliet_hahn]: people that
1050
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[maggie]: read
1051
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[juliet_hahn]: you know are
1052
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[maggie]: but
1053
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[juliet_hahn]: listening
1054
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[maggie]: so many
1055
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[juliet_hahn]: to this
1056
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[maggie]: people
1057
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[juliet_hahn]: podcast
1058
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[maggie]: that
1059
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[juliet_hahn]: maybe
1060
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[maggie]: know are listening
1061
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[juliet_hahn]: have a
1062
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[maggie]: to this
1063
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[juliet_hahn]: situation
1064
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[maggie]: podcast maybe
1065
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[juliet_hahn]: where they
1066
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[maggie]: have
1067
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[juliet_hahn]: think oh
1068
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[maggie]: a
1069
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[juliet_hahn]: my
1070
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[maggie]: situation
1071
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[juliet_hahn]: child
1072
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[maggie]: where they think
1073
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[juliet_hahn]: is so
1074
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[maggie]: omit
1075
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[juliet_hahn]: behind
1076
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[maggie]: child is
1077
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[juliet_hahn]: because
1078
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[maggie]: so
1079
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[juliet_hahn]: they
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[maggie]: behind
1081
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[juliet_hahn]: can't read but
1082
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[maggie]: because
1083
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[juliet_hahn]: look
1084
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[maggie]: they
1085
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[juliet_hahn]: what
1086
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[maggie]: can't
1087
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[juliet_hahn]: you did
1088
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[maggie]: read
1089
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[juliet_hahn]: in a
1090
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[maggie]: but
1091
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[juliet_hahn]: year
1092
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[maggie]: look what you
1093
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[juliet_hahn]: and
1094
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[maggie]: did
1095
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[juliet_hahn]: then again
1096
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[maggie]: in a year
1097
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[juliet_hahn]: i mean you went to
1098
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[maggie]: and
1099
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[juliet_hahn]: university
1100
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[maggie]: then again
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[juliet_hahn]: of pensylvania
1102
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[maggie]: i mean you
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[juliet_hahn]: that's
1104
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[maggie]: went to
1105
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[juliet_hahn]: a
1106
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[maggie]: university
1107
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[juliet_hahn]: very
1108
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[maggie]: of pensylvania
1109
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[juliet_hahn]: un esteemed
1110
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[maggie]: that's a
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[juliet_hahn]: school
1112
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[maggie]: very
1113
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[juliet_hahn]: so
1114
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[maggie]: un esteemed
1115
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[juliet_hahn]: it's
1116
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[maggie]: school
1117
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[juliet_hahn]: one
1118
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[maggie]: so
1119
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[juliet_hahn]: of those things that people
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[maggie]: it's
1121
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[juliet_hahn]: need to
1122
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[maggie]: one
1123
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[juliet_hahn]: realize
1124
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[maggie]: of those things that people
1125
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[juliet_hahn]: that
1126
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[maggie]: need
1127
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[juliet_hahn]: just because
1128
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[maggie]: to elise
1129
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[juliet_hahn]: you learned different
1130
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[maggie]: that
1131
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[juliet_hahn]: just because
1132
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[maggie]: just because
1133
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[juliet_hahn]: you struggle
1134
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[maggie]: you learned frent just
1135
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[juliet_hahn]: it
1136
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[maggie]: because
1137
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[juliet_hahn]: needs
1138
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[maggie]: you
1139
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[juliet_hahn]: to be
1140
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[maggie]: struggle
1141
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[juliet_hahn]: switched like you said
1142
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[maggie]: it needs
1143
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[juliet_hahn]: phonic
1144
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[maggie]: to be switched
1145
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[juliet_hahn]: didn't
1146
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[maggie]: like
1147
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[juliet_hahn]: do
1148
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[maggie]: you
1149
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[juliet_hahn]: it
1150
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[maggie]: said
1151
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[juliet_hahn]: and my
1152
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[maggie]: phonic didn't
1153
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[juliet_hahn]: story
1154
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[maggie]: do it and
1155
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[juliet_hahn]: started
1156
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[maggie]: my
1157
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[juliet_hahn]: in third
1158
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[maggie]: story
1159
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[juliet_hahn]: and fourth grade
1160
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[maggie]: started
1161
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[juliet_hahn]: when
1162
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[maggie]: in
1163
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[juliet_hahn]: i
1164
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[maggie]: third
1165
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[juliet_hahn]: realized
1166
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[maggie]: and fourth
1167
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[juliet_hahn]: you know
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[maggie]: rate
1169
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[juliet_hahn]: i
1170
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[maggie]: when
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[juliet_hahn]: wasn't
1172
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[maggie]: i
1173
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[juliet_hahn]: going
1174
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[maggie]: realized
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[juliet_hahn]: to gifted
1176
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[maggie]: you know
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[juliet_hahn]: and challentoed
1178
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[maggie]: i wasn't
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[juliet_hahn]: with
1180
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[maggie]: going
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[juliet_hahn]: the
1182
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[maggie]: to gifted
1183
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[juliet_hahn]: entire
1184
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[maggie]: and challenged
1185
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[juliet_hahn]: class
1186
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[maggie]: with
1187
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[juliet_hahn]: it was
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[maggie]: the
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[juliet_hahn]: just
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[maggie]: in
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[juliet_hahn]: me and another
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[maggie]: your
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[juliet_hahn]: boy
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[maggie]: class
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[juliet_hahn]: that had
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[maggie]: it
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[juliet_hahn]: to
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[maggie]: was
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[juliet_hahn]: go
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[maggie]: just
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[juliet_hahn]: to special
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[maggie]: me
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[juliet_hahn]: reading
1204
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[maggie]: a boy that had to go to
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[juliet_hahn]: um
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[maggie]: special
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[juliet_hahn]: and
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[maggie]: reading
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[juliet_hahn]: it's those things
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[maggie]: and
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[juliet_hahn]: my
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[maggie]: it's
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[juliet_hahn]: son
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[maggie]: those
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[juliet_hahn]: was
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[maggie]: things
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[juliet_hahn]: the same way but
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[maggie]: my son was the same
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[juliet_hahn]: nowadays
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[maggie]: way but
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[juliet_hahn]: it's you know they
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[maggie]: nowadays
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[juliet_hahn]: pick up on quicker
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[maggie]: it's you
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[juliet_hahn]: i mean
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[maggie]: know
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[juliet_hahn]: he was
1228
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[maggie]: they
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[juliet_hahn]: memorizing
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[maggie]: pick up on quicker
1231
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[juliet_hahn]: so they
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[maggie]: i mean
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[juliet_hahn]: actually
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[maggie]: he was
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[juliet_hahn]: did
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[maggie]: memorizing
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[juliet_hahn]: pick it up
1238
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[maggie]: so they actually
1239
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[juliet_hahn]: because he was
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[maggie]: didn't
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[juliet_hahn]: memorizing
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[maggie]: pick it up
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[juliet_hahn]: books he would come
1244
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[maggie]: because
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[juliet_hahn]: home
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[maggie]: he
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[juliet_hahn]: to
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[maggie]: was
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[juliet_hahn]: me and
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[maggie]: memorizing
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[juliet_hahn]: say
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[maggie]: becase
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[juliet_hahn]: hey
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[maggie]: he would
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[juliet_hahn]: mom
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[maggie]: come home to
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[juliet_hahn]: can
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[maggie]: me
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[juliet_hahn]: you
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[maggie]: and
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[juliet_hahn]: read
1262
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[maggie]: say
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[juliet_hahn]: this to
1264
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[maggie]: hey
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[juliet_hahn]: me because
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[maggie]: mom
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[juliet_hahn]: he would ask
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[maggie]: can
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[juliet_hahn]: the
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[maggie]: you
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[juliet_hahn]: teacher
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[maggie]: read
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[juliet_hahn]: hey
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[maggie]: this
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[juliet_hahn]: what
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[maggie]: to
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[juliet_hahn]: book
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[maggie]: me because
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[juliet_hahn]: am i
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[maggie]: he
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[juliet_hahn]: goin to be reading
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[maggie]: asked the
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[juliet_hahn]: in
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[maggie]: teacher
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[juliet_hahn]: the circle
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[maggie]: what book am
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[juliet_hahn]: so
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[maggie]: i going
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[juliet_hahn]: he can
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[maggie]: to be
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[juliet_hahn]: memorize
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[maggie]: ing in the
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[juliet_hahn]: it the
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[maggie]: circle
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[juliet_hahn]: night before
1296
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[maggie]: so he could remember is
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[juliet_hahn]: h
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[maggie]: god how
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[juliet_hahn]: so
1300
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[maggie]: smart
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[juliet_hahn]: smart
1302
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[maggie]: how smart
1303
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[juliet_hahn]: m
1304
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[maggie]: it's funny my son had a similar
thing happened but he had an orton gillingham
1305
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[maggie]: intervention
1306
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[juliet_hahn]: m yes
1307
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[maggie]: ist and so it's a multicensory reading
program and um literally it
1308
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[juliet_hahn]: m
1309
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[maggie]: was like he was testing in the
bottom one person
1310
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[juliet_hahn]: a
1311
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[maggie]: for reading and then
1312
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1313
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[maggie]: a little bit of intervention and he
was in the top ninety nine you know
1314
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[maggie]: the
1315
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[juliet_hahn]: right
1316
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[maggie]: top one per cent was like bottom
to
1317
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[abbe_greenberg]: yeah
1318
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[maggie]: top and
1319
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah yeah
1320
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[maggie]: you know so that
1321
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[abbe_greenberg]: at
1322
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[maggie]: the whole idea is that that those
1323
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[juliet_hahn]: m
1324
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[maggie]: kinds of interview and and then and
i always say it's similar from anxiety it's
1325
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[maggie]: like the more people pick something up
and realize okay their brain just works
1326
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[juliet_hahn]: m
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[maggie]: in a different
1328
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[juliet_hahn]: hm
1329
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[maggie]: way m often we can
1330
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1331
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[maggie]: do an intervention that can really change
the course of
1332
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1333
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[maggie]: one's life but i do agree with
you that like dislexia and a d h
1334
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[maggie]: d
1335
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[juliet_hahn]: oh
1336
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[maggie]: and executive functioning you know those of
us they
1337
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[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1338
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[maggie]: do lead to anxiety that was my
other piece you know definitely
1339
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[juliet_hahn]: i never knew
1340
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[maggie]: i never knew what my home work
was
1341
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[juliet_hahn]: right
1342
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[maggie]: you know an elementary
1343
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[juliet_hahn]: right and
1344
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[maggie]: school
1345
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[juliet_hahn]: you know i remember and them we're
goin t you know abby i
1346
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[maggie]: remember
1347
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[juliet_hahn]: want to dive
1348
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[maggie]: we're
1349
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[juliet_hahn]: into
1350
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[maggie]: gonna
1351
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[juliet_hahn]: your little
1352
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[maggie]: have
1353
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[juliet_hahn]: bit of your story
1354
00:09:00,741 --> 00:09:00,881
[maggie]: dive
1355
00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:01,001
[juliet_hahn]: but
1356
00:09:00,941 --> 00:09:01,082
[maggie]: into
1357
00:09:01,081 --> 00:09:01,161
[juliet_hahn]: no
1358
00:09:01,142 --> 00:09:01,282
[maggie]: your
1359
00:09:01,301 --> 00:09:01,521
[juliet_hahn]: because
1360
00:09:01,362 --> 00:09:01,643
[maggie]: little bit
1361
00:09:01,602 --> 00:09:01,722
[juliet_hahn]: it's
1362
00:09:01,683 --> 00:09:01,883
[maggie]: of your
1363
00:09:01,802 --> 00:09:01,902
[juliet_hahn]: so
1364
00:09:01,943 --> 00:09:02,123
[maggie]: story
1365
00:09:02,042 --> 00:09:02,443
[juliet_hahn]: true i mean
1366
00:09:02,464 --> 00:09:02,544
[maggie]: but
1367
00:09:02,503 --> 00:09:02,944
[juliet_hahn]: i remember
1368
00:09:02,624 --> 00:09:03,045
[maggie]: no because
1369
00:09:03,004 --> 00:09:03,104
[juliet_hahn]: when
1370
00:09:03,125 --> 00:09:03,245
[maggie]: it's
1371
00:09:03,164 --> 00:09:03,465
[juliet_hahn]: my son
1372
00:09:03,325 --> 00:09:03,425
[maggie]: so
1373
00:09:03,525 --> 00:09:03,665
[juliet_hahn]: came
1374
00:09:03,566 --> 00:09:03,726
[maggie]: true
1375
00:09:03,705 --> 00:09:03,825
[juliet_hahn]: home
1376
00:09:03,786 --> 00:09:03,946
[maggie]: i mean
1377
00:09:03,905 --> 00:09:04,086
[juliet_hahn]: one day
1378
00:09:04,006 --> 00:09:04,447
[maggie]: i remember
1379
00:09:04,126 --> 00:09:04,627
[juliet_hahn]: and said mom
1380
00:09:04,507 --> 00:09:04,748
[maggie]: when my
1381
00:09:04,807 --> 00:09:04,847
[juliet_hahn]: i
1382
00:09:04,828 --> 00:09:04,948
[maggie]: son
1383
00:09:04,887 --> 00:09:05,027
[juliet_hahn]: don't
1384
00:09:05,028 --> 00:09:05,168
[maggie]: came
1385
00:09:05,087 --> 00:09:05,448
[juliet_hahn]: understand
1386
00:09:05,208 --> 00:09:05,569
[maggie]: home one day
1387
00:09:05,548 --> 00:09:05,829
[juliet_hahn]: anything
1388
00:09:05,609 --> 00:09:05,850
[maggie]: and said
1389
00:09:05,869 --> 00:09:06,049
[juliet_hahn]: that's
1390
00:09:05,910 --> 00:09:06,110
[maggie]: mom
1391
00:09:06,089 --> 00:09:06,289
[juliet_hahn]: going
1392
00:09:06,290 --> 00:09:06,491
[maggie]: i don't
1393
00:09:06,450 --> 00:09:06,530
[juliet_hahn]: and
1394
00:09:06,551 --> 00:09:06,911
[maggie]: understand
1395
00:09:06,590 --> 00:09:07,050
[juliet_hahn]: i said to him
1396
00:09:07,011 --> 00:09:08,013
[maggie]: anything that's going on and
1397
00:09:08,031 --> 00:09:08,191
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1398
00:09:08,073 --> 00:09:08,314
[maggie]: i said
1399
00:09:08,312 --> 00:09:09,693
[juliet_hahn]: i remember that and it sucks
1400
00:09:09,516 --> 00:09:09,836
[maggie]: yeah i
1401
00:09:09,873 --> 00:09:09,953
[juliet_hahn]: and
1402
00:09:09,936 --> 00:09:10,257
[maggie]: remember
1403
00:09:10,013 --> 00:09:10,274
[juliet_hahn]: i was like
1404
00:09:10,337 --> 00:09:10,457
[maggie]: that
1405
00:09:10,374 --> 00:09:10,634
[juliet_hahn]: you're gonna
1406
00:09:10,537 --> 00:09:10,597
[maggie]: and
1407
00:09:10,674 --> 00:09:10,774
[juliet_hahn]: have
1408
00:09:10,678 --> 00:09:10,738
[maggie]: it
1409
00:09:10,854 --> 00:09:11,054
[juliet_hahn]: many
1410
00:09:10,858 --> 00:09:11,178
[maggie]: sucks
1411
00:09:11,134 --> 00:09:11,455
[juliet_hahn]: of those
1412
00:09:11,339 --> 00:09:11,940
[maggie]: yes and you're
1413
00:09:11,835 --> 00:09:12,336
[juliet_hahn]: opportunities
1414
00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:12,521
[maggie]: gonna have many
1415
00:09:12,396 --> 00:09:12,496
[juliet_hahn]: like
1416
00:09:12,581 --> 00:09:12,641
[maggie]: of
1417
00:09:12,596 --> 00:09:12,716
[juliet_hahn]: you're
1418
00:09:12,701 --> 00:09:12,881
[maggie]: those
1419
00:09:12,736 --> 00:09:13,357
[juliet_hahn]: on hae many of those
1420
00:09:13,282 --> 00:09:13,783
[maggie]: opportunities
1421
00:09:13,397 --> 00:09:14,037
[juliet_hahn]: experiences where
1422
00:09:13,943 --> 00:09:14,203
[maggie]: and your on
1423
00:09:14,178 --> 00:09:14,358
[juliet_hahn]: you're
1424
00:09:14,263 --> 00:09:14,484
[maggie]: have many
1425
00:09:14,378 --> 00:09:14,558
[juliet_hahn]: going to
1426
00:09:14,544 --> 00:09:14,584
[maggie]: of
1427
00:09:14,578 --> 00:09:14,718
[juliet_hahn]: look
1428
00:09:14,624 --> 00:09:14,764
[maggie]: those
1429
00:09:14,778 --> 00:09:15,038
[juliet_hahn]: around
1430
00:09:14,804 --> 00:09:15,305
[maggie]: experiences
1431
00:09:15,079 --> 00:09:15,459
[juliet_hahn]: and be like
1432
00:09:15,345 --> 00:09:16,106
[maggie]: where you're going to look
1433
00:09:16,050 --> 00:09:16,150
[juliet_hahn]: how
1434
00:09:16,186 --> 00:09:16,427
[maggie]: around
1435
00:09:16,250 --> 00:09:16,671
[juliet_hahn]: is everyone
1436
00:09:16,487 --> 00:09:16,687
[maggie]: and be
1437
00:09:16,711 --> 00:09:17,011
[juliet_hahn]: writing
1438
00:09:16,747 --> 00:09:16,868
[maggie]: like
1439
00:09:17,071 --> 00:09:17,472
[juliet_hahn]: down what the
1440
00:09:17,479 --> 00:09:17,579
[maggie]: how
1441
00:09:17,512 --> 00:09:17,732
[juliet_hahn]: teacher
1442
00:09:17,659 --> 00:09:18,100
[maggie]: is everyone
1443
00:09:17,813 --> 00:09:18,133
[juliet_hahn]: just said
1444
00:09:18,140 --> 00:09:18,440
[maggie]: writing
1445
00:09:18,233 --> 00:09:18,534
[juliet_hahn]: what they
1446
00:09:18,500 --> 00:09:18,621
[maggie]: down
1447
00:09:18,634 --> 00:09:18,774
[juliet_hahn]: just
1448
00:09:18,661 --> 00:09:18,761
[maggie]: what
1449
00:09:18,814 --> 00:09:18,974
[juliet_hahn]: said
1450
00:09:18,821 --> 00:09:19,181
[maggie]: the teacher
1451
00:09:19,015 --> 00:09:19,215
[juliet_hahn]: to me
1452
00:09:19,242 --> 00:09:19,362
[maggie]: just
1453
00:09:19,335 --> 00:09:19,636
[juliet_hahn]: sounded
1454
00:09:19,422 --> 00:09:19,802
[maggie]: said what
1455
00:09:19,696 --> 00:09:19,816
[juliet_hahn]: like
1456
00:09:19,843 --> 00:09:19,983
[maggie]: they
1457
00:09:19,856 --> 00:09:20,597
[juliet_hahn]: a completely
1458
00:09:20,063 --> 00:09:20,644
[maggie]: just said to me
1459
00:09:20,657 --> 00:09:20,938
[juliet_hahn]: different
1460
00:09:20,764 --> 00:09:21,065
[maggie]: sounded
1461
00:09:20,978 --> 00:09:21,338
[juliet_hahn]: language
1462
00:09:21,125 --> 00:09:22,026
[maggie]: like a completely
1463
00:09:21,719 --> 00:09:22,360
[juliet_hahn]: and i remember
1464
00:09:22,066 --> 00:09:22,767
[maggie]: different language
1465
00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,161
[juliet_hahn]: that so much
1466
00:09:23,188 --> 00:09:23,268
[maggie]: and
1467
00:09:23,222 --> 00:09:23,302
[juliet_hahn]: and
1468
00:09:23,308 --> 00:09:23,348
[maggie]: i
1469
00:09:23,342 --> 00:09:23,502
[juliet_hahn]: that
1470
00:09:23,449 --> 00:09:23,829
[maggie]: remember
1471
00:09:23,562 --> 00:09:23,702
[juliet_hahn]: was
1472
00:09:23,889 --> 00:09:24,030
[maggie]: that
1473
00:09:24,083 --> 00:09:24,263
[juliet_hahn]: one of
1474
00:09:24,230 --> 00:09:24,350
[maggie]: so
1475
00:09:24,303 --> 00:09:24,564
[juliet_hahn]: the things
1476
00:09:24,450 --> 00:09:24,631
[maggie]: much
1477
00:09:24,584 --> 00:09:24,684
[juliet_hahn]: that
1478
00:09:24,691 --> 00:09:24,771
[maggie]: and
1479
00:09:24,724 --> 00:09:24,824
[juliet_hahn]: was
1480
00:09:24,811 --> 00:09:24,951
[maggie]: that
1481
00:09:24,924 --> 00:09:25,145
[juliet_hahn]: really
1482
00:09:25,031 --> 00:09:25,151
[maggie]: was
1483
00:09:25,205 --> 00:09:25,405
[juliet_hahn]: hard
1484
00:09:25,532 --> 00:09:25,612
[maggie]: one
1485
00:09:25,585 --> 00:09:25,686
[juliet_hahn]: and
1486
00:09:25,652 --> 00:09:25,993
[maggie]: of the things
1487
00:09:25,886 --> 00:09:26,106
[juliet_hahn]: really
1488
00:09:26,013 --> 00:09:26,233
[maggie]: that was
1489
00:09:26,227 --> 00:09:26,447
[juliet_hahn]: early
1490
00:09:26,333 --> 00:09:26,574
[maggie]: really
1491
00:09:26,607 --> 00:09:26,687
[juliet_hahn]: on
1492
00:09:26,634 --> 00:09:26,814
[maggie]: hard
1493
00:09:26,787 --> 00:09:27,388
[juliet_hahn]: i realized
1494
00:09:27,014 --> 00:09:28,838
[maggie]: and really early on i realized
1495
00:09:28,390 --> 00:09:30,353
[juliet_hahn]: i don't why don't i understand
1496
00:09:29,799 --> 00:09:30,100
[maggie]: i don't
1497
00:09:30,414 --> 00:09:30,534
[juliet_hahn]: when
1498
00:09:30,420 --> 00:09:30,560
[maggie]: why
1499
00:09:30,634 --> 00:09:30,894
[juliet_hahn]: everyone
1500
00:09:30,661 --> 00:09:30,821
[maggie]: don't
1501
00:09:30,934 --> 00:09:31,055
[juliet_hahn]: else
1502
00:09:30,981 --> 00:09:31,021
[maggie]: i
1503
00:09:31,095 --> 00:09:31,195
[juliet_hahn]: just
1504
00:09:31,161 --> 00:09:31,782
[maggie]: understand
1505
00:09:31,355 --> 00:09:31,876
[juliet_hahn]: like i would
1506
00:09:31,843 --> 00:09:31,943
[maggie]: when
1507
00:09:31,896 --> 00:09:32,016
[juliet_hahn]: look
1508
00:09:32,023 --> 00:09:32,283
[maggie]: every
1509
00:09:32,036 --> 00:09:32,497
[juliet_hahn]: at my friend and
1510
00:09:32,444 --> 00:09:32,644
[maggie]: s just
1511
00:09:32,537 --> 00:09:32,818
[juliet_hahn]: be like what
1512
00:09:32,764 --> 00:09:33,445
[maggie]: like i would look
1513
00:09:33,378 --> 00:09:33,479
[juliet_hahn]: what
1514
00:09:33,465 --> 00:09:33,505
[maggie]: at
1515
00:09:33,499 --> 00:09:33,579
[juliet_hahn]: are
1516
00:09:33,565 --> 00:09:33,626
[maggie]: my
1517
00:09:33,599 --> 00:09:33,659
[juliet_hahn]: you
1518
00:09:33,686 --> 00:09:33,826
[maggie]: friend
1519
00:09:33,719 --> 00:09:33,979
[juliet_hahn]: writing
1520
00:09:33,866 --> 00:09:34,667
[maggie]: and be like what
1521
00:09:34,781 --> 00:09:35,061
[juliet_hahn]: i'm doing
1522
00:09:34,928 --> 00:09:35,068
[maggie]: are you
1523
00:09:35,081 --> 00:09:35,181
[juliet_hahn]: the
1524
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[maggie]: writing
1525
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[juliet_hahn]: assignment i'm like
1526
00:09:36,130 --> 00:09:36,430
[maggie]: i'm doing
1527
00:09:36,404 --> 00:09:36,524
[juliet_hahn]: what
1528
00:09:36,450 --> 00:09:36,891
[maggie]: this sinon
1529
00:09:36,864 --> 00:09:37,085
[juliet_hahn]: i don't
1530
00:09:36,951 --> 00:09:37,151
[maggie]: i'm like
1531
00:09:37,125 --> 00:09:38,207
[juliet_hahn]: understand so
1532
00:09:38,213 --> 00:09:38,413
[maggie]: i don't
1533
00:09:38,367 --> 00:09:38,607
[juliet_hahn]: i think
1534
00:09:38,474 --> 00:09:38,854
[maggie]: understand
1535
00:09:38,747 --> 00:09:39,509
[juliet_hahn]: that again as you
1536
00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:39,575
[maggie]: so
1537
00:09:39,569 --> 00:09:39,709
[juliet_hahn]: said
1538
00:09:39,696 --> 00:09:39,956
[maggie]: i think
1539
00:09:40,010 --> 00:09:40,170
[juliet_hahn]: that's
1540
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[maggie]: that
1541
00:09:40,210 --> 00:09:40,330
[juliet_hahn]: going
1542
00:09:40,297 --> 00:09:40,517
[maggie]: again
1543
00:09:40,370 --> 00:09:40,570
[juliet_hahn]: to bring
1544
00:09:40,617 --> 00:09:40,677
[maggie]: as
1545
00:09:40,670 --> 00:09:40,830
[juliet_hahn]: some
1546
00:09:40,737 --> 00:09:40,838
[maggie]: you
1547
00:09:40,890 --> 00:09:41,091
[juliet_hahn]: level
1548
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[maggie]: said
1549
00:09:41,251 --> 00:09:41,291
[juliet_hahn]: of
1550
00:09:41,298 --> 00:09:41,419
[maggie]: that
1551
00:09:41,431 --> 00:09:41,851
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
1552
00:09:41,519 --> 00:09:41,859
[maggie]: going to bring
1553
00:09:41,932 --> 00:09:42,172
[juliet_hahn]: whether
1554
00:09:41,959 --> 00:09:42,380
[maggie]: some level
1555
00:09:42,252 --> 00:09:42,592
[juliet_hahn]: you even
1556
00:09:42,540 --> 00:09:42,600
[maggie]: of
1557
00:09:42,692 --> 00:09:42,913
[juliet_hahn]: have
1558
00:09:42,721 --> 00:09:43,161
[maggie]: anxiety
1559
00:09:42,953 --> 00:09:43,493
[juliet_hahn]: an anxiety
1560
00:09:43,222 --> 00:09:43,622
[maggie]: whether you
1561
00:09:43,573 --> 00:09:43,954
[juliet_hahn]: disorder
1562
00:09:43,742 --> 00:09:44,203
[maggie]: even have
1563
00:09:44,074 --> 00:09:44,314
[juliet_hahn]: or your
1564
00:09:44,263 --> 00:09:44,784
[maggie]: an anxiety
1565
00:09:44,715 --> 00:09:45,355
[juliet_hahn]: predesitione
1566
00:09:44,864 --> 00:09:45,585
[maggie]: disorder or your
1567
00:09:45,616 --> 00:09:46,316
[juliet_hahn]: for anxiety
1568
00:09:45,986 --> 00:09:46,787
[maggie]: predeseset
1569
00:09:46,356 --> 00:09:47,037
[juliet_hahn]: you're going to have some
1570
00:09:47,008 --> 00:09:47,088
[maggie]: or
1571
00:09:47,117 --> 00:09:47,257
[juliet_hahn]: sort
1572
00:09:47,208 --> 00:09:47,589
[maggie]: anxiety
1573
00:09:47,297 --> 00:09:47,698
[juliet_hahn]: of level of
1574
00:09:47,649 --> 00:09:47,809
[maggie]: you're
1575
00:09:47,758 --> 00:09:48,178
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
1576
00:09:47,829 --> 00:09:48,330
[maggie]: going to have some
1577
00:09:48,278 --> 00:09:48,378
[juliet_hahn]: so
1578
00:09:48,410 --> 00:09:51,275
[maggie]: sort of level yeah you don't work
the way the rest of the world does
1579
00:09:51,335 --> 00:09:53,419
[maggie]: and i'm still like that with computers
pretty much
1580
00:09:53,633 --> 00:09:53,875
[juliet_hahn]: right
1581
00:09:53,739 --> 00:09:59,148
[maggie]: so you know that is a thing
left over i don't i don't understand what
1582
00:09:59,188 --> 00:10:00,450
[maggie]: the rest of the world understands
1583
00:09:59,950 --> 00:10:02,034
[juliet_hahn]: right we just we just learned different
well thank
1584
00:10:02,013 --> 00:10:02,053
[maggie]: we
1585
00:10:02,074 --> 00:10:02,134
[juliet_hahn]: you
1586
00:10:02,133 --> 00:10:02,233
[maggie]: just
1587
00:10:02,194 --> 00:10:02,274
[juliet_hahn]: for
1588
00:10:02,293 --> 00:10:02,353
[maggie]: we
1589
00:10:02,334 --> 00:10:02,615
[juliet_hahn]: sharing
1590
00:10:02,434 --> 00:10:02,754
[maggie]: just learned
1591
00:10:02,655 --> 00:10:02,795
[juliet_hahn]: that
1592
00:10:02,794 --> 00:10:03,175
[maggie]: dfentwell
1593
00:10:02,895 --> 00:10:02,955
[juliet_hahn]: and
1594
00:10:03,215 --> 00:10:03,455
[maggie]: thank you
1595
00:10:03,476 --> 00:10:03,677
[juliet_hahn]: abby
1596
00:10:03,495 --> 00:10:03,916
[maggie]: for sharing
1597
00:10:03,797 --> 00:10:03,997
[juliet_hahn]: i would
1598
00:10:03,976 --> 00:10:04,116
[maggie]: that
1599
00:10:04,037 --> 00:10:04,298
[juliet_hahn]: love for
1600
00:10:04,237 --> 00:10:04,277
[maggie]: an
1601
00:10:04,358 --> 00:10:04,839
[juliet_hahn]: you to give us
1602
00:10:04,797 --> 00:10:04,978
[maggie]: abbey
1603
00:10:04,899 --> 00:10:05,159
[juliet_hahn]: a little
1604
00:10:05,118 --> 00:10:05,138
[maggie]: i
1605
00:10:05,179 --> 00:10:05,640
[juliet_hahn]: background
1606
00:10:05,198 --> 00:10:06,000
[maggie]: would love for you to give
1607
00:10:05,940 --> 00:10:06,041
[juliet_hahn]: of
1608
00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:06,201
[maggie]: us a
1609
00:10:06,201 --> 00:10:06,341
[juliet_hahn]: your
1610
00:10:06,241 --> 00:10:06,923
[maggie]: little background
1611
00:10:06,561 --> 00:10:07,223
[juliet_hahn]: upbringing and you
1612
00:10:07,223 --> 00:10:07,344
[maggie]: of
1613
00:10:07,363 --> 00:10:07,483
[juliet_hahn]: kind
1614
00:10:07,484 --> 00:10:07,625
[maggie]: your
1615
00:10:07,523 --> 00:10:07,784
[juliet_hahn]: of where
1616
00:10:07,825 --> 00:10:08,487
[maggie]: upbringing and you
1617
00:10:08,525 --> 00:10:08,765
[juliet_hahn]: your
1618
00:10:08,647 --> 00:10:09,109
[maggie]: kind of where
1619
00:10:08,925 --> 00:10:09,767
[juliet_hahn]: journey took you
1620
00:10:09,810 --> 00:10:10,031
[maggie]: your
1621
00:10:09,827 --> 00:10:10,328
[juliet_hahn]: to university
1622
00:10:10,192 --> 00:10:10,512
[maggie]: journey
1623
00:10:10,368 --> 00:10:10,909
[juliet_hahn]: of pennsylvania
1624
00:10:10,753 --> 00:10:12,217
[maggie]: took you to university of pennsylvania
1625
00:10:13,142 --> 00:10:13,983
[abbe_greenberg]: i grew up in south
1626
00:10:13,870 --> 00:10:14,131
[maggie]: i grew
1627
00:10:14,083 --> 00:10:14,464
[abbe_greenberg]: florida
1628
00:10:14,171 --> 00:10:15,176
[maggie]: up in south florida
1629
00:10:15,365 --> 00:10:16,547
[abbe_greenberg]: in town called hollywood
1630
00:10:16,070 --> 00:10:17,275
[maggie]: a town called hollywood
1631
00:10:17,449 --> 00:10:17,809
[abbe_greenberg]: and
1632
00:10:17,610 --> 00:10:18,720
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1633
00:10:18,159 --> 00:10:18,501
[maggie]: and
1634
00:10:19,652 --> 00:10:20,193
[abbe_greenberg]: my first
1635
00:10:20,619 --> 00:10:20,919
[maggie]: first
1636
00:10:20,694 --> 00:10:21,355
[abbe_greenberg]: recollection of
1637
00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:21,921
[maggie]: recollection
1638
00:10:21,415 --> 00:10:22,056
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
1639
00:10:21,420 --> 00:10:21,844
[juliet_hahn]: oh
1640
00:10:22,021 --> 00:10:22,783
[maggie]: of anxiety
1641
00:10:22,517 --> 00:10:23,359
[abbe_greenberg]: would be when i was
1642
00:10:23,283 --> 00:10:23,404
[maggie]: would
1643
00:10:23,379 --> 00:10:23,780
[abbe_greenberg]: about five
1644
00:10:23,644 --> 00:10:23,724
[maggie]: be
1645
00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:24,000
[abbe_greenberg]: years
1646
00:10:23,824 --> 00:10:24,085
[maggie]: when i was
1647
00:10:24,060 --> 00:10:24,220
[abbe_greenberg]: old
1648
00:10:24,105 --> 00:10:24,906
[maggie]: about five years old
1649
00:10:25,230 --> 00:10:25,512
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1650
00:10:25,392 --> 00:10:26,273
[abbe_greenberg]: when ever
1651
00:10:26,148 --> 00:10:26,369
[maggie]: when
1652
00:10:26,593 --> 00:10:27,034
[abbe_greenberg]: my family
1653
00:10:26,829 --> 00:10:27,050
[maggie]: ever
1654
00:10:27,054 --> 00:10:27,514
[abbe_greenberg]: would be going
1655
00:10:27,350 --> 00:10:27,771
[maggie]: my family
1656
00:10:27,575 --> 00:10:27,835
[abbe_greenberg]: somewhere
1657
00:10:27,811 --> 00:10:27,931
[maggie]: would
1658
00:10:27,875 --> 00:10:28,035
[abbe_greenberg]: in the
1659
00:10:27,971 --> 00:10:28,252
[maggie]: be going
1660
00:10:28,095 --> 00:10:28,376
[abbe_greenberg]: car
1661
00:10:28,332 --> 00:10:29,113
[maggie]: somewhere in the car
1662
00:10:28,896 --> 00:10:29,637
[abbe_greenberg]: i would run out
1663
00:10:29,654 --> 00:10:29,674
[maggie]: i
1664
00:10:29,677 --> 00:10:29,737
[abbe_greenberg]: to
1665
00:10:29,754 --> 00:10:29,874
[maggie]: would
1666
00:10:29,777 --> 00:10:30,218
[abbe_greenberg]: the garage
1667
00:10:30,075 --> 00:10:30,375
[maggie]: run out
1668
00:10:30,298 --> 00:10:30,579
[abbe_greenberg]: before
1669
00:10:30,435 --> 00:10:30,996
[maggie]: to the garage
1670
00:10:30,639 --> 00:10:31,179
[abbe_greenberg]: anybody else
1671
00:10:31,056 --> 00:10:31,697
[maggie]: before anybody
1672
00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:31,900
[abbe_greenberg]: was even
1673
00:10:31,798 --> 00:10:31,958
[maggie]: else
1674
00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:32,301
[abbe_greenberg]: awake
1675
00:10:32,501 --> 00:10:32,664
[maggie]: even
1676
00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:33,690
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1677
00:10:32,765 --> 00:10:32,989
[maggie]: wait
1678
00:10:32,942 --> 00:10:33,585
[abbe_greenberg]: i would tack
1679
00:10:33,689 --> 00:10:33,891
[maggie]: i would
1680
00:10:33,805 --> 00:10:34,067
[abbe_greenberg]: all the
1681
00:10:34,052 --> 00:10:34,314
[maggie]: tack
1682
00:10:34,127 --> 00:10:34,609
[abbe_greenberg]: tires
1683
00:10:34,556 --> 00:10:35,363
[maggie]: all the tires
1684
00:10:36,390 --> 00:10:36,510
[juliet_hahn]: ye
1685
00:10:36,452 --> 00:10:37,192
[abbe_greenberg]: had like a ritual
1686
00:10:37,129 --> 00:10:37,309
[maggie]: i had
1687
00:10:37,252 --> 00:10:37,453
[abbe_greenberg]: going
1688
00:10:37,369 --> 00:10:37,469
[maggie]: like
1689
00:10:37,415 --> 00:10:37,636
[juliet_hahn]: right
1690
00:10:37,509 --> 00:10:37,530
[maggie]: a
1691
00:10:37,553 --> 00:10:37,653
[abbe_greenberg]: on
1692
00:10:37,610 --> 00:10:37,950
[maggie]: ritual
1693
00:10:37,833 --> 00:10:38,053
[abbe_greenberg]: where
1694
00:10:38,010 --> 00:10:38,411
[maggie]: going on
1695
00:10:38,434 --> 00:10:38,614
[abbe_greenberg]: half
1696
00:10:38,592 --> 00:10:38,752
[maggie]: where
1697
00:10:38,674 --> 00:10:39,274
[abbe_greenberg]: the tires
1698
00:10:39,313 --> 00:10:39,393
[maggie]: at
1699
00:10:39,394 --> 00:10:39,475
[abbe_greenberg]: one
1700
00:10:39,453 --> 00:10:39,533
[maggie]: the
1701
00:10:39,495 --> 00:10:39,555
[abbe_greenberg]: it
1702
00:10:39,573 --> 00:10:40,054
[maggie]: tires
1703
00:10:39,575 --> 00:10:39,775
[abbe_greenberg]: would be
1704
00:10:39,810 --> 00:10:40,032
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1705
00:10:39,835 --> 00:10:40,135
[abbe_greenberg]: a safe
1706
00:10:40,094 --> 00:10:40,195
[maggie]: then
1707
00:10:40,235 --> 00:10:40,375
[abbe_greenberg]: trip
1708
00:10:40,255 --> 00:10:40,455
[maggie]: it would
1709
00:10:40,456 --> 00:10:40,536
[abbe_greenberg]: for
1710
00:10:40,495 --> 00:10:40,555
[maggie]: be
1711
00:10:40,576 --> 00:10:40,656
[abbe_greenberg]: the
1712
00:10:40,595 --> 00:10:40,896
[maggie]: a safe
1713
00:10:40,716 --> 00:10:41,016
[abbe_greenberg]: family
1714
00:10:40,976 --> 00:10:41,758
[maggie]: trip for the family
1715
00:10:41,497 --> 00:10:42,277
[abbe_greenberg]: and it got to the point where
1716
00:10:42,369 --> 00:10:42,569
[maggie]: i got
1717
00:10:42,538 --> 00:10:42,558
[abbe_greenberg]: i
1718
00:10:42,609 --> 00:10:42,730
[maggie]: to the
1719
00:10:42,758 --> 00:10:43,178
[abbe_greenberg]: literally
1720
00:10:42,890 --> 00:10:43,331
[maggie]: where i
1721
00:10:43,338 --> 00:10:43,679
[abbe_greenberg]: couldn't
1722
00:10:43,491 --> 00:10:43,932
[maggie]: literally
1723
00:10:43,859 --> 00:10:44,079
[abbe_greenberg]: get in
1724
00:10:44,112 --> 00:10:44,433
[maggie]: couldn't
1725
00:10:44,130 --> 00:10:44,495
[juliet_hahn]: oh
1726
00:10:44,159 --> 00:10:44,480
[abbe_greenberg]: a car
1727
00:10:44,613 --> 00:10:44,713
[maggie]: get
1728
00:10:44,660 --> 00:10:44,780
[abbe_greenberg]: that
1729
00:10:44,794 --> 00:10:44,834
[maggie]: in
1730
00:10:44,820 --> 00:10:45,080
[abbe_greenberg]: i didn't
1731
00:10:44,894 --> 00:10:45,194
[maggie]: a car
1732
00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:45,420
[abbe_greenberg]: tap the
1733
00:10:45,415 --> 00:10:45,515
[maggie]: that
1734
00:10:45,460 --> 00:10:45,901
[abbe_greenberg]: tires
1735
00:10:45,555 --> 00:10:46,657
[maggie]: i didn't have tires
1736
00:10:46,952 --> 00:10:47,654
[abbe_greenberg]: so that was
1737
00:10:47,709 --> 00:10:47,809
[maggie]: so
1738
00:10:47,714 --> 00:10:48,216
[abbe_greenberg]: the beginning
1739
00:10:48,089 --> 00:10:48,249
[maggie]: that
1740
00:10:48,101 --> 00:10:48,202
[juliet_hahn]: ah
1741
00:10:48,256 --> 00:10:48,316
[abbe_greenberg]: of
1742
00:10:48,290 --> 00:10:48,430
[maggie]: was
1743
00:10:48,376 --> 00:10:48,457
[abbe_greenberg]: my
1744
00:10:48,470 --> 00:10:48,550
[maggie]: the
1745
00:10:48,517 --> 00:10:48,898
[abbe_greenberg]: obsessive
1746
00:10:48,630 --> 00:10:48,971
[maggie]: beginning
1747
00:10:48,938 --> 00:10:49,339
[abbe_greenberg]: compulsive
1748
00:10:49,011 --> 00:10:49,652
[maggie]: of my obsessive
1749
00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:49,721
[abbe_greenberg]: disorder
1750
00:10:49,692 --> 00:10:50,092
[maggie]: compulsive
1751
00:10:49,801 --> 00:10:50,122
[abbe_greenberg]: although i
1752
00:10:50,132 --> 00:10:50,473
[maggie]: disorder
1753
00:10:50,182 --> 00:10:50,463
[abbe_greenberg]: was not
1754
00:10:50,553 --> 00:10:50,774
[maggie]: although
1755
00:10:50,603 --> 00:10:51,045
[abbe_greenberg]: formally
1756
00:10:50,834 --> 00:10:51,214
[maggie]: i was not
1757
00:10:51,105 --> 00:10:51,607
[abbe_greenberg]: diagnosed
1758
00:10:51,354 --> 00:10:51,795
[maggie]: formally
1759
00:10:51,647 --> 00:10:51,847
[abbe_greenberg]: until
1760
00:10:51,855 --> 00:10:52,356
[maggie]: diagnosed
1761
00:10:51,888 --> 00:10:52,409
[abbe_greenberg]: i was forty
1762
00:10:52,396 --> 00:10:52,596
[maggie]: until
1763
00:10:52,449 --> 00:10:52,470
[juliet_hahn]: m
1764
00:10:52,490 --> 00:10:52,650
[abbe_greenberg]: six
1765
00:10:52,636 --> 00:10:53,137
[maggie]: i was forty
1766
00:10:52,951 --> 00:10:53,114
[juliet_hahn]: wow
1767
00:10:53,237 --> 00:10:53,398
[maggie]: six
1768
00:10:54,212 --> 00:10:54,272
[abbe_greenberg]: it
1769
00:10:54,249 --> 00:10:54,389
[maggie]: wow
1770
00:10:54,312 --> 00:10:54,833
[abbe_greenberg]: was a lot
1771
00:10:54,730 --> 00:10:54,810
[maggie]: so
1772
00:10:54,933 --> 00:10:55,013
[abbe_greenberg]: of
1773
00:10:54,970 --> 00:10:55,171
[maggie]: it was
1774
00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:55,346
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1775
00:10:55,231 --> 00:10:55,752
[maggie]: a lot of
1776
00:10:56,010 --> 00:10:56,192
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1777
00:10:56,616 --> 00:10:57,237
[abbe_greenberg]: suffering in
1778
00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:57,900
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1779
00:10:57,277 --> 00:10:57,658
[abbe_greenberg]: between
1780
00:10:57,375 --> 00:10:58,398
[maggie]: suffering between
1781
00:10:58,259 --> 00:10:59,060
[abbe_greenberg]: my first memories
1782
00:10:59,019 --> 00:10:59,319
[maggie]: my first
1783
00:10:59,160 --> 00:10:59,240
[abbe_greenberg]: of
1784
00:10:59,400 --> 00:10:59,841
[maggie]: memories
1785
00:10:59,421 --> 00:10:59,841
[abbe_greenberg]: obsessive
1786
00:10:59,921 --> 00:10:59,981
[maggie]: of
1787
00:10:59,961 --> 00:11:00,282
[abbe_greenberg]: obsessive
1788
00:11:00,241 --> 00:11:00,582
[maggie]: obsession
1789
00:11:00,322 --> 00:11:01,043
[abbe_greenberg]: compulsive behavior
1790
00:11:00,900 --> 00:11:01,162
[juliet_hahn]: oh
1791
00:11:00,943 --> 00:11:01,524
[maggie]: essie compulsive
1792
00:11:01,264 --> 00:11:01,384
[abbe_greenberg]: and
1793
00:11:01,564 --> 00:11:01,865
[maggie]: behavior
1794
00:11:01,664 --> 00:11:01,845
[abbe_greenberg]: when
1795
00:11:02,125 --> 00:11:02,707
[maggie]: and when
1796
00:11:02,666 --> 00:11:04,068
[abbe_greenberg]: a very gifted psychiatrist finally
1797
00:11:03,829 --> 00:11:04,089
[maggie]: if it's
1798
00:11:04,088 --> 00:11:04,208
[abbe_greenberg]: said
1799
00:11:04,129 --> 00:11:04,230
[maggie]: like
1800
00:11:04,249 --> 00:11:04,309
[abbe_greenberg]: to
1801
00:11:04,290 --> 00:11:04,630
[maggie]: hydras
1802
00:11:04,329 --> 00:11:04,629
[abbe_greenberg]: me you know
1803
00:11:04,650 --> 00:11:05,031
[maggie]: finally said
1804
00:11:04,950 --> 00:11:05,250
[abbe_greenberg]: i don't
1805
00:11:05,071 --> 00:11:05,191
[maggie]: to me
1806
00:11:05,190 --> 00:11:06,060
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1807
00:11:05,310 --> 00:11:05,491
[abbe_greenberg]: think
1808
00:11:05,331 --> 00:11:05,452
[maggie]: now
1809
00:11:05,591 --> 00:11:06,352
[abbe_greenberg]: panic order
1810
00:11:06,213 --> 00:11:06,273
[maggie]: in
1811
00:11:06,413 --> 00:11:06,854
[abbe_greenberg]: is your main
1812
00:11:06,794 --> 00:11:07,174
[maggie]: disorder
1813
00:11:06,974 --> 00:11:07,355
[abbe_greenberg]: problem
1814
00:11:07,235 --> 00:11:07,295
[maggie]: is
1815
00:11:07,291 --> 00:11:07,411
[juliet_hahn]: it
1816
00:11:07,335 --> 00:11:07,695
[maggie]: your main
1817
00:11:08,112 --> 00:11:09,474
[juliet_hahn]: well and it's so interesting that you
said that
1818
00:11:09,458 --> 00:11:09,578
[maggie]: well
1819
00:11:09,494 --> 00:11:09,655
[juliet_hahn]: because
1820
00:11:09,639 --> 00:11:09,699
[maggie]: and
1821
00:11:09,675 --> 00:11:09,755
[juliet_hahn]: when
1822
00:11:09,759 --> 00:11:09,839
[maggie]: it's
1823
00:11:09,795 --> 00:11:09,855
[juliet_hahn]: you
1824
00:11:09,879 --> 00:11:09,939
[maggie]: so
1825
00:11:09,895 --> 00:11:10,015
[juliet_hahn]: said
1826
00:11:10,019 --> 00:11:10,340
[maggie]: interesting
1827
00:11:10,035 --> 00:11:10,396
[juliet_hahn]: that i was like
1828
00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:10,440
[maggie]: that
1829
00:11:10,436 --> 00:11:10,496
[juliet_hahn]: oh
1830
00:11:10,460 --> 00:11:10,540
[maggie]: you
1831
00:11:10,536 --> 00:11:10,696
[juliet_hahn]: that's
1832
00:11:10,580 --> 00:11:10,961
[maggie]: said that because
1833
00:11:10,857 --> 00:11:11,197
[juliet_hahn]: sensitive
1834
00:11:10,981 --> 00:11:11,341
[maggie]: when you said
1835
00:11:11,257 --> 00:11:11,738
[juliet_hahn]: compulsive
1836
00:11:11,361 --> 00:11:12,023
[maggie]: that i was like oh that's
1837
00:11:12,119 --> 00:11:12,600
[juliet_hahn]: and i'm not a
1838
00:11:12,563 --> 00:11:13,024
[maggie]: compulsive
1839
00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:12,980
[juliet_hahn]: doctor
1840
00:11:12,662 --> 00:11:12,786
[abbe_greenberg]: yep
1841
00:11:13,060 --> 00:11:13,481
[juliet_hahn]: but it's just
1842
00:11:13,445 --> 00:11:13,545
[maggie]: and
1843
00:11:13,521 --> 00:11:13,601
[juliet_hahn]: one
1844
00:11:13,605 --> 00:11:13,685
[maggie]: i'm
1845
00:11:13,621 --> 00:11:13,842
[juliet_hahn]: of those
1846
00:11:13,745 --> 00:11:13,826
[maggie]: not
1847
00:11:13,862 --> 00:11:14,022
[juliet_hahn]: things
1848
00:11:13,886 --> 00:11:14,306
[maggie]: a doctor
1849
00:11:14,062 --> 00:11:14,302
[juliet_hahn]: that you
1850
00:11:14,386 --> 00:11:14,467
[maggie]: but
1851
00:11:14,423 --> 00:11:14,583
[juliet_hahn]: see
1852
00:11:14,527 --> 00:11:15,168
[maggie]: it's just one of those
1853
00:11:15,064 --> 00:11:15,284
[juliet_hahn]: you know
1854
00:11:15,188 --> 00:11:15,348
[maggie]: things
1855
00:11:15,384 --> 00:11:15,524
[juliet_hahn]: when
1856
00:11:15,388 --> 00:11:15,869
[maggie]: that you see
1857
00:11:16,306 --> 00:11:16,466
[juliet_hahn]: i've
1858
00:11:16,370 --> 00:11:16,590
[maggie]: you know
1859
00:11:16,586 --> 00:11:16,726
[juliet_hahn]: been
1860
00:11:16,690 --> 00:11:16,851
[maggie]: when
1861
00:11:16,766 --> 00:11:17,908
[juliet_hahn]: around children
1862
00:11:17,612 --> 00:11:18,433
[maggie]: i've been around
1863
00:11:18,129 --> 00:11:18,890
[juliet_hahn]: not my and but
1864
00:11:18,814 --> 00:11:19,235
[maggie]: children
1865
00:11:18,990 --> 00:11:19,571
[juliet_hahn]: other children
1866
00:11:19,435 --> 00:11:20,036
[maggie]: not my own
1867
00:11:19,932 --> 00:11:20,433
[juliet_hahn]: in family
1868
00:11:20,116 --> 00:11:20,477
[maggie]: but other
1869
00:11:20,473 --> 00:11:20,653
[juliet_hahn]: where
1870
00:11:20,557 --> 00:11:20,877
[maggie]: children
1871
00:11:20,873 --> 00:11:21,354
[juliet_hahn]: you know they would
1872
00:11:21,238 --> 00:11:21,298
[maggie]: and
1873
00:11:21,414 --> 00:11:21,514
[juliet_hahn]: have
1874
00:11:21,418 --> 00:11:21,759
[maggie]: family
1875
00:11:21,575 --> 00:11:21,915
[juliet_hahn]: to tap
1876
00:11:21,799 --> 00:11:21,959
[maggie]: where
1877
00:11:22,015 --> 00:11:22,216
[juliet_hahn]: things
1878
00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:22,280
[maggie]: you
1879
00:11:22,256 --> 00:11:22,316
[juliet_hahn]: and
1880
00:11:22,300 --> 00:11:22,400
[maggie]: know
1881
00:11:22,356 --> 00:11:22,436
[juliet_hahn]: i'd
1882
00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:22,520
[maggie]: they
1883
00:11:22,476 --> 00:11:22,656
[juliet_hahn]: be like
1884
00:11:22,560 --> 00:11:22,841
[maggie]: would have
1885
00:11:22,817 --> 00:11:22,917
[juliet_hahn]: oh
1886
00:11:22,901 --> 00:11:22,961
[maggie]: to
1887
00:11:22,997 --> 00:11:23,057
[juliet_hahn]: you
1888
00:11:23,021 --> 00:11:23,241
[maggie]: tap
1889
00:11:23,097 --> 00:11:23,337
[juliet_hahn]: know i would
1890
00:11:23,341 --> 00:11:23,542
[maggie]: things
1891
00:11:23,357 --> 00:11:23,538
[juliet_hahn]: say the
1892
00:11:23,562 --> 00:11:23,622
[maggie]: and
1893
00:11:23,598 --> 00:11:23,738
[juliet_hahn]: parent
1894
00:11:23,662 --> 00:11:23,842
[maggie]: i'd be
1895
00:11:23,858 --> 00:11:23,898
[juliet_hahn]: at
1896
00:11:23,882 --> 00:11:23,982
[maggie]: like
1897
00:11:23,918 --> 00:11:24,159
[juliet_hahn]: an they're
1898
00:11:24,143 --> 00:11:24,243
[maggie]: oh
1899
00:11:24,179 --> 00:11:24,259
[juliet_hahn]: like
1900
00:11:24,323 --> 00:11:24,383
[maggie]: you
1901
00:11:24,339 --> 00:11:24,439
[juliet_hahn]: oh
1902
00:11:24,423 --> 00:11:24,764
[maggie]: know i would say
1903
00:11:24,740 --> 00:11:24,840
[juliet_hahn]: it's
1904
00:11:24,784 --> 00:11:24,844
[maggie]: the
1905
00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:25,040
[juliet_hahn]: their
1906
00:11:24,924 --> 00:11:25,044
[maggie]: part
1907
00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:25,501
[juliet_hahn]: obsessive
1908
00:11:25,265 --> 00:11:25,585
[maggie]: an they're like
1909
00:11:25,541 --> 00:11:26,182
[juliet_hahn]: compulsion they have
1910
00:11:26,226 --> 00:11:26,407
[maggie]: they're
1911
00:11:26,242 --> 00:11:26,503
[juliet_hahn]: to touch
1912
00:11:26,447 --> 00:11:27,208
[maggie]: obsessive compulsion
1913
00:11:26,963 --> 00:11:27,224
[juliet_hahn]: five
1914
00:11:27,268 --> 00:11:27,368
[maggie]: they
1915
00:11:27,284 --> 00:11:27,524
[juliet_hahn]: things
1916
00:11:27,408 --> 00:11:27,568
[maggie]: have to
1917
00:11:27,625 --> 00:11:27,845
[juliet_hahn]: before
1918
00:11:27,649 --> 00:11:27,829
[maggie]: touch
1919
00:11:27,885 --> 00:11:28,306
[juliet_hahn]: they can do
1920
00:11:28,269 --> 00:11:28,530
[maggie]: five
1921
00:11:28,366 --> 00:11:28,586
[juliet_hahn]: things
1922
00:11:28,590 --> 00:11:28,850
[maggie]: things
1923
00:11:28,646 --> 00:11:28,706
[juliet_hahn]: and
1924
00:11:28,930 --> 00:11:29,151
[maggie]: before
1925
00:11:29,107 --> 00:11:29,147
[juliet_hahn]: i
1926
00:11:29,191 --> 00:11:29,311
[maggie]: they
1927
00:11:29,247 --> 00:11:29,468
[juliet_hahn]: always
1928
00:11:29,351 --> 00:11:29,591
[maggie]: can do
1929
00:11:29,528 --> 00:11:29,648
[juliet_hahn]: would
1930
00:11:29,671 --> 00:11:29,871
[maggie]: things
1931
00:11:29,708 --> 00:11:29,908
[juliet_hahn]: think
1932
00:11:29,952 --> 00:11:31,213
[maggie]: and i always would think
1933
00:11:31,051 --> 00:11:31,893
[juliet_hahn]: all right you know what
1934
00:11:31,834 --> 00:11:31,974
[maggie]: wow
1935
00:11:32,054 --> 00:11:32,254
[juliet_hahn]: that
1936
00:11:32,355 --> 00:11:32,475
[maggie]: all
1937
00:11:32,455 --> 00:11:32,555
[juliet_hahn]: that
1938
00:11:32,535 --> 00:11:32,715
[maggie]: right
1939
00:11:32,595 --> 00:11:32,716
[juliet_hahn]: has
1940
00:11:32,735 --> 00:11:32,815
[maggie]: you
1941
00:11:32,736 --> 00:11:32,876
[juliet_hahn]: to be
1942
00:11:32,855 --> 00:11:32,975
[maggie]: know
1943
00:11:32,916 --> 00:11:33,458
[juliet_hahn]: exhausting
1944
00:11:33,056 --> 00:11:34,778
[maggie]: what but that has to be exhausting
1945
00:11:35,602 --> 00:11:36,082
[abbe_greenberg]: it's currently
1946
00:11:36,150 --> 00:11:36,960
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1947
00:11:36,162 --> 00:11:36,223
[abbe_greenberg]: as
1948
00:11:36,239 --> 00:11:36,319
[maggie]: it
1949
00:11:36,283 --> 00:11:36,663
[abbe_greenberg]: an adult
1950
00:11:36,499 --> 00:11:36,840
[maggie]: certainly
1951
00:11:36,763 --> 00:11:36,803
[abbe_greenberg]: i
1952
00:11:36,900 --> 00:11:36,980
[maggie]: as
1953
00:11:36,903 --> 00:11:37,164
[abbe_greenberg]: found
1954
00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:37,420
[maggie]: an adult
1955
00:11:37,384 --> 00:11:37,484
[abbe_greenberg]: my
1956
00:11:37,521 --> 00:11:37,561
[maggie]: i
1957
00:11:37,544 --> 00:11:37,925
[abbe_greenberg]: obsessions
1958
00:11:37,681 --> 00:11:37,901
[maggie]: found
1959
00:11:37,965 --> 00:11:38,586
[abbe_greenberg]: and compulsions
1960
00:11:38,181 --> 00:11:38,682
[maggie]: my obsessions
1961
00:11:38,580 --> 00:11:39,420
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
1962
00:11:38,646 --> 00:11:39,106
[abbe_greenberg]: exhausting
1963
00:11:38,722 --> 00:11:39,303
[maggie]: and convulsions
1964
00:11:39,146 --> 00:11:39,327
[abbe_greenberg]: i don't
1965
00:11:39,383 --> 00:11:39,844
[maggie]: exhausting
1966
00:11:39,407 --> 00:11:39,787
[abbe_greenberg]: remember
1967
00:11:39,884 --> 00:11:39,904
[maggie]: i
1968
00:11:39,887 --> 00:11:39,948
[abbe_greenberg]: as
1969
00:11:39,944 --> 00:11:40,064
[maggie]: don't
1970
00:11:40,008 --> 00:11:40,208
[abbe_greenberg]: a kid
1971
00:11:40,164 --> 00:11:40,525
[maggie]: remember
1972
00:11:40,268 --> 00:11:40,608
[abbe_greenberg]: if i did
1973
00:11:40,625 --> 00:11:40,705
[maggie]: as
1974
00:11:40,648 --> 00:11:40,749
[abbe_greenberg]: but
1975
00:11:40,745 --> 00:11:40,765
[maggie]: a
1976
00:11:40,789 --> 00:11:40,809
[abbe_greenberg]: i
1977
00:11:40,805 --> 00:11:40,945
[maggie]: kid
1978
00:11:40,929 --> 00:11:41,009
[abbe_greenberg]: do
1979
00:11:41,025 --> 00:11:41,165
[maggie]: if i
1980
00:11:41,129 --> 00:11:41,389
[abbe_greenberg]: remember
1981
00:11:41,225 --> 00:11:41,486
[maggie]: did but
1982
00:11:41,430 --> 00:11:41,510
[abbe_greenberg]: that
1983
00:11:41,526 --> 00:11:41,546
[maggie]: i
1984
00:11:41,550 --> 00:11:41,590
[abbe_greenberg]: i
1985
00:11:41,646 --> 00:11:41,826
[maggie]: don't
1986
00:11:41,650 --> 00:11:41,890
[abbe_greenberg]: kept it
1987
00:11:41,886 --> 00:11:42,127
[maggie]: remember
1988
00:11:41,930 --> 00:11:42,431
[abbe_greenberg]: to myself
1989
00:11:42,167 --> 00:11:43,148
[maggie]: that i kept to myself
1990
00:11:43,302 --> 00:11:44,143
[abbe_greenberg]: i was very quiet
1991
00:11:44,049 --> 00:11:44,189
[maggie]: i was
1992
00:11:44,183 --> 00:11:44,383
[abbe_greenberg]: about
1993
00:11:44,349 --> 00:11:44,549
[maggie]: very
1994
00:11:44,423 --> 00:11:44,483
[abbe_greenberg]: it
1995
00:11:44,630 --> 00:11:44,890
[maggie]: quiet
1996
00:11:44,884 --> 00:11:44,904
[abbe_greenberg]: i
1997
00:11:44,930 --> 00:11:45,210
[maggie]: about it
1998
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:45,665
[abbe_greenberg]: came from
1999
00:11:45,570 --> 00:11:45,939
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2000
00:11:45,706 --> 00:11:46,046
[abbe_greenberg]: a family
2001
00:11:45,972 --> 00:11:46,152
[maggie]: came
2002
00:11:46,086 --> 00:11:46,307
[abbe_greenberg]: of high
2003
00:11:46,292 --> 00:11:46,412
[maggie]: from
2004
00:11:46,347 --> 00:11:46,847
[abbe_greenberg]: achievers
2005
00:11:46,453 --> 00:11:46,873
[maggie]: a family of
2006
00:11:46,968 --> 00:11:47,689
[abbe_greenberg]: professionals
2007
00:11:47,174 --> 00:11:48,276
[maggie]: chiefs professional
2008
00:11:48,190 --> 00:11:49,191
[abbe_greenberg]: a lot of expectation
2009
00:11:49,017 --> 00:11:49,898
[maggie]: lo of expectation
2010
00:11:49,291 --> 00:11:49,953
[abbe_greenberg]: on us i mean
2011
00:11:50,018 --> 00:11:50,079
[maggie]: on
2012
00:11:50,033 --> 00:11:50,954
[abbe_greenberg]: my father was a military
2013
00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:51,100
[maggie]: my father
2014
00:11:51,014 --> 00:11:51,175
[abbe_greenberg]: guy
2015
00:11:51,140 --> 00:11:51,681
[maggie]: was a military
2016
00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:51,744
[juliet_hahn]: oh
2017
00:11:51,395 --> 00:11:51,736
[abbe_greenberg]: and we had
2018
00:11:51,741 --> 00:11:51,902
[maggie]: guy
2019
00:11:51,756 --> 00:11:52,296
[abbe_greenberg]: a very close
2020
00:11:52,122 --> 00:11:52,362
[maggie]: and we
2021
00:11:52,337 --> 00:11:52,417
[abbe_greenberg]: and
2022
00:11:52,402 --> 00:11:52,483
[maggie]: had
2023
00:11:52,457 --> 00:11:52,677
[abbe_greenberg]: loving
2024
00:11:52,503 --> 00:11:52,683
[maggie]: a very
2025
00:11:52,757 --> 00:11:53,018
[abbe_greenberg]: family
2026
00:11:52,763 --> 00:11:53,003
[maggie]: close
2027
00:11:53,058 --> 00:11:53,278
[abbe_greenberg]: but there
2028
00:11:53,184 --> 00:11:53,424
[maggie]: loving
2029
00:11:53,298 --> 00:11:53,458
[abbe_greenberg]: was a
2030
00:11:53,484 --> 00:11:53,745
[maggie]: family
2031
00:11:53,539 --> 00:11:53,799
[abbe_greenberg]: lot of
2032
00:11:53,785 --> 00:11:53,865
[maggie]: but
2033
00:11:53,859 --> 00:11:54,460
[abbe_greenberg]: expectation
2034
00:11:53,905 --> 00:11:55,187
[maggie]: there was a lot of expectation
2035
00:11:55,081 --> 00:11:55,844
[abbe_greenberg]: so i
2036
00:11:55,828 --> 00:11:55,928
[maggie]: so
2037
00:11:56,125 --> 00:11:56,387
[abbe_greenberg]: didn't
2038
00:11:56,169 --> 00:11:56,190
[juliet_hahn]: m
2039
00:11:56,547 --> 00:11:56,708
[abbe_greenberg]: want
2040
00:11:56,551 --> 00:11:56,591
[maggie]: i
2041
00:11:56,788 --> 00:11:56,869
[abbe_greenberg]: to
2042
00:11:56,872 --> 00:11:57,616
[maggie]: didn't want to
2043
00:11:57,622 --> 00:11:58,267
[abbe_greenberg]: do anything
2044
00:11:58,379 --> 00:11:59,004
[maggie]: do anything
2045
00:11:59,342 --> 00:11:59,802
[abbe_greenberg]: that would
2046
00:12:00,099 --> 00:12:00,219
[maggie]: that
2047
00:12:00,143 --> 00:12:00,323
[abbe_greenberg]: either
2048
00:12:00,299 --> 00:12:00,539
[maggie]: would
2049
00:12:00,383 --> 00:12:00,744
[abbe_greenberg]: upset
2050
00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:01,060
[maggie]: either
2051
00:12:01,024 --> 00:12:01,465
[abbe_greenberg]: anybody
2052
00:12:01,321 --> 00:12:02,182
[maggie]: set anybody
2053
00:12:01,846 --> 00:12:02,567
[abbe_greenberg]: or would make them
2054
00:12:02,603 --> 00:12:02,703
[maggie]: or
2055
00:12:02,627 --> 00:12:03,008
[abbe_greenberg]: think that i
2056
00:12:03,023 --> 00:12:03,144
[maggie]: make
2057
00:12:03,068 --> 00:12:03,829
[abbe_greenberg]: wasn't performing
2058
00:12:03,384 --> 00:12:03,725
[maggie]: think that i
2059
00:12:03,804 --> 00:12:03,906
[juliet_hahn]: ah
2060
00:12:03,805 --> 00:12:03,925
[maggie]: was
2061
00:12:03,889 --> 00:12:05,572
[abbe_greenberg]: as well as i should so you
know
2062
00:12:05,528 --> 00:12:05,628
[maggie]: so
2063
00:12:05,652 --> 00:12:06,393
[abbe_greenberg]: i was destined
2064
00:12:06,129 --> 00:12:06,429
[maggie]: you know i
2065
00:12:06,433 --> 00:12:06,513
[abbe_greenberg]: to
2066
00:12:06,509 --> 00:12:06,609
[maggie]: was
2067
00:12:06,554 --> 00:12:06,754
[abbe_greenberg]: go to
2068
00:12:06,750 --> 00:12:07,130
[maggie]: destined
2069
00:12:06,994 --> 00:12:07,235
[abbe_greenberg]: a place
2070
00:12:07,190 --> 00:12:07,371
[maggie]: to go
2071
00:12:07,295 --> 00:12:07,415
[abbe_greenberg]: like
2072
00:12:07,431 --> 00:12:07,511
[maggie]: to
2073
00:12:07,515 --> 00:12:07,756
[abbe_greenberg]: pen
2074
00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:07,961
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2075
00:12:07,811 --> 00:12:07,972
[maggie]: place
2076
00:12:07,936 --> 00:12:08,897
[abbe_greenberg]: from the time that i was in
2077
00:12:08,873 --> 00:12:08,953
[maggie]: the
2078
00:12:08,938 --> 00:12:09,358
[abbe_greenberg]: kinder garden
2079
00:12:09,270 --> 00:12:09,512
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2080
00:12:09,418 --> 00:12:09,639
[abbe_greenberg]: because
2081
00:12:09,674 --> 00:12:10,115
[maggie]: kinergarden
2082
00:12:09,699 --> 00:12:10,140
[abbe_greenberg]: i was you know
2083
00:12:10,155 --> 00:12:10,616
[maggie]: because i was
2084
00:12:10,821 --> 00:12:11,602
[abbe_greenberg]: i had the opp at of
2085
00:12:11,578 --> 00:12:11,738
[maggie]: i had
2086
00:12:11,662 --> 00:12:12,023
[abbe_greenberg]: maggie
2087
00:12:11,778 --> 00:12:12,740
[maggie]: the offs maggie
2088
00:12:12,764 --> 00:12:13,445
[abbe_greenberg]: maggie's experience
2089
00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:13,220
[maggie]: you
2090
00:12:13,465 --> 00:12:13,866
[abbe_greenberg]: in terms of
2091
00:12:13,841 --> 00:12:14,262
[maggie]: xperiencein
2092
00:12:13,926 --> 00:12:14,286
[abbe_greenberg]: learning i
2093
00:12:14,302 --> 00:12:14,523
[maggie]: terms
2094
00:12:14,327 --> 00:12:14,467
[abbe_greenberg]: have
2095
00:12:14,490 --> 00:12:14,837
[juliet_hahn]: ye
2096
00:12:14,507 --> 00:12:14,527
[abbe_greenberg]: a
2097
00:12:14,563 --> 00:12:14,603
[maggie]: of
2098
00:12:14,587 --> 00:12:14,787
[abbe_greenberg]: very
2099
00:12:14,683 --> 00:12:14,943
[maggie]: learning
2100
00:12:14,887 --> 00:12:15,088
[abbe_greenberg]: neuro
2101
00:12:15,003 --> 00:12:15,204
[maggie]: i have
2102
00:12:15,188 --> 00:12:15,508
[abbe_greenberg]: typical
2103
00:12:15,244 --> 00:12:15,544
[maggie]: a very
2104
00:12:15,589 --> 00:12:15,789
[abbe_greenberg]: brain
2105
00:12:15,624 --> 00:12:15,825
[maggie]: nero
2106
00:12:15,869 --> 00:12:15,949
[abbe_greenberg]: for
2107
00:12:15,945 --> 00:12:16,245
[maggie]: typical
2108
00:12:16,049 --> 00:12:16,370
[abbe_greenberg]: learning
2109
00:12:16,326 --> 00:12:16,546
[maggie]: brain
2110
00:12:16,570 --> 00:12:16,731
[abbe_greenberg]: very
2111
00:12:16,606 --> 00:12:17,087
[maggie]: from learning
2112
00:12:16,811 --> 00:12:17,392
[abbe_greenberg]: fast brain
2113
00:12:17,307 --> 00:12:17,488
[maggie]: very
2114
00:12:17,472 --> 00:12:17,592
[abbe_greenberg]: for
2115
00:12:17,568 --> 00:12:17,788
[maggie]: fast
2116
00:12:17,632 --> 00:12:17,973
[abbe_greenberg]: learning
2117
00:12:17,948 --> 00:12:18,690
[maggie]: brain for learning
2118
00:12:18,554 --> 00:12:19,074
[abbe_greenberg]: and my
2119
00:12:19,331 --> 00:12:19,831
[maggie]: and my
2120
00:12:19,856 --> 00:12:20,697
[abbe_greenberg]: the intelligences that
2121
00:12:20,613 --> 00:12:20,693
[maggie]: the
2122
00:12:20,737 --> 00:12:20,817
[abbe_greenberg]: are
2123
00:12:20,753 --> 00:12:21,314
[maggie]: intelligences
2124
00:12:20,857 --> 00:12:21,358
[abbe_greenberg]: strong for me
2125
00:12:21,374 --> 00:12:21,474
[maggie]: that
2126
00:12:21,418 --> 00:12:21,458
[abbe_greenberg]: or
2127
00:12:21,514 --> 00:12:21,594
[maggie]: are
2128
00:12:21,539 --> 00:12:21,599
[abbe_greenberg]: the
2129
00:12:21,614 --> 00:12:21,855
[maggie]: strong
2130
00:12:21,739 --> 00:12:21,899
[abbe_greenberg]: ones
2131
00:12:21,935 --> 00:12:22,015
[maggie]: for
2132
00:12:21,999 --> 00:12:22,200
[abbe_greenberg]: that
2133
00:12:22,075 --> 00:12:22,376
[maggie]: me or the
2134
00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:22,460
[abbe_greenberg]: the
2135
00:12:22,496 --> 00:12:22,656
[maggie]: ones
2136
00:12:22,500 --> 00:12:22,680
[abbe_greenberg]: west
2137
00:12:22,689 --> 00:12:22,710
[juliet_hahn]: m
2138
00:12:22,776 --> 00:12:22,937
[maggie]: that
2139
00:12:22,781 --> 00:12:23,261
[abbe_greenberg]: celebrate
2140
00:12:23,117 --> 00:12:23,437
[maggie]: the west
2141
00:12:23,502 --> 00:12:23,642
[abbe_greenberg]: right
2142
00:12:23,558 --> 00:12:23,998
[maggie]: celebrate
2143
00:12:23,722 --> 00:12:24,184
[abbe_greenberg]: linguistic
2144
00:12:24,259 --> 00:12:24,419
[maggie]: right
2145
00:12:24,264 --> 00:12:24,985
[abbe_greenberg]: and mathematical
2146
00:12:24,479 --> 00:12:25,100
[maggie]: linguistic and
2147
00:12:25,086 --> 00:12:25,186
[abbe_greenberg]: so
2148
00:12:25,140 --> 00:12:25,721
[maggie]: mathematical
2149
00:12:25,467 --> 00:12:25,968
[abbe_greenberg]: i kind
2150
00:12:25,861 --> 00:12:25,942
[maggie]: so
2151
00:12:26,028 --> 00:12:26,329
[abbe_greenberg]: of was
2152
00:12:26,222 --> 00:12:26,262
[maggie]: i
2153
00:12:26,369 --> 00:12:26,449
[abbe_greenberg]: the
2154
00:12:26,523 --> 00:12:26,723
[maggie]: kind
2155
00:12:26,569 --> 00:12:26,810
[abbe_greenberg]: s a t
2156
00:12:26,803 --> 00:12:27,104
[maggie]: of was
2157
00:12:26,990 --> 00:12:27,151
[abbe_greenberg]: girl
2158
00:12:27,164 --> 00:12:27,264
[maggie]: the
2159
00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:27,481
[juliet_hahn]: right
2160
00:12:27,384 --> 00:12:27,624
[maggie]: s a t
2161
00:12:28,754 --> 00:12:29,857
[abbe_greenberg]: it's a very different experience
2162
00:12:29,548 --> 00:12:29,688
[maggie]: it's
2163
00:12:29,700 --> 00:12:29,980
[juliet_hahn]: oh
2164
00:12:29,748 --> 00:12:29,988
[maggie]: a very
2165
00:12:29,897 --> 00:12:29,997
[abbe_greenberg]: from
2166
00:12:30,028 --> 00:12:30,249
[maggie]: different
2167
00:12:30,138 --> 00:12:30,158
[abbe_greenberg]: a
2168
00:12:30,269 --> 00:12:30,970
[maggie]: experience from a
2169
00:12:32,409 --> 00:12:32,429
[juliet_hahn]: i
2170
00:12:32,503 --> 00:12:33,585
[abbe_greenberg]: but had plenty
2171
00:12:33,374 --> 00:12:33,594
[maggie]: but
2172
00:12:33,685 --> 00:12:33,745
[abbe_greenberg]: of
2173
00:12:33,693 --> 00:12:33,755
[juliet_hahn]: ah
2174
00:12:33,805 --> 00:12:33,885
[abbe_greenberg]: my
2175
00:12:33,835 --> 00:12:34,055
[maggie]: had
2176
00:12:34,025 --> 00:12:34,206
[abbe_greenberg]: own
2177
00:12:34,155 --> 00:12:34,436
[maggie]: plenty
2178
00:12:34,346 --> 00:12:34,787
[abbe_greenberg]: issues
2179
00:12:34,496 --> 00:12:35,598
[maggie]: of my own issues
2180
00:12:35,247 --> 00:12:35,788
[abbe_greenberg]: to deal with
2181
00:12:35,758 --> 00:12:35,838
[maggie]: to
2182
00:12:36,089 --> 00:12:36,189
[abbe_greenberg]: with
2183
00:12:36,179 --> 00:12:36,319
[maggie]: deal
2184
00:12:36,249 --> 00:12:36,710
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
2185
00:12:36,419 --> 00:12:37,521
[maggie]: with anxiety
2186
00:12:38,092 --> 00:12:38,313
[abbe_greenberg]: and
2187
00:12:38,883 --> 00:12:39,104
[maggie]: and
2188
00:12:39,034 --> 00:12:39,775
[abbe_greenberg]: so yeah i
2189
00:12:39,825 --> 00:12:39,925
[maggie]: so
2190
00:12:39,875 --> 00:12:40,376
[abbe_greenberg]: did i ended
2191
00:12:40,205 --> 00:12:40,346
[maggie]: yeah
2192
00:12:40,416 --> 00:12:40,556
[abbe_greenberg]: up at
2193
00:12:40,546 --> 00:12:40,566
[maggie]: i
2194
00:12:40,576 --> 00:12:40,636
[abbe_greenberg]: the
2195
00:12:40,666 --> 00:12:40,806
[maggie]: did
2196
00:12:40,677 --> 00:12:40,997
[abbe_greenberg]: university
2197
00:12:40,846 --> 00:12:41,127
[maggie]: i ended
2198
00:12:41,037 --> 00:12:41,718
[abbe_greenberg]: of pensylvania
2199
00:12:41,207 --> 00:12:42,469
[maggie]: up the university of pensylvania
2200
00:12:42,359 --> 00:12:43,261
[abbe_greenberg]: where mag
2201
00:12:43,130 --> 00:12:43,451
[maggie]: where
2202
00:12:43,381 --> 00:12:43,581
[abbe_greenberg]: and i
2203
00:12:43,851 --> 00:12:44,212
[maggie]: max and
2204
00:12:44,323 --> 00:12:44,463
[abbe_greenberg]: were
2205
00:12:44,352 --> 00:12:44,412
[maggie]: i
2206
00:12:44,523 --> 00:12:45,385
[abbe_greenberg]: our world's collided
2207
00:12:45,134 --> 00:12:45,715
[maggie]: were our world's
2208
00:12:45,465 --> 00:12:45,987
[abbe_greenberg]: thank goodness
2209
00:12:45,755 --> 00:12:46,155
[maggie]: collided
2210
00:12:46,468 --> 00:12:47,730
[abbe_greenberg]: as she saved my life
2211
00:12:47,658 --> 00:12:48,439
[maggie]: she's safe like
2212
00:12:48,372 --> 00:12:49,185
[abbe_greenberg]: i think i saved turks
2213
00:12:49,100 --> 00:12:49,381
[maggie]: i think i
2214
00:12:49,370 --> 00:12:49,551
[juliet_hahn]: right
2215
00:12:49,461 --> 00:12:49,581
[maggie]: said
2216
00:12:49,631 --> 00:12:49,711
[juliet_hahn]: and
2217
00:12:49,661 --> 00:12:49,922
[maggie]: there's
2218
00:12:49,993 --> 00:12:50,095
[abbe_greenberg]: up
2219
00:12:50,031 --> 00:12:50,652
[juliet_hahn]: yeah i know i
2220
00:12:50,643 --> 00:12:50,803
[maggie]: right
2221
00:12:50,692 --> 00:12:50,993
[juliet_hahn]: can't wait
2222
00:12:50,903 --> 00:12:50,983
[maggie]: and
2223
00:12:51,013 --> 00:12:51,313
[juliet_hahn]: to dive
2224
00:12:51,304 --> 00:12:51,444
[maggie]: yeah
2225
00:12:51,354 --> 00:12:51,694
[juliet_hahn]: into that
2226
00:12:51,564 --> 00:12:51,725
[maggie]: i know
2227
00:12:51,754 --> 00:12:52,115
[juliet_hahn]: story
2228
00:12:51,885 --> 00:12:52,786
[maggie]: i can't wait to dive into
2229
00:12:52,636 --> 00:12:52,816
[juliet_hahn]: more
2230
00:12:52,826 --> 00:12:52,947
[maggie]: that
2231
00:12:52,856 --> 00:12:53,036
[juliet_hahn]: but i
2232
00:12:53,027 --> 00:12:53,387
[maggie]: story
2233
00:12:53,116 --> 00:12:53,998
[juliet_hahn]: do have two questions
2234
00:12:53,908 --> 00:12:54,068
[maggie]: more
2235
00:12:54,078 --> 00:12:54,158
[juliet_hahn]: for
2236
00:12:54,129 --> 00:12:54,649
[maggie]: but i do have
2237
00:12:54,699 --> 00:12:54,779
[juliet_hahn]: one
2238
00:12:54,770 --> 00:12:54,890
[maggie]: two
2239
00:12:54,819 --> 00:12:55,080
[juliet_hahn]: question
2240
00:12:54,930 --> 00:12:55,270
[maggie]: questions
2241
00:12:55,140 --> 00:12:55,360
[juliet_hahn]: for each
2242
00:12:55,351 --> 00:12:55,431
[maggie]: for
2243
00:12:55,380 --> 00:12:56,081
[juliet_hahn]: of you so that that's
2244
00:12:55,972 --> 00:12:56,392
[maggie]: one question
2245
00:12:56,121 --> 00:12:56,582
[juliet_hahn]: two questions
2246
00:12:56,472 --> 00:12:57,935
[maggie]: for each of you so that that's
two questions
2247
00:12:57,844 --> 00:12:59,307
[juliet_hahn]: so i'm going to go with maggie
first
2248
00:12:59,177 --> 00:12:59,638
[maggie]: so i'm going to
2249
00:12:59,647 --> 00:12:59,727
[juliet_hahn]: so
2250
00:12:59,678 --> 00:13:00,058
[maggie]: go with me
2251
00:13:00,328 --> 00:13:00,449
[juliet_hahn]: who
2252
00:13:00,379 --> 00:13:00,599
[maggie]: first
2253
00:13:00,649 --> 00:13:00,849
[juliet_hahn]: in your
2254
00:13:00,940 --> 00:13:01,020
[maggie]: so
2255
00:13:01,010 --> 00:13:01,512
[juliet_hahn]: amily or
2256
00:13:01,621 --> 00:13:01,761
[maggie]: who
2257
00:13:01,713 --> 00:13:02,095
[juliet_hahn]: do you know
2258
00:13:01,982 --> 00:13:02,202
[maggie]: in your
2259
00:13:02,216 --> 00:13:02,276
[juliet_hahn]: of
2260
00:13:02,262 --> 00:13:02,583
[maggie]: family
2261
00:13:02,376 --> 00:13:02,778
[juliet_hahn]: any other
2262
00:13:02,803 --> 00:13:03,444
[maggie]: or do you know
2263
00:13:03,361 --> 00:13:03,763
[juliet_hahn]: individual
2264
00:13:03,705 --> 00:13:03,845
[maggie]: any
2265
00:13:03,803 --> 00:13:03,924
[juliet_hahn]: that
2266
00:13:03,925 --> 00:13:04,105
[maggie]: other
2267
00:13:04,004 --> 00:13:04,667
[juliet_hahn]: is dislexsic
2268
00:13:04,686 --> 00:13:07,651
[maggie]: individual that is dislexicodislex sic
2269
00:13:07,630 --> 00:13:08,854
[juliet_hahn]: and has anxiety you know
2270
00:13:08,953 --> 00:13:14,489
[maggie]: and has anxiety well my son finitely
has both my sons definitely have a degree
2271
00:13:14,529 --> 00:13:18,942
[maggie]: of dislexia one of them probably more
than the other but both of them have
2272
00:13:19,003 --> 00:13:24,512
[maggie]: dislexia but but anxiety was it was
in the air in my house
2273
00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,470
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2274
00:13:25,093 --> 00:13:27,397
[maggie]: you know like that's what i'd like
to say it's like you breathed
2275
00:13:27,411 --> 00:13:27,631
[juliet_hahn]: right
2276
00:13:27,477 --> 00:13:28,258
[maggie]: in anxiety
2277
00:13:28,112 --> 00:13:30,296
[juliet_hahn]: so so did either of your parents
have dislexi
2278
00:13:30,061 --> 00:13:30,402
[maggie]: did either
2279
00:13:30,396 --> 00:13:30,456
[juliet_hahn]: or
2280
00:13:30,462 --> 00:13:30,502
[maggie]: of
2281
00:13:30,536 --> 00:13:30,556
[juliet_hahn]: a
2282
00:13:30,542 --> 00:13:30,642
[maggie]: your
2283
00:13:30,616 --> 00:13:31,237
[juliet_hahn]: grandparent
2284
00:13:30,702 --> 00:13:31,443
[maggie]: parents have to sex
2285
00:13:31,358 --> 00:13:31,698
[juliet_hahn]: or like an
2286
00:13:32,064 --> 00:13:36,812
[maggie]: they d or like well i don't
know like the grandparents were so much older
2287
00:13:37,113 --> 00:13:40,579
[maggie]: and they didn't all go to i
don't think they all went to school probably
2288
00:13:40,939 --> 00:13:41,260
[maggie]: for too
2289
00:13:41,303 --> 00:13:41,544
[juliet_hahn]: right
2290
00:13:41,340 --> 00:13:47,049
[maggie]: long you know especially on my mom's
side my dad's side definitely not definitely we're
2291
00:13:47,129 --> 00:13:50,836
[maggie]: very academic so i don't i don't
really know if my parents
2292
00:13:50,700 --> 00:13:51,960
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2293
00:13:50,876 --> 00:13:54,502
[maggie]: are both only children they both lost
a parent at a very young
2294
00:13:54,513 --> 00:13:54,675
[abbe_greenberg]: yes
2295
00:13:54,622 --> 00:13:57,146
[maggie]: age so it's like the whole family
that
2296
00:13:57,090 --> 00:13:57,291
[juliet_hahn]: oh
2297
00:13:57,206 --> 00:14:00,251
[maggie]: kind of stuff in the family it's
really hard to figure a lot of it
2298
00:14:00,370 --> 00:14:00,571
[juliet_hahn]: which
2299
00:14:00,371 --> 00:14:00,512
[maggie]: out
2300
00:14:01,092 --> 00:14:01,312
[juliet_hahn]: right
2301
00:14:01,133 --> 00:14:01,834
[maggie]: in terms of those
2302
00:14:01,693 --> 00:14:01,973
[juliet_hahn]: which is
2303
00:14:01,914 --> 00:14:02,174
[maggie]: things
2304
00:14:02,033 --> 00:14:02,534
[juliet_hahn]: interesting because
2305
00:14:02,996 --> 00:14:03,136
[maggie]: which
2306
00:14:03,155 --> 00:14:03,215
[juliet_hahn]: now
2307
00:14:03,196 --> 00:14:03,276
[maggie]: is
2308
00:14:03,295 --> 00:14:03,335
[juliet_hahn]: i
2309
00:14:03,316 --> 00:14:03,657
[maggie]: interesting
2310
00:14:03,456 --> 00:14:03,636
[juliet_hahn]: have
2311
00:14:03,677 --> 00:14:04,378
[maggie]: bayou
2312
00:14:03,716 --> 00:14:04,517
[juliet_hahn]: talked to other people
2313
00:14:04,418 --> 00:14:04,538
[maggie]: know
2314
00:14:04,698 --> 00:14:04,798
[juliet_hahn]: on
2315
00:14:04,719 --> 00:14:05,200
[maggie]: have talked
2316
00:14:05,158 --> 00:14:05,259
[juliet_hahn]: the
2317
00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:05,300
[maggie]: to
2318
00:14:05,319 --> 00:14:05,499
[juliet_hahn]: show
2319
00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:05,801
[maggie]: other people
2320
00:14:05,599 --> 00:14:05,960
[juliet_hahn]: that they're
2321
00:14:05,981 --> 00:14:06,081
[maggie]: on
2322
00:14:06,020 --> 00:14:06,461
[juliet_hahn]: like no i
2323
00:14:06,442 --> 00:14:06,542
[maggie]: the
2324
00:14:06,541 --> 00:14:06,741
[juliet_hahn]: didn't
2325
00:14:06,602 --> 00:14:06,782
[maggie]: show
2326
00:14:06,781 --> 00:14:06,921
[juliet_hahn]: know
2327
00:14:06,902 --> 00:14:07,023
[maggie]: that
2328
00:14:07,001 --> 00:14:07,262
[juliet_hahn]: anyone
2329
00:14:07,063 --> 00:14:07,403
[maggie]: they're like
2330
00:14:07,342 --> 00:14:07,482
[juliet_hahn]: else
2331
00:14:07,483 --> 00:14:07,563
[maggie]: no
2332
00:14:07,622 --> 00:14:07,663
[juliet_hahn]: in
2333
00:14:07,724 --> 00:14:07,744
[maggie]: i
2334
00:14:07,743 --> 00:14:07,803
[juliet_hahn]: my
2335
00:14:07,844 --> 00:14:08,064
[maggie]: didn't
2336
00:14:07,883 --> 00:14:08,143
[juliet_hahn]: family
2337
00:14:08,104 --> 00:14:08,225
[maggie]: know
2338
00:14:08,163 --> 00:14:08,364
[juliet_hahn]: that was
2339
00:14:08,325 --> 00:14:08,585
[maggie]: anyone
2340
00:14:08,444 --> 00:14:08,784
[juliet_hahn]: dislike
2341
00:14:08,665 --> 00:14:08,786
[maggie]: else
2342
00:14:08,865 --> 00:14:08,965
[juliet_hahn]: like
2343
00:14:08,946 --> 00:14:09,126
[maggie]: in my
2344
00:14:09,145 --> 00:14:09,225
[juliet_hahn]: one
2345
00:14:09,206 --> 00:14:09,467
[maggie]: family
2346
00:14:09,245 --> 00:14:09,546
[juliet_hahn]: thing that
2347
00:14:09,507 --> 00:14:09,587
[maggie]: that
2348
00:14:09,586 --> 00:14:09,626
[juliet_hahn]: i
2349
00:14:09,627 --> 00:14:10,148
[maggie]: was just like
2350
00:14:10,127 --> 00:14:10,267
[juliet_hahn]: think
2351
00:14:10,208 --> 00:14:10,308
[maggie]: like
2352
00:14:10,367 --> 00:14:10,487
[juliet_hahn]: for
2353
00:14:10,488 --> 00:14:10,709
[maggie]: one thing
2354
00:14:10,627 --> 00:14:10,808
[juliet_hahn]: my
2355
00:14:10,749 --> 00:14:10,949
[maggie]: that i
2356
00:14:10,948 --> 00:14:11,208
[juliet_hahn]: son
2357
00:14:11,430 --> 00:14:12,512
[maggie]: think for my son
2358
00:14:12,350 --> 00:14:13,192
[juliet_hahn]: it's helpful that
2359
00:14:13,333 --> 00:14:13,533
[maggie]: is
2360
00:14:13,452 --> 00:14:13,492
[juliet_hahn]: i
2361
00:14:13,654 --> 00:14:13,774
[maggie]: it's
2362
00:14:13,673 --> 00:14:14,153
[juliet_hahn]: understand
2363
00:14:13,834 --> 00:14:14,195
[maggie]: helpful
2364
00:14:14,193 --> 00:14:14,374
[juliet_hahn]: the way
2365
00:14:14,335 --> 00:14:14,495
[maggie]: that
2366
00:14:14,454 --> 00:14:14,834
[juliet_hahn]: he learns
2367
00:14:14,775 --> 00:14:14,816
[maggie]: i
2368
00:14:14,955 --> 00:14:15,055
[juliet_hahn]: my
2369
00:14:14,976 --> 00:14:15,457
[maggie]: understand
2370
00:14:15,155 --> 00:14:15,536
[juliet_hahn]: dad was
2371
00:14:15,497 --> 00:14:15,577
[maggie]: the
2372
00:14:15,596 --> 00:14:15,716
[juliet_hahn]: just
2373
00:14:15,617 --> 00:14:15,697
[maggie]: way
2374
00:14:15,756 --> 00:14:15,896
[juliet_hahn]: like
2375
00:14:15,757 --> 00:14:16,158
[maggie]: he learns
2376
00:14:15,936 --> 00:14:16,597
[juliet_hahn]: like my sister's
2377
00:14:16,258 --> 00:14:16,558
[maggie]: my dad
2378
00:14:16,637 --> 00:14:16,978
[juliet_hahn]: dislike
2379
00:14:16,719 --> 00:14:17,180
[maggie]: just just looks
2380
00:14:17,098 --> 00:14:17,178
[juliet_hahn]: ice
2381
00:14:17,220 --> 00:14:17,440
[maggie]: like my
2382
00:14:17,519 --> 00:14:17,619
[juliet_hahn]: so
2383
00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:18,882
[maggie]: sisters disliingso
2384
00:14:18,100 --> 00:14:19,522
[juliet_hahn]: we have a lot and i'm sure
there's
2385
00:14:19,363 --> 00:14:19,624
[maggie]: we have
2386
00:14:19,642 --> 00:14:19,923
[juliet_hahn]: a lot of
2387
00:14:19,884 --> 00:14:19,904
[maggie]: a
2388
00:14:19,963 --> 00:14:20,504
[juliet_hahn]: grandparents
2389
00:14:19,984 --> 00:14:20,585
[maggie]: lot and i'm sure
2390
00:14:20,524 --> 00:14:20,604
[juliet_hahn]: you
2391
00:14:20,625 --> 00:14:20,846
[maggie]: there's
2392
00:14:20,664 --> 00:14:20,925
[juliet_hahn]: now i
2393
00:14:20,946 --> 00:14:20,966
[maggie]: a
2394
00:14:20,965 --> 00:14:21,185
[juliet_hahn]: shouldn't
2395
00:14:21,026 --> 00:14:21,226
[maggie]: lot of
2396
00:14:21,225 --> 00:14:21,285
[juliet_hahn]: say
2397
00:14:21,266 --> 00:14:21,767
[maggie]: grandparents
2398
00:14:21,305 --> 00:14:21,746
[juliet_hahn]: a lot there's
2399
00:14:21,807 --> 00:14:21,867
[maggie]: you
2400
00:14:21,866 --> 00:14:22,167
[juliet_hahn]: definitely
2401
00:14:21,907 --> 00:14:22,749
[maggie]: know i should say a lot
2402
00:14:22,748 --> 00:14:22,828
[juliet_hahn]: know
2403
00:14:22,829 --> 00:14:23,029
[maggie]: there's
2404
00:14:22,988 --> 00:14:23,168
[juliet_hahn]: i think
2405
00:14:23,129 --> 00:14:23,470
[maggie]: definitely
2406
00:14:23,208 --> 00:14:24,330
[juliet_hahn]: it was my grandma my dad
2407
00:14:24,271 --> 00:14:24,452
[maggie]: i think
2408
00:14:24,430 --> 00:14:24,611
[juliet_hahn]: side
2409
00:14:24,472 --> 00:14:24,652
[maggie]: there's
2410
00:14:24,651 --> 00:14:24,771
[juliet_hahn]: that
2411
00:14:24,692 --> 00:14:24,772
[maggie]: my
2412
00:14:24,811 --> 00:14:24,931
[juliet_hahn]: there
2413
00:14:24,832 --> 00:14:25,233
[maggie]: grandmother
2414
00:14:24,951 --> 00:14:25,272
[juliet_hahn]: was no
2415
00:14:25,273 --> 00:14:25,433
[maggie]: on my
2416
00:14:25,392 --> 00:14:25,693
[juliet_hahn]: thoughts
2417
00:14:25,493 --> 00:14:25,934
[maggie]: dad side
2418
00:14:25,753 --> 00:14:26,093
[juliet_hahn]: that maybe
2419
00:14:25,974 --> 00:14:26,074
[maggie]: that
2420
00:14:26,133 --> 00:14:26,233
[juliet_hahn]: she
2421
00:14:26,134 --> 00:14:26,355
[maggie]: there's
2422
00:14:26,274 --> 00:14:26,374
[juliet_hahn]: was
2423
00:14:26,415 --> 00:14:26,475
[maggie]: you
2424
00:14:26,434 --> 00:14:26,554
[juliet_hahn]: just
2425
00:14:26,515 --> 00:14:26,615
[maggie]: know
2426
00:14:26,594 --> 00:14:26,714
[juliet_hahn]: like
2427
00:14:26,715 --> 00:14:26,976
[maggie]: thought
2428
00:14:26,794 --> 00:14:26,895
[juliet_hahn]: like
2429
00:14:27,056 --> 00:14:27,677
[maggie]: that maybe she was
2430
00:14:27,676 --> 00:14:27,796
[juliet_hahn]: so
2431
00:14:27,737 --> 00:14:28,178
[maggie]: dislexic
2432
00:14:28,798 --> 00:14:28,998
[juliet_hahn]: there's
2433
00:14:28,964 --> 00:14:29,086
[maggie]: so
2434
00:14:29,038 --> 00:14:30,160
[juliet_hahn]: an understanding level
2435
00:14:30,109 --> 00:14:30,309
[maggie]: there's
2436
00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:30,340
[juliet_hahn]: and i
2437
00:14:30,349 --> 00:14:30,409
[maggie]: an
2438
00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:30,541
[juliet_hahn]: think
2439
00:14:30,469 --> 00:14:31,191
[maggie]: understanding
2440
00:14:30,581 --> 00:14:31,242
[juliet_hahn]: that's a lot of times
2441
00:14:31,251 --> 00:14:31,451
[maggie]: level
2442
00:14:31,282 --> 00:14:31,522
[juliet_hahn]: when you
2443
00:14:31,511 --> 00:14:31,591
[maggie]: and
2444
00:14:31,562 --> 00:14:31,743
[juliet_hahn]: learn
2445
00:14:31,631 --> 00:14:31,852
[maggie]: i think
2446
00:14:31,823 --> 00:14:32,083
[juliet_hahn]: different
2447
00:14:31,872 --> 00:14:32,092
[maggie]: that's a
2448
00:14:32,123 --> 00:14:32,163
[juliet_hahn]: or
2449
00:14:32,132 --> 00:14:32,232
[maggie]: lot
2450
00:14:32,223 --> 00:14:32,324
[juliet_hahn]: you
2451
00:14:32,272 --> 00:14:32,513
[maggie]: of times
2452
00:14:32,364 --> 00:14:33,045
[juliet_hahn]: have anxiety
2453
00:14:32,553 --> 00:14:33,354
[maggie]: when you learn different
2454
00:14:33,165 --> 00:14:33,345
[juliet_hahn]: or you
2455
00:14:33,394 --> 00:14:33,454
[maggie]: or
2456
00:14:33,445 --> 00:14:33,666
[juliet_hahn]: have
2457
00:14:33,494 --> 00:14:33,735
[maggie]: you have
2458
00:14:33,766 --> 00:14:34,187
[juliet_hahn]: something
2459
00:14:33,815 --> 00:14:34,496
[maggie]: anxiety or
2460
00:14:34,527 --> 00:14:34,708
[juliet_hahn]: that's
2461
00:14:34,556 --> 00:14:34,957
[maggie]: you have
2462
00:14:34,828 --> 00:14:35,148
[juliet_hahn]: different
2463
00:14:35,057 --> 00:14:35,458
[maggie]: something
2464
00:14:35,208 --> 00:14:35,369
[juliet_hahn]: than
2465
00:14:35,798 --> 00:14:35,999
[maggie]: that's
2466
00:14:35,910 --> 00:14:36,290
[juliet_hahn]: city
2467
00:14:36,099 --> 00:14:36,660
[maggie]: different than
2468
00:14:36,691 --> 00:14:37,031
[juliet_hahn]: if there's
2469
00:14:37,060 --> 00:14:37,601
[maggie]: society
2470
00:14:37,072 --> 00:14:38,354
[juliet_hahn]: someone that understands
2471
00:14:37,982 --> 00:14:38,643
[maggie]: if there's someone
2472
00:14:38,414 --> 00:14:38,774
[juliet_hahn]: you and they
2473
00:14:38,683 --> 00:14:38,803
[maggie]: that
2474
00:14:38,814 --> 00:14:38,915
[juliet_hahn]: could
2475
00:14:38,923 --> 00:14:39,645
[maggie]: understands
2476
00:14:38,975 --> 00:14:39,736
[juliet_hahn]: say hey dude
2477
00:14:39,725 --> 00:14:39,845
[maggie]: you
2478
00:14:39,836 --> 00:14:39,876
[juliet_hahn]: i
2479
00:14:39,905 --> 00:14:39,965
[maggie]: and
2480
00:14:39,976 --> 00:14:40,137
[juliet_hahn]: know
2481
00:14:40,045 --> 00:14:40,726
[maggie]: i could say hey
2482
00:14:40,838 --> 00:14:40,998
[juliet_hahn]: that
2483
00:14:40,847 --> 00:14:41,067
[maggie]: dude
2484
00:14:41,118 --> 00:14:41,319
[juliet_hahn]: school
2485
00:14:41,147 --> 00:14:41,448
[maggie]: i know
2486
00:14:41,359 --> 00:14:41,980
[juliet_hahn]: is really hard
2487
00:14:42,129 --> 00:14:42,590
[maggie]: that school
2488
00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:42,761
[juliet_hahn]: i'm really
2489
00:14:42,630 --> 00:14:42,930
[maggie]: is really
2490
00:14:42,821 --> 00:14:43,102
[juliet_hahn]: sorry
2491
00:14:42,990 --> 00:14:43,251
[maggie]: hard
2492
00:14:43,322 --> 00:14:44,103
[juliet_hahn]: it was hard for me
2493
00:14:44,092 --> 00:14:44,172
[maggie]: so
2494
00:14:44,264 --> 00:14:44,624
[juliet_hahn]: and this is
2495
00:14:44,593 --> 00:14:44,653
[maggie]: it
2496
00:14:44,684 --> 00:14:44,764
[juliet_hahn]: how
2497
00:14:44,693 --> 00:14:45,034
[maggie]: was hard
2498
00:14:44,925 --> 00:14:45,185
[juliet_hahn]: i got
2499
00:14:45,114 --> 00:14:45,234
[maggie]: for
2500
00:14:45,245 --> 00:14:45,445
[juliet_hahn]: through
2501
00:14:45,274 --> 00:14:45,374
[maggie]: me
2502
00:14:45,486 --> 00:14:45,526
[juliet_hahn]: it
2503
00:14:45,554 --> 00:14:45,635
[maggie]: and
2504
00:14:45,566 --> 00:14:45,806
[juliet_hahn]: and these
2505
00:14:45,675 --> 00:14:45,915
[maggie]: this is
2506
00:14:45,866 --> 00:14:45,926
[juliet_hahn]: are
2507
00:14:45,955 --> 00:14:46,055
[maggie]: how
2508
00:14:46,127 --> 00:14:46,247
[juliet_hahn]: some
2509
00:14:46,216 --> 00:14:46,236
[maggie]: i
2510
00:14:46,287 --> 00:14:46,327
[juliet_hahn]: of
2511
00:14:46,336 --> 00:14:46,456
[maggie]: got
2512
00:14:46,367 --> 00:14:46,627
[juliet_hahn]: the things
2513
00:14:46,516 --> 00:14:46,716
[maggie]: through
2514
00:14:46,668 --> 00:14:46,768
[juliet_hahn]: that
2515
00:14:46,756 --> 00:14:46,917
[maggie]: it and
2516
00:14:46,868 --> 00:14:46,908
[juliet_hahn]: i
2517
00:14:46,937 --> 00:14:47,097
[maggie]: these
2518
00:14:47,028 --> 00:14:47,228
[juliet_hahn]: did
2519
00:14:47,137 --> 00:14:47,718
[maggie]: are some of the
2520
00:14:47,649 --> 00:14:47,729
[juliet_hahn]: or
2521
00:14:47,758 --> 00:14:48,499
[maggie]: things that i did
2522
00:14:48,451 --> 00:14:49,031
[juliet_hahn]: yeah i know
2523
00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:49,301
[maggie]: were just
2524
00:14:49,172 --> 00:14:49,833
[juliet_hahn]: that it really
2525
00:14:49,761 --> 00:14:49,902
[maggie]: yeah
2526
00:14:49,893 --> 00:14:50,133
[juliet_hahn]: sucks
2527
00:14:50,082 --> 00:14:50,342
[maggie]: i know
2528
00:14:50,213 --> 00:14:50,554
[juliet_hahn]: when you have
2529
00:14:50,503 --> 00:14:50,643
[maggie]: that
2530
00:14:50,574 --> 00:14:50,754
[juliet_hahn]: to take
2531
00:14:50,763 --> 00:14:50,823
[maggie]: it
2532
00:14:50,794 --> 00:14:51,135
[juliet_hahn]: that math
2533
00:14:50,943 --> 00:14:51,124
[maggie]: really
2534
00:14:51,195 --> 00:14:51,415
[juliet_hahn]: test
2535
00:14:51,204 --> 00:14:51,705
[maggie]: sucks when you
2536
00:14:51,676 --> 00:14:51,696
[juliet_hahn]: i
2537
00:14:51,765 --> 00:14:51,925
[maggie]: have to
2538
00:14:51,876 --> 00:14:52,217
[juliet_hahn]: remember
2539
00:14:51,945 --> 00:14:52,406
[maggie]: take that math
2540
00:14:52,297 --> 00:14:52,477
[juliet_hahn]: it and
2541
00:14:52,486 --> 00:14:52,706
[maggie]: test
2542
00:14:52,537 --> 00:14:53,058
[juliet_hahn]: i'm sweating
2543
00:14:52,967 --> 00:14:52,987
[maggie]: i
2544
00:14:53,158 --> 00:14:53,299
[juliet_hahn]: for
2545
00:14:53,167 --> 00:14:53,528
[maggie]: remember
2546
00:14:53,399 --> 00:14:53,499
[juliet_hahn]: you
2547
00:14:53,568 --> 00:14:53,628
[maggie]: it
2548
00:14:53,639 --> 00:14:54,020
[juliet_hahn]: because
2549
00:14:53,688 --> 00:14:54,569
[maggie]: and i'm wedding for
2550
00:14:54,641 --> 00:14:54,681
[juliet_hahn]: i
2551
00:14:54,670 --> 00:14:54,790
[maggie]: you
2552
00:14:54,761 --> 00:14:55,041
[juliet_hahn]: hated
2553
00:14:54,910 --> 00:14:55,271
[maggie]: because
2554
00:14:55,122 --> 00:14:56,003
[juliet_hahn]: it you know what i mean so
2555
00:14:55,932 --> 00:14:56,312
[maggie]: i hated
2556
00:14:56,083 --> 00:14:56,444
[juliet_hahn]: i feel like
2557
00:14:56,393 --> 00:14:56,453
[maggie]: it
2558
00:14:56,464 --> 00:14:56,844
[juliet_hahn]: that that's
2559
00:14:56,613 --> 00:14:57,394
[maggie]: you know what i mean so i
2560
00:14:57,425 --> 00:14:57,706
[juliet_hahn]: something
2561
00:14:57,434 --> 00:14:57,835
[maggie]: feel like that
2562
00:14:57,746 --> 00:14:57,886
[juliet_hahn]: that
2563
00:14:57,895 --> 00:14:58,115
[maggie]: that's
2564
00:14:58,006 --> 00:14:59,148
[juliet_hahn]: works well in a family
2565
00:14:59,598 --> 00:15:01,681
[maggie]: my mom yes my mom who
2566
00:15:01,620 --> 00:15:02,370
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2567
00:15:01,761 --> 00:15:05,968
[maggie]: was a terrific social worker because i'd
hear her on the phone and she worked
2568
00:15:06,109 --> 00:15:06,610
[maggie]: a school in
2569
00:15:06,581 --> 00:15:06,622
[juliet_hahn]: m
2570
00:15:06,710 --> 00:15:10,055
[maggie]: it hear her with all these other
people my brother and my brothers and i
2571
00:15:10,095 --> 00:15:12,159
[maggie]: would hear her and we'd be like
who is
2572
00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,130
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2573
00:15:12,279 --> 00:15:16,286
[maggie]: that person because when she turned around
to us and she she was loving
2574
00:15:16,350 --> 00:15:16,711
[juliet_hahn]: oh
2575
00:15:16,706 --> 00:15:20,813
[maggie]: but she pushed us really hard and
so it was until many many years later
2576
00:15:20,933 --> 00:15:21,114
[maggie]: i was
2577
00:15:21,030 --> 00:15:21,810
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2578
00:15:21,254 --> 00:15:25,040
[maggie]: in my thirties sitting at dinner with
my mother and my husband and my mother
2579
00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:25,066
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2580
00:15:25,441 --> 00:15:27,965
[maggie]: said i used to feel so sorry
for you when you had to take those
2581
00:15:27,900 --> 00:15:28,122
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2582
00:15:28,045 --> 00:15:30,790
[maggie]: math tasks because you would just not
be able to
2583
00:15:30,758 --> 00:15:30,900
[juliet_hahn]: right
2584
00:15:30,850 --> 00:15:35,478
[maggie]: do it and cry and cry and
cry and um and i was like but
2585
00:15:35,538 --> 00:15:38,202
[maggie]: mom you never let me go down
to a lower math
2586
00:15:38,070 --> 00:15:38,271
[juliet_hahn]: right
2587
00:15:38,322 --> 00:15:42,289
[maggie]: level like you never said anything and
she's like well i figured it want to
2588
00:15:42,549 --> 00:15:43,211
[maggie]: discourage
2589
00:15:42,859 --> 00:15:43,062
[juliet_hahn]: right
2590
00:15:43,311 --> 00:15:47,377
[maggie]: you more i didn't want to and
i was like yeah no it was discouraging
2591
00:15:47,478 --> 00:15:49,080
[maggie]: thinking why can't i do
2592
00:15:49,061 --> 00:15:49,242
[juliet_hahn]: right
2593
00:15:49,261 --> 00:15:49,501
[maggie]: this
2594
00:15:49,302 --> 00:15:50,603
[juliet_hahn]: which is understandable
2595
00:15:50,302 --> 00:15:51,024
[maggie]: right which isn't
2596
00:15:50,924 --> 00:15:51,445
[juliet_hahn]: now do either
2597
00:15:51,284 --> 00:15:51,725
[maggie]: understand
2598
00:15:51,505 --> 00:15:52,606
[juliet_hahn]: of your brothers or either
2599
00:15:52,546 --> 00:15:52,786
[maggie]: either
2600
00:15:52,666 --> 00:15:52,847
[juliet_hahn]: of your
2601
00:15:52,827 --> 00:15:52,867
[maggie]: of
2602
00:15:52,867 --> 00:15:53,127
[juliet_hahn]: brothers
2603
00:15:52,927 --> 00:15:53,387
[maggie]: your brothers
2604
00:15:53,187 --> 00:15:53,788
[juliet_hahn]: dislike sir it
2605
00:15:53,748 --> 00:15:53,948
[maggie]: either
2606
00:15:53,828 --> 00:15:54,229
[juliet_hahn]: was just you
2607
00:15:54,149 --> 00:15:55,513
[maggie]: brothers dislecrt was just you
2608
00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:56,220
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2609
00:15:56,175 --> 00:15:56,716
[maggie]: it was just
2610
00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:56,900
[juliet_hahn]: okay
2611
00:15:56,776 --> 00:15:56,877
[maggie]: me
2612
00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,282
[juliet_hahn]: yeah and that's how my my son
is
2613
00:15:59,250 --> 00:15:59,510
[maggie]: and that's
2614
00:15:59,482 --> 00:15:59,582
[juliet_hahn]: that
2615
00:15:59,530 --> 00:15:59,630
[maggie]: how
2616
00:15:59,622 --> 00:15:59,702
[juliet_hahn]: my
2617
00:15:59,690 --> 00:15:59,790
[maggie]: my
2618
00:15:59,762 --> 00:16:00,082
[juliet_hahn]: other two
2619
00:16:00,050 --> 00:16:00,150
[maggie]: my
2620
00:16:00,162 --> 00:16:00,243
[juliet_hahn]: are
2621
00:16:00,250 --> 00:16:00,411
[maggie]: son
2622
00:16:00,323 --> 00:16:00,463
[juliet_hahn]: not
2623
00:16:00,491 --> 00:16:00,971
[maggie]: is my
2624
00:16:00,943 --> 00:16:01,003
[juliet_hahn]: so
2625
00:16:01,051 --> 00:16:01,211
[maggie]: other
2626
00:16:01,083 --> 00:16:01,283
[juliet_hahn]: now i'm
2627
00:16:01,251 --> 00:16:01,371
[maggie]: two
2628
00:16:01,303 --> 00:16:01,484
[juliet_hahn]: going to
2629
00:16:01,451 --> 00:16:01,532
[maggie]: are
2630
00:16:01,524 --> 00:16:01,624
[juliet_hahn]: take
2631
00:16:01,592 --> 00:16:01,772
[maggie]: not
2632
00:16:01,664 --> 00:16:02,124
[juliet_hahn]: it to abby
2633
00:16:02,292 --> 00:16:02,512
[maggie]: so now
2634
00:16:02,504 --> 00:16:02,645
[juliet_hahn]: did
2635
00:16:02,572 --> 00:16:02,793
[maggie]: i'm going
2636
00:16:02,745 --> 00:16:03,145
[juliet_hahn]: anyone
2637
00:16:02,833 --> 00:16:03,373
[maggie]: to take it to add
2638
00:16:03,325 --> 00:16:04,306
[juliet_hahn]: in your family
2639
00:16:04,094 --> 00:16:04,814
[maggie]: did anyone in
2640
00:16:04,786 --> 00:16:04,907
[juliet_hahn]: that
2641
00:16:04,914 --> 00:16:05,135
[maggie]: your
2642
00:16:04,987 --> 00:16:05,367
[juliet_hahn]: you know
2643
00:16:05,255 --> 00:16:05,695
[maggie]: family
2644
00:16:05,547 --> 00:16:06,108
[juliet_hahn]: of have
2645
00:16:06,155 --> 00:16:06,296
[maggie]: that
2646
00:16:06,348 --> 00:16:06,368
[juliet_hahn]: o
2647
00:16:06,356 --> 00:16:06,456
[maggie]: you
2648
00:16:06,508 --> 00:16:06,528
[juliet_hahn]: c
2649
00:16:06,556 --> 00:16:06,716
[maggie]: know
2650
00:16:06,708 --> 00:16:06,728
[juliet_hahn]: d
2651
00:16:06,936 --> 00:16:07,477
[maggie]: of have
2652
00:16:07,168 --> 00:16:07,749
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
2653
00:16:07,717 --> 00:16:09,098
[maggie]: o c d anxiety
2654
00:16:09,792 --> 00:16:10,433
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
2655
00:16:10,649 --> 00:16:11,310
[maggie]: anxiety
2656
00:16:10,875 --> 00:16:11,416
[abbe_greenberg]: definitely
2657
00:16:11,710 --> 00:16:12,251
[maggie]: definitely
2658
00:16:12,319 --> 00:16:13,362
[abbe_greenberg]: you know we were jewish
2659
00:16:13,173 --> 00:16:13,413
[maggie]: you know
2660
00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:13,640
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2661
00:16:13,562 --> 00:16:13,642
[abbe_greenberg]: so
2662
00:16:13,774 --> 00:16:14,475
[maggie]: were jewish so
2663
00:16:15,508 --> 00:16:16,009
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
2664
00:16:15,863 --> 00:16:17,044
[juliet_hahn]: you are jewish you should say
2665
00:16:17,059 --> 00:16:17,300
[maggie]: are you
2666
00:16:17,322 --> 00:16:17,342
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2667
00:16:17,420 --> 00:16:17,500
[maggie]: are
2668
00:16:17,482 --> 00:16:17,562
[abbe_greenberg]: am
2669
00:16:17,620 --> 00:16:17,881
[maggie]: jewish
2670
00:16:17,642 --> 00:16:20,909
[abbe_greenberg]: just except we say about my dad
2671
00:16:20,906 --> 00:16:20,966
[maggie]: as
2672
00:16:20,949 --> 00:16:21,269
[abbe_greenberg]: that he's a
2673
00:16:21,286 --> 00:16:21,367
[maggie]: my
2674
00:16:21,330 --> 00:16:21,730
[abbe_greenberg]: carrier
2675
00:16:21,447 --> 00:16:22,528
[maggie]: dad that he's a carrier
2676
00:16:22,612 --> 00:16:23,876
[abbe_greenberg]: he doesn't have anxiety just gives
2677
00:16:23,769 --> 00:16:23,929
[maggie]: have
2678
00:16:23,917 --> 00:16:24,198
[abbe_greenberg]: everyone
2679
00:16:23,989 --> 00:16:24,290
[maggie]: anxiety
2680
00:16:24,238 --> 00:16:24,458
[abbe_greenberg]: around
2681
00:16:24,410 --> 00:16:24,510
[maggie]: just
2682
00:16:24,499 --> 00:16:24,579
[abbe_greenberg]: him
2683
00:16:24,550 --> 00:16:24,691
[maggie]: gives
2684
00:16:24,639 --> 00:16:25,000
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
2685
00:16:24,711 --> 00:16:24,991
[maggie]: everyone
2686
00:16:24,913 --> 00:16:25,154
[juliet_hahn]: okay
2687
00:16:25,031 --> 00:16:25,211
[maggie]: around
2688
00:16:25,838 --> 00:16:26,862
[juliet_hahn]: we all know someone like that
2689
00:16:27,595 --> 00:16:27,996
[maggie]: something like
2690
00:16:27,912 --> 00:16:28,534
[abbe_greenberg]: she's type
2691
00:16:28,777 --> 00:16:29,198
[maggie]: his type
2692
00:16:29,730 --> 00:16:30,111
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2693
00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,605
[maggie]: type to the to the hundredth degree
you
2694
00:16:33,585 --> 00:16:33,786
[juliet_hahn]: right
2695
00:16:33,625 --> 00:16:34,707
[maggie]: know if we can say him
2696
00:16:35,152 --> 00:16:35,312
[abbe_greenberg]: he's
2697
00:16:35,589 --> 00:16:36,592
[maggie]: has some traces
2698
00:16:36,696 --> 00:16:37,639
[abbe_greenberg]: he's a perfectionist
2699
00:16:37,454 --> 00:16:37,694
[maggie]: he's a
2700
00:16:37,699 --> 00:16:37,779
[abbe_greenberg]: and
2701
00:16:37,755 --> 00:16:38,376
[maggie]: perfectionist
2702
00:16:37,799 --> 00:16:38,401
[abbe_greenberg]: that's where i got
2703
00:16:38,456 --> 00:16:38,517
[maggie]: and
2704
00:16:38,461 --> 00:16:38,581
[abbe_greenberg]: that
2705
00:16:38,717 --> 00:16:38,938
[maggie]: yeah i
2706
00:16:38,942 --> 00:16:39,604
[abbe_greenberg]: for sure but no
2707
00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:40,001
[maggie]: for sure
2708
00:16:39,985 --> 00:16:40,086
[abbe_greenberg]: no
2709
00:16:40,081 --> 00:16:40,161
[maggie]: but
2710
00:16:40,206 --> 00:16:40,968
[abbe_greenberg]: one in my family
2711
00:16:40,742 --> 00:16:41,023
[maggie]: no one
2712
00:16:41,028 --> 00:16:41,148
[abbe_greenberg]: has
2713
00:16:41,103 --> 00:16:41,284
[maggie]: in my
2714
00:16:41,329 --> 00:16:41,449
[abbe_greenberg]: os
2715
00:16:41,384 --> 00:16:41,685
[maggie]: family
2716
00:16:41,610 --> 00:16:41,810
[abbe_greenberg]: date
2717
00:16:41,785 --> 00:16:42,287
[maggie]: has those
2718
00:16:42,170 --> 00:16:42,593
[juliet_hahn]: interesting
2719
00:16:42,427 --> 00:16:42,507
[maggie]: at
2720
00:16:42,794 --> 00:16:43,016
[juliet_hahn]: right
2721
00:16:42,933 --> 00:16:43,602
[abbe_greenberg]: the only lucky
2722
00:16:43,499 --> 00:16:44,060
[maggie]: interestingly
2723
00:16:43,764 --> 00:16:43,905
[abbe_greenberg]: one
2724
00:16:44,140 --> 00:16:44,341
[maggie]: right
2725
00:16:44,190 --> 00:16:45,512
[juliet_hahn]: and yeah so i that
2726
00:16:45,503 --> 00:16:45,623
[maggie]: and
2727
00:16:45,613 --> 00:16:45,793
[juliet_hahn]: always
2728
00:16:45,723 --> 00:16:45,863
[maggie]: yeah
2729
00:16:45,833 --> 00:16:46,314
[juliet_hahn]: fascinates
2730
00:16:46,023 --> 00:16:46,344
[maggie]: so i went
2731
00:16:46,414 --> 00:16:46,754
[juliet_hahn]: me is like
2732
00:16:46,725 --> 00:16:46,825
[maggie]: that
2733
00:16:46,835 --> 00:16:47,015
[juliet_hahn]: okay
2734
00:16:46,965 --> 00:16:47,125
[maggie]: always
2735
00:16:47,155 --> 00:16:47,476
[juliet_hahn]: where
2736
00:16:47,185 --> 00:16:48,748
[maggie]: fascinates me as like okay where
2737
00:16:48,497 --> 00:16:50,020
[juliet_hahn]: was it something that was learned
2738
00:16:49,830 --> 00:16:50,431
[maggie]: was it something
2739
00:16:50,220 --> 00:16:50,461
[juliet_hahn]: you know
2740
00:16:50,471 --> 00:16:50,591
[maggie]: that
2741
00:16:50,621 --> 00:16:50,701
[juliet_hahn]: and
2742
00:16:50,671 --> 00:16:50,771
[maggie]: was
2743
00:16:50,741 --> 00:16:50,861
[juliet_hahn]: then
2744
00:16:50,871 --> 00:16:51,332
[maggie]: learned
2745
00:16:50,921 --> 00:16:51,903
[juliet_hahn]: it just manifested
2746
00:16:51,553 --> 00:16:52,214
[maggie]: you know and then
2747
00:16:52,184 --> 00:16:52,244
[juliet_hahn]: to
2748
00:16:52,274 --> 00:16:52,314
[maggie]: it
2749
00:16:52,324 --> 00:16:52,624
[juliet_hahn]: more
2750
00:16:52,374 --> 00:16:53,235
[maggie]: just manifested
2751
00:16:52,805 --> 00:16:53,626
[juliet_hahn]: you know because obviously
2752
00:16:53,516 --> 00:16:53,957
[maggie]: to more
2753
00:16:53,966 --> 00:16:54,247
[juliet_hahn]: you have
2754
00:16:54,137 --> 00:16:54,337
[maggie]: you know
2755
00:16:54,287 --> 00:16:54,367
[juliet_hahn]: the
2756
00:16:54,377 --> 00:16:54,558
[maggie]: because
2757
00:16:54,447 --> 00:16:54,848
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
2758
00:16:54,618 --> 00:16:54,958
[maggie]: obviously
2759
00:16:54,908 --> 00:16:55,289
[juliet_hahn]: component
2760
00:16:55,259 --> 00:16:55,539
[maggie]: you have
2761
00:16:55,549 --> 00:16:55,629
[juliet_hahn]: and
2762
00:16:55,579 --> 00:16:56,641
[maggie]: the anxiety component
2763
00:16:56,350 --> 00:16:56,811
[juliet_hahn]: those kind of
2764
00:16:56,841 --> 00:16:56,922
[maggie]: and
2765
00:16:56,851 --> 00:16:57,071
[juliet_hahn]: things
2766
00:16:57,002 --> 00:16:57,162
[maggie]: how
2767
00:16:57,171 --> 00:16:58,032
[juliet_hahn]: but i'm not a doctor
2768
00:16:57,763 --> 00:16:58,144
[maggie]: those kind
2769
00:16:58,052 --> 00:16:58,152
[juliet_hahn]: but
2770
00:16:58,184 --> 00:16:58,224
[maggie]: of
2771
00:16:58,192 --> 00:16:58,352
[juliet_hahn]: those
2772
00:16:58,264 --> 00:16:58,464
[maggie]: things
2773
00:16:58,392 --> 00:16:58,572
[juliet_hahn]: kind of
2774
00:16:58,564 --> 00:16:58,664
[maggie]: but
2775
00:16:58,592 --> 00:16:58,753
[juliet_hahn]: things
2776
00:16:58,745 --> 00:16:58,825
[maggie]: i'm
2777
00:16:58,833 --> 00:16:59,293
[juliet_hahn]: fascinate
2778
00:16:58,885 --> 00:16:59,386
[maggie]: not a doctor
2779
00:16:59,353 --> 00:16:59,433
[juliet_hahn]: me
2780
00:16:59,426 --> 00:16:59,927
[maggie]: but those kind of
2781
00:16:59,934 --> 00:17:00,114
[juliet_hahn]: um
2782
00:16:59,947 --> 00:17:00,628
[maggie]: things fascinate
2783
00:17:00,454 --> 00:17:00,674
[juliet_hahn]: you know
2784
00:17:00,688 --> 00:17:00,748
[maggie]: me
2785
00:17:00,815 --> 00:17:01,295
[juliet_hahn]: just to think
2786
00:17:01,269 --> 00:17:01,469
[maggie]: um
2787
00:17:01,375 --> 00:17:01,595
[juliet_hahn]: about
2788
00:17:01,810 --> 00:17:02,050
[maggie]: you know
2789
00:17:01,936 --> 00:17:02,116
[juliet_hahn]: where
2790
00:17:02,170 --> 00:17:02,290
[maggie]: just
2791
00:17:02,176 --> 00:17:02,516
[juliet_hahn]: did that
2792
00:17:02,351 --> 00:17:02,932
[maggie]: to think about
2793
00:17:03,037 --> 00:17:03,377
[juliet_hahn]: start
2794
00:17:03,272 --> 00:17:03,432
[maggie]: where
2795
00:17:03,497 --> 00:17:03,798
[juliet_hahn]: and where
2796
00:17:03,693 --> 00:17:03,873
[maggie]: that
2797
00:17:03,858 --> 00:17:04,338
[juliet_hahn]: you know how did
2798
00:17:04,374 --> 00:17:04,735
[maggie]: start
2799
00:17:04,378 --> 00:17:05,099
[juliet_hahn]: that come about
2800
00:17:04,855 --> 00:17:06,437
[maggie]: and where you know how did that
come about
2801
00:17:06,272 --> 00:17:06,416
[abbe_greenberg]: yeah
2802
00:17:06,902 --> 00:17:07,025
[juliet_hahn]: now
2803
00:17:07,980 --> 00:17:08,120
[maggie]: but
2804
00:17:07,984 --> 00:17:08,727
[abbe_greenberg]: i think that
2805
00:17:08,801 --> 00:17:09,122
[maggie]: i think
2806
00:17:09,048 --> 00:17:09,289
[abbe_greenberg]: in my
2807
00:17:09,302 --> 00:17:09,522
[maggie]: that
2808
00:17:09,409 --> 00:17:09,751
[abbe_greenberg]: case
2809
00:17:09,883 --> 00:17:10,544
[maggie]: in my case
2810
00:17:10,493 --> 00:17:11,336
[abbe_greenberg]: my my
2811
00:17:11,345 --> 00:17:11,505
[maggie]: my
2812
00:17:11,497 --> 00:17:12,019
[abbe_greenberg]: brain
2813
00:17:12,026 --> 00:17:12,867
[maggie]: my brain
2814
00:17:13,062 --> 00:17:13,622
[abbe_greenberg]: chose
2815
00:17:13,919 --> 00:17:14,460
[maggie]: chose
2816
00:17:13,943 --> 00:17:14,904
[abbe_greenberg]: a way of coping
2817
00:17:14,801 --> 00:17:15,122
[maggie]: a way
2818
00:17:14,964 --> 00:17:15,765
[abbe_greenberg]: with anxiety
2819
00:17:15,242 --> 00:17:15,964
[maggie]: of coping with
2820
00:17:15,825 --> 00:17:16,026
[abbe_greenberg]: i had
2821
00:17:16,064 --> 00:17:16,626
[maggie]: anxiety
2822
00:17:16,086 --> 00:17:16,867
[abbe_greenberg]: severe anxiety
2823
00:17:16,686 --> 00:17:17,228
[maggie]: i had severe
2824
00:17:17,267 --> 00:17:17,347
[abbe_greenberg]: and
2825
00:17:17,328 --> 00:17:17,749
[maggie]: anxiety
2826
00:17:17,340 --> 00:17:18,450
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2827
00:17:17,388 --> 00:17:18,169
[abbe_greenberg]: i couldn't talk about
2828
00:17:18,110 --> 00:17:18,190
[maggie]: and
2829
00:17:18,209 --> 00:17:18,269
[abbe_greenberg]: it
2830
00:17:18,250 --> 00:17:18,271
[maggie]: i
2831
00:17:18,329 --> 00:17:18,409
[abbe_greenberg]: so
2832
00:17:18,331 --> 00:17:18,551
[maggie]: couldn't
2833
00:17:18,509 --> 00:17:18,589
[abbe_greenberg]: my
2834
00:17:18,611 --> 00:17:18,752
[maggie]: talk
2835
00:17:18,709 --> 00:17:18,850
[abbe_greenberg]: way
2836
00:17:18,832 --> 00:17:19,033
[maggie]: about
2837
00:17:18,950 --> 00:17:19,010
[abbe_greenberg]: of
2838
00:17:19,073 --> 00:17:19,133
[maggie]: it
2839
00:17:19,090 --> 00:17:19,430
[abbe_greenberg]: coping
2840
00:17:19,193 --> 00:17:19,474
[maggie]: to my
2841
00:17:19,510 --> 00:17:19,651
[abbe_greenberg]: with
2842
00:17:19,594 --> 00:17:19,735
[maggie]: way
2843
00:17:19,711 --> 00:17:19,771
[abbe_greenberg]: it
2844
00:17:19,815 --> 00:17:20,637
[maggie]: of coping with it
2845
00:17:20,622 --> 00:17:21,203
[abbe_greenberg]: to create these
2846
00:17:21,120 --> 00:17:21,870
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2847
00:17:21,283 --> 00:17:21,563
[abbe_greenberg]: soothing
2848
00:17:21,479 --> 00:17:21,899
[maggie]: to create
2849
00:17:21,603 --> 00:17:22,084
[abbe_greenberg]: compulsions
2850
00:17:21,940 --> 00:17:22,420
[maggie]: these throwing
2851
00:17:22,124 --> 00:17:22,365
[abbe_greenberg]: because i
2852
00:17:22,460 --> 00:17:22,901
[maggie]: compulsion
2853
00:17:22,465 --> 00:17:22,845
[abbe_greenberg]: totally
2854
00:17:22,722 --> 00:17:22,945
[juliet_hahn]: right
2855
00:17:22,941 --> 00:17:23,142
[maggie]: because
2856
00:17:22,986 --> 00:17:23,126
[abbe_greenberg]: was
2857
00:17:23,202 --> 00:17:23,222
[maggie]: i
2858
00:17:23,226 --> 00:17:23,547
[abbe_greenberg]: fine
2859
00:17:23,342 --> 00:17:24,384
[maggie]: totally was raving
2860
00:17:24,148 --> 00:17:24,608
[abbe_greenberg]: once i did
2861
00:17:24,660 --> 00:17:25,500
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2862
00:17:24,669 --> 00:17:25,270
[abbe_greenberg]: my compulsion
2863
00:17:25,005 --> 00:17:25,445
[maggie]: once i did
2864
00:17:25,330 --> 00:17:25,630
[abbe_greenberg]: i felt
2865
00:17:25,505 --> 00:17:25,586
[maggie]: my
2866
00:17:25,730 --> 00:17:25,911
[abbe_greenberg]: fine
2867
00:17:25,906 --> 00:17:26,086
[maggie]: lion
2868
00:17:25,951 --> 00:17:26,512
[abbe_greenberg]: and i functioned
2869
00:17:26,327 --> 00:17:26,728
[maggie]: felt fine
2870
00:17:26,572 --> 00:17:26,792
[abbe_greenberg]: really
2871
00:17:26,768 --> 00:17:26,848
[maggie]: and
2872
00:17:26,852 --> 00:17:27,073
[abbe_greenberg]: well
2873
00:17:26,988 --> 00:17:27,609
[maggie]: functioned really
2874
00:17:27,633 --> 00:17:27,653
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2875
00:17:27,669 --> 00:17:27,869
[maggie]: well
2876
00:17:27,754 --> 00:17:28,375
[abbe_greenberg]: excelled at
2877
00:17:28,450 --> 00:17:28,470
[maggie]: i
2878
00:17:28,475 --> 00:17:28,916
[abbe_greenberg]: sports
2879
00:17:28,571 --> 00:17:29,051
[maggie]: excelled
2880
00:17:29,036 --> 00:17:29,056
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2881
00:17:29,132 --> 00:17:29,192
[maggie]: in
2882
00:17:29,136 --> 00:17:29,436
[abbe_greenberg]: excelled
2883
00:17:29,312 --> 00:17:29,733
[maggie]: sports
2884
00:17:29,497 --> 00:17:29,977
[abbe_greenberg]: at music
2885
00:17:30,053 --> 00:17:30,233
[maggie]: celled
2886
00:17:30,078 --> 00:17:30,518
[abbe_greenberg]: i was a good
2887
00:17:30,434 --> 00:17:30,794
[maggie]: music
2888
00:17:30,618 --> 00:17:30,959
[abbe_greenberg]: student
2889
00:17:30,894 --> 00:17:31,055
[maggie]: i was
2890
00:17:30,999 --> 00:17:31,199
[abbe_greenberg]: in other
2891
00:17:31,115 --> 00:17:31,135
[maggie]: a
2892
00:17:31,219 --> 00:17:31,360
[abbe_greenberg]: words
2893
00:17:31,415 --> 00:17:31,756
[maggie]: student
2894
00:17:31,420 --> 00:17:32,241
[abbe_greenberg]: i really experienced
2895
00:17:31,876 --> 00:17:32,237
[maggie]: otherwise i
2896
00:17:32,301 --> 00:17:32,421
[abbe_greenberg]: a lot
2897
00:17:32,377 --> 00:17:32,557
[maggie]: really
2898
00:17:32,542 --> 00:17:32,582
[abbe_greenberg]: of
2899
00:17:32,597 --> 00:17:33,018
[maggie]: experienced
2900
00:17:32,662 --> 00:17:33,185
[abbe_greenberg]: success
2901
00:17:33,098 --> 00:17:34,000
[maggie]: a lot success
2902
00:17:33,928 --> 00:17:34,651
[abbe_greenberg]: so i think that
2903
00:17:34,721 --> 00:17:34,801
[maggie]: so
2904
00:17:34,892 --> 00:17:35,053
[abbe_greenberg]: that
2905
00:17:34,901 --> 00:17:35,182
[maggie]: i think
2906
00:17:35,174 --> 00:17:35,636
[abbe_greenberg]: reenforced
2907
00:17:35,282 --> 00:17:35,823
[maggie]: that that
2908
00:17:35,676 --> 00:17:35,977
[abbe_greenberg]: the neural
2909
00:17:35,943 --> 00:17:36,424
[maggie]: reinforced
2910
00:17:36,017 --> 00:17:36,520
[abbe_greenberg]: pathways
2911
00:17:36,464 --> 00:17:37,245
[maggie]: the normal pathways
2912
00:17:36,813 --> 00:17:37,095
[juliet_hahn]: right
2913
00:17:37,882 --> 00:17:38,383
[abbe_greenberg]: and it really
2914
00:17:38,147 --> 00:17:38,868
[maggie]: right and it
2915
00:17:38,844 --> 00:17:39,125
[abbe_greenberg]: became
2916
00:17:38,948 --> 00:17:39,188
[maggie]: really
2917
00:17:39,165 --> 00:17:39,505
[abbe_greenberg]: a built
2918
00:17:39,540 --> 00:17:40,290
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2919
00:17:39,605 --> 00:17:39,665
[abbe_greenberg]: in
2920
00:17:39,629 --> 00:17:39,909
[maggie]: became
2921
00:17:39,766 --> 00:17:40,046
[abbe_greenberg]: thing
2922
00:17:39,970 --> 00:17:40,290
[maggie]: a built
2923
00:17:40,226 --> 00:17:40,347
[abbe_greenberg]: for
2924
00:17:40,390 --> 00:17:40,430
[maggie]: in
2925
00:17:40,407 --> 00:17:40,467
[abbe_greenberg]: me
2926
00:17:40,571 --> 00:17:40,811
[maggie]: thing
2927
00:17:40,627 --> 00:17:41,008
[abbe_greenberg]: that oh
2928
00:17:41,011 --> 00:17:41,252
[maggie]: for me
2929
00:17:41,268 --> 00:17:41,488
[abbe_greenberg]: okay
2930
00:17:41,412 --> 00:17:41,552
[maggie]: that
2931
00:17:41,649 --> 00:17:41,949
[abbe_greenberg]: when i'm
2932
00:17:42,053 --> 00:17:42,293
[maggie]: okay
2933
00:17:42,130 --> 00:17:42,550
[abbe_greenberg]: anxious about
2934
00:17:42,434 --> 00:17:42,574
[maggie]: when
2935
00:17:42,590 --> 00:17:42,891
[abbe_greenberg]: something
2936
00:17:42,654 --> 00:17:43,135
[maggie]: i'm anxious
2937
00:17:43,051 --> 00:17:43,071
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2938
00:17:43,175 --> 00:17:43,335
[maggie]: about
2939
00:17:43,211 --> 00:17:43,392
[abbe_greenberg]: have
2940
00:17:43,375 --> 00:17:43,696
[maggie]: something
2941
00:17:43,432 --> 00:17:44,113
[abbe_greenberg]: a nice ritual
2942
00:17:43,836 --> 00:17:44,437
[maggie]: i have a nice
2943
00:17:44,333 --> 00:17:44,473
[abbe_greenberg]: and i
2944
00:17:44,517 --> 00:17:44,898
[maggie]: ritual
2945
00:17:44,554 --> 00:17:45,475
[abbe_greenberg]: still do to this day
2946
00:17:45,479 --> 00:17:45,559
[maggie]: ll
2947
00:17:45,515 --> 00:17:45,555
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2948
00:17:45,579 --> 00:17:45,680
[maggie]: do
2949
00:17:45,595 --> 00:17:45,736
[abbe_greenberg]: mean
2950
00:17:45,820 --> 00:17:45,900
[maggie]: to
2951
00:17:45,856 --> 00:17:45,876
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2952
00:17:45,940 --> 00:17:46,482
[maggie]: this day i mean
2953
00:17:46,517 --> 00:17:46,617
[abbe_greenberg]: am
2954
00:17:46,622 --> 00:17:46,663
[maggie]: i
2955
00:17:46,918 --> 00:17:47,338
[abbe_greenberg]: you know my
2956
00:17:47,304 --> 00:17:47,365
[maggie]: am
2957
00:17:47,340 --> 00:17:48,060
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
2958
00:17:47,726 --> 00:17:47,926
[maggie]: you know
2959
00:17:47,899 --> 00:17:47,919
[abbe_greenberg]: o
2960
00:17:48,007 --> 00:17:48,127
[maggie]: my
2961
00:17:48,019 --> 00:17:48,801
[abbe_greenberg]: c d is completely
2962
00:17:48,789 --> 00:17:48,829
[maggie]: c
2963
00:17:48,881 --> 00:17:49,281
[abbe_greenberg]: managed
2964
00:17:48,929 --> 00:17:49,571
[maggie]: v is completely
2965
00:17:49,403 --> 00:17:49,766
[abbe_greenberg]: and i take
2966
00:17:49,672 --> 00:17:50,053
[maggie]: managed
2967
00:17:49,827 --> 00:17:50,272
[abbe_greenberg]: medication
2968
00:17:50,213 --> 00:17:50,354
[maggie]: and i
2969
00:17:50,373 --> 00:17:50,494
[abbe_greenberg]: for
2970
00:17:50,434 --> 00:17:50,554
[maggie]: take
2971
00:17:50,575 --> 00:17:50,636
[abbe_greenberg]: it
2972
00:17:50,614 --> 00:17:51,296
[maggie]: medication for
2973
00:17:51,272 --> 00:17:51,473
[abbe_greenberg]: but
2974
00:17:51,357 --> 00:17:52,280
[maggie]: it but
2975
00:17:52,438 --> 00:17:53,443
[abbe_greenberg]: i still have some compulsions
2976
00:17:53,225 --> 00:17:53,466
[maggie]: i still
2977
00:17:53,463 --> 00:17:53,564
[abbe_greenberg]: that
2978
00:17:53,506 --> 00:17:53,607
[maggie]: have
2979
00:17:53,624 --> 00:17:53,644
[abbe_greenberg]: i
2980
00:17:53,627 --> 00:17:53,748
[maggie]: some
2981
00:17:53,704 --> 00:17:54,006
[abbe_greenberg]: allow
2982
00:17:53,808 --> 00:17:54,210
[maggie]: compulsions
2983
00:17:54,126 --> 00:17:54,529
[abbe_greenberg]: myself
2984
00:17:54,250 --> 00:17:55,296
[maggie]: that i allow myself
2985
00:17:55,542 --> 00:17:56,325
[abbe_greenberg]: dude because i know they're
2986
00:17:56,339 --> 00:17:56,419
[maggie]: do
2987
00:17:56,385 --> 00:17:56,626
[abbe_greenberg]: soothing
2988
00:17:56,519 --> 00:17:56,699
[maggie]: because
2989
00:17:56,646 --> 00:17:56,847
[abbe_greenberg]: an they're
2990
00:17:56,719 --> 00:17:56,900
[maggie]: i know
2991
00:17:56,867 --> 00:17:56,927
[abbe_greenberg]: not
2992
00:17:56,940 --> 00:17:57,060
[maggie]: there
2993
00:17:56,947 --> 00:17:57,108
[abbe_greenberg]: gonna
2994
00:17:57,140 --> 00:17:57,401
[maggie]: soothing
2995
00:17:57,148 --> 00:17:57,630
[abbe_greenberg]: hurt anybody
2996
00:17:57,421 --> 00:17:57,561
[maggie]: and her
2997
00:17:57,550 --> 00:17:57,711
[juliet_hahn]: right
2998
00:17:57,621 --> 00:17:58,002
[maggie]: not going to hurt
2999
00:17:58,071 --> 00:17:58,131
[juliet_hahn]: so
3000
00:17:58,082 --> 00:17:58,402
[maggie]: anybody
3001
00:17:58,251 --> 00:17:58,913
[juliet_hahn]: you know that's the
3002
00:17:58,883 --> 00:17:59,023
[maggie]: right
3003
00:17:58,993 --> 00:17:59,433
[juliet_hahn]: interesting
3004
00:17:59,103 --> 00:17:59,464
[maggie]: and so
3005
00:17:59,514 --> 00:17:59,754
[juliet_hahn]: thing
3006
00:17:59,584 --> 00:18:00,065
[maggie]: you know that's
3007
00:17:59,914 --> 00:18:00,235
[juliet_hahn]: and that's
3008
00:18:00,145 --> 00:18:00,225
[maggie]: the
3009
00:18:00,295 --> 00:18:00,475
[juliet_hahn]: where
3010
00:18:00,325 --> 00:18:00,746
[maggie]: interesting
3011
00:18:00,615 --> 00:18:00,956
[juliet_hahn]: again we're
3012
00:18:00,846 --> 00:18:01,087
[maggie]: thing
3013
00:18:00,976 --> 00:18:01,256
[juliet_hahn]: not going to
3014
00:18:01,247 --> 00:18:01,327
[maggie]: and
3015
00:18:01,276 --> 00:18:01,377
[juliet_hahn]: get
3016
00:18:01,367 --> 00:18:01,547
[maggie]: that's
3017
00:18:01,437 --> 00:18:01,617
[juliet_hahn]: into
3018
00:18:01,608 --> 00:18:01,828
[maggie]: where
3019
00:18:01,857 --> 00:18:02,038
[juliet_hahn]: that
3020
00:18:01,968 --> 00:18:02,148
[maggie]: again
3021
00:18:02,138 --> 00:18:02,338
[juliet_hahn]: part
3022
00:18:02,189 --> 00:18:02,409
[maggie]: we're not
3023
00:18:02,418 --> 00:18:02,458
[juliet_hahn]: of
3024
00:18:02,429 --> 00:18:02,549
[maggie]: going
3025
00:18:02,499 --> 00:18:02,679
[juliet_hahn]: things
3026
00:18:02,569 --> 00:18:02,729
[maggie]: to get
3027
00:18:02,739 --> 00:18:02,819
[juliet_hahn]: but
3028
00:18:02,790 --> 00:18:02,990
[maggie]: into
3029
00:18:02,899 --> 00:18:03,240
[juliet_hahn]: it always
3030
00:18:03,210 --> 00:18:03,370
[maggie]: that
3031
00:18:03,300 --> 00:18:03,801
[juliet_hahn]: fascinates
3032
00:18:03,491 --> 00:18:04,032
[maggie]: part of things
3033
00:18:03,861 --> 00:18:04,181
[juliet_hahn]: me because
3034
00:18:04,092 --> 00:18:04,192
[maggie]: but
3035
00:18:04,221 --> 00:18:04,302
[juliet_hahn]: as
3036
00:18:04,252 --> 00:18:04,312
[maggie]: it
3037
00:18:04,322 --> 00:18:04,422
[juliet_hahn]: you
3038
00:18:04,372 --> 00:18:04,593
[maggie]: always
3039
00:18:04,502 --> 00:18:04,662
[juliet_hahn]: said
3040
00:18:04,653 --> 00:18:05,153
[maggie]: fascinates
3041
00:18:05,103 --> 00:18:05,183
[juliet_hahn]: you
3042
00:18:05,214 --> 00:18:05,274
[maggie]: me
3043
00:18:05,303 --> 00:18:05,463
[juliet_hahn]: did
3044
00:18:05,334 --> 00:18:05,514
[maggie]: because
3045
00:18:05,504 --> 00:18:05,624
[juliet_hahn]: them
3046
00:18:05,594 --> 00:18:05,774
[maggie]: as you
3047
00:18:05,704 --> 00:18:05,884
[juliet_hahn]: and then
3048
00:18:05,855 --> 00:18:06,015
[maggie]: said
3049
00:18:05,924 --> 00:18:06,505
[juliet_hahn]: it was like okay that
3050
00:18:06,456 --> 00:18:06,556
[maggie]: you
3051
00:18:06,565 --> 00:18:06,746
[juliet_hahn]: felt
3052
00:18:06,656 --> 00:18:07,117
[maggie]: did them and
3053
00:18:07,106 --> 00:18:07,226
[juliet_hahn]: that
3054
00:18:07,137 --> 00:18:07,317
[maggie]: then it
3055
00:18:07,307 --> 00:18:07,467
[juliet_hahn]: felt
3056
00:18:07,337 --> 00:18:07,517
[maggie]: was like
3057
00:18:07,547 --> 00:18:07,807
[juliet_hahn]: better
3058
00:18:07,557 --> 00:18:08,098
[maggie]: okay that felt
3059
00:18:07,968 --> 00:18:08,669
[juliet_hahn]: my anxiety
3060
00:18:08,419 --> 00:18:08,780
[maggie]: that felt
3061
00:18:08,749 --> 00:18:09,029
[juliet_hahn]: s gone
3062
00:18:08,860 --> 00:18:09,100
[maggie]: better
3063
00:18:09,170 --> 00:18:09,250
[juliet_hahn]: you
3064
00:18:09,300 --> 00:18:09,982
[maggie]: my anxiety
3065
00:18:09,630 --> 00:18:09,731
[juliet_hahn]: you
3066
00:18:10,022 --> 00:18:10,302
[maggie]: is gone
3067
00:18:10,251 --> 00:18:10,432
[juliet_hahn]: self
3068
00:18:10,362 --> 00:18:10,442
[maggie]: so
3069
00:18:10,572 --> 00:18:11,113
[juliet_hahn]: suite yourself
3070
00:18:10,943 --> 00:18:11,043
[maggie]: you
3071
00:18:11,193 --> 00:18:11,614
[juliet_hahn]: just like my
3072
00:18:11,584 --> 00:18:11,785
[maggie]: self
3073
00:18:11,714 --> 00:18:12,054
[juliet_hahn]: son would
3074
00:18:12,005 --> 00:18:12,145
[maggie]: use
3075
00:18:12,115 --> 00:18:12,355
[juliet_hahn]: bring
3076
00:18:12,165 --> 00:18:12,446
[maggie]: yourself
3077
00:18:12,495 --> 00:18:12,515
[juliet_hahn]: a
3078
00:18:12,546 --> 00:18:12,666
[maggie]: just
3079
00:18:12,595 --> 00:18:12,736
[juliet_hahn]: book
3080
00:18:12,706 --> 00:18:12,826
[maggie]: like
3081
00:18:12,816 --> 00:18:12,976
[juliet_hahn]: home
3082
00:18:12,866 --> 00:18:12,946
[maggie]: my
3083
00:18:12,996 --> 00:18:13,076
[juliet_hahn]: and
3084
00:18:13,047 --> 00:18:13,187
[maggie]: son
3085
00:18:13,116 --> 00:18:13,196
[juliet_hahn]: say
3086
00:18:13,247 --> 00:18:13,387
[maggie]: would
3087
00:18:13,256 --> 00:18:13,437
[juliet_hahn]: mom
3088
00:18:13,447 --> 00:18:13,688
[maggie]: bring
3089
00:18:13,517 --> 00:18:13,938
[juliet_hahn]: can you read
3090
00:18:13,828 --> 00:18:14,068
[maggie]: a book
3091
00:18:13,978 --> 00:18:14,098
[juliet_hahn]: that
3092
00:18:14,128 --> 00:18:14,309
[maggie]: home
3093
00:18:14,138 --> 00:18:14,318
[juliet_hahn]: to me
3094
00:18:14,329 --> 00:18:14,409
[maggie]: and
3095
00:18:14,398 --> 00:18:14,458
[juliet_hahn]: he
3096
00:18:14,449 --> 00:18:14,549
[maggie]: say
3097
00:18:14,519 --> 00:18:14,659
[juliet_hahn]: would
3098
00:18:14,589 --> 00:18:14,930
[maggie]: mom can
3099
00:18:14,919 --> 00:18:14,999
[juliet_hahn]: you
3100
00:18:14,970 --> 00:18:15,070
[maggie]: you
3101
00:18:15,059 --> 00:18:15,160
[juliet_hahn]: know
3102
00:18:15,110 --> 00:18:15,531
[maggie]: read that to
3103
00:18:15,540 --> 00:18:15,781
[juliet_hahn]: figure
3104
00:18:15,571 --> 00:18:15,971
[maggie]: me he would
3105
00:18:16,021 --> 00:18:16,121
[juliet_hahn]: out
3106
00:18:16,232 --> 00:18:16,312
[maggie]: you
3107
00:18:16,302 --> 00:18:17,203
[juliet_hahn]: how to manage
3108
00:18:16,853 --> 00:18:17,133
[maggie]: figure
3109
00:18:17,283 --> 00:18:17,343
[juliet_hahn]: in
3110
00:18:17,354 --> 00:18:17,454
[maggie]: out
3111
00:18:17,443 --> 00:18:17,704
[juliet_hahn]: life
3112
00:18:17,634 --> 00:18:18,055
[maggie]: how to
3113
00:18:18,044 --> 00:18:18,425
[juliet_hahn]: without
3114
00:18:18,155 --> 00:18:18,496
[maggie]: manage
3115
00:18:18,525 --> 00:18:18,706
[juliet_hahn]: kind
3116
00:18:18,596 --> 00:18:18,997
[maggie]: in life
3117
00:18:18,786 --> 00:18:19,407
[juliet_hahn]: of you
3118
00:18:19,337 --> 00:18:19,477
[maggie]: with
3119
00:18:19,487 --> 00:18:19,547
[juliet_hahn]: now
3120
00:18:19,577 --> 00:18:19,778
[maggie]: adult
3121
00:18:19,627 --> 00:18:20,148
[juliet_hahn]: not knowing
3122
00:18:19,838 --> 00:18:20,118
[maggie]: kind of
3123
00:18:20,208 --> 00:18:20,869
[juliet_hahn]: that everyone
3124
00:18:20,619 --> 00:18:20,860
[maggie]: you know
3125
00:18:20,909 --> 00:18:21,009
[juliet_hahn]: else
3126
00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:21,421
[maggie]: not knowing
3127
00:18:21,230 --> 00:18:21,510
[juliet_hahn]: actually
3128
00:18:21,501 --> 00:18:21,621
[maggie]: that
3129
00:18:21,570 --> 00:18:21,911
[juliet_hahn]: reading
3130
00:18:21,881 --> 00:18:22,162
[maggie]: everyone
3131
00:18:22,091 --> 00:18:22,211
[juliet_hahn]: your
3132
00:18:22,202 --> 00:18:22,322
[maggie]: else
3133
00:18:22,292 --> 00:18:22,913
[juliet_hahn]: memorizing
3134
00:18:22,382 --> 00:18:23,244
[maggie]: is actually reading
3135
00:18:23,053 --> 00:18:23,213
[juliet_hahn]: right
3136
00:18:23,404 --> 00:18:23,524
[maggie]: your
3137
00:18:23,433 --> 00:18:23,674
[juliet_hahn]: he didn't
3138
00:18:23,604 --> 00:18:24,225
[maggie]: memorizing
3139
00:18:23,714 --> 00:18:24,415
[juliet_hahn]: obviously know that
3140
00:18:24,386 --> 00:18:24,526
[maggie]: right
3141
00:18:24,455 --> 00:18:24,736
[juliet_hahn]: he was just
3142
00:18:24,726 --> 00:18:24,786
[maggie]: he
3143
00:18:24,756 --> 00:18:24,856
[juliet_hahn]: like
3144
00:18:24,846 --> 00:18:24,987
[maggie]: didn't
3145
00:18:24,876 --> 00:18:25,136
[juliet_hahn]: oh i don't
3146
00:18:25,027 --> 00:18:25,347
[maggie]: obviously
3147
00:18:25,176 --> 00:18:25,357
[juliet_hahn]: know how
3148
00:18:25,387 --> 00:18:25,507
[maggie]: know
3149
00:18:25,397 --> 00:18:25,557
[juliet_hahn]: to say
3150
00:18:25,608 --> 00:18:25,728
[maggie]: that
3151
00:18:25,617 --> 00:18:25,757
[juliet_hahn]: those
3152
00:18:25,768 --> 00:18:25,828
[maggie]: he
3153
00:18:25,797 --> 00:18:26,018
[juliet_hahn]: words
3154
00:18:25,848 --> 00:18:26,048
[maggie]: was just
3155
00:18:26,058 --> 00:18:26,138
[juliet_hahn]: but
3156
00:18:26,068 --> 00:18:26,168
[maggie]: like
3157
00:18:26,178 --> 00:18:26,278
[juliet_hahn]: why
3158
00:18:26,209 --> 00:18:26,309
[maggie]: oh i
3159
00:18:26,318 --> 00:18:26,398
[juliet_hahn]: my
3160
00:18:26,329 --> 00:18:26,449
[maggie]: don't
3161
00:18:26,458 --> 00:18:26,619
[juliet_hahn]: mom
3162
00:18:26,469 --> 00:18:26,669
[maggie]: know how
3163
00:18:26,659 --> 00:18:26,839
[juliet_hahn]: reads
3164
00:18:26,709 --> 00:18:26,870
[maggie]: to say
3165
00:18:26,899 --> 00:18:26,939
[juliet_hahn]: it
3166
00:18:26,930 --> 00:18:27,070
[maggie]: those
3167
00:18:27,019 --> 00:18:27,039
[juliet_hahn]: i
3168
00:18:27,110 --> 00:18:27,330
[maggie]: words
3169
00:18:27,140 --> 00:18:27,480
[juliet_hahn]: memorized
3170
00:18:27,370 --> 00:18:27,591
[maggie]: but when
3171
00:18:27,580 --> 00:18:27,620
[juliet_hahn]: it
3172
00:18:27,631 --> 00:18:27,711
[maggie]: my
3173
00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:27,761
[juliet_hahn]: then
3174
00:18:27,771 --> 00:18:27,931
[maggie]: mom
3175
00:18:27,801 --> 00:18:27,961
[juliet_hahn]: i put
3176
00:18:27,971 --> 00:18:28,152
[maggie]: reads
3177
00:18:28,001 --> 00:18:28,241
[juliet_hahn]: it down
3178
00:18:28,212 --> 00:18:28,753
[maggie]: it i memorize
3179
00:18:28,622 --> 00:18:28,802
[juliet_hahn]: i can
3180
00:18:28,893 --> 00:18:28,933
[maggie]: it
3181
00:18:29,003 --> 00:18:29,243
[juliet_hahn]: read it
3182
00:18:29,194 --> 00:18:29,294
[maggie]: put
3183
00:18:29,263 --> 00:18:29,403
[juliet_hahn]: back
3184
00:18:29,334 --> 00:18:29,534
[maggie]: it down
3185
00:18:29,443 --> 00:18:29,924
[juliet_hahn]: to the teacher
3186
00:18:29,955 --> 00:18:30,556
[maggie]: i can read it
3187
00:18:30,565 --> 00:18:30,625
[juliet_hahn]: so
3188
00:18:30,576 --> 00:18:30,716
[maggie]: back
3189
00:18:30,726 --> 00:18:30,826
[juliet_hahn]: you
3190
00:18:30,776 --> 00:18:30,836
[maggie]: to
3191
00:18:30,866 --> 00:18:30,986
[juliet_hahn]: were
3192
00:18:30,876 --> 00:18:31,257
[maggie]: the teacher
3193
00:18:31,026 --> 00:18:31,847
[juliet_hahn]: doing the same sort of
3194
00:18:31,898 --> 00:18:31,978
[maggie]: so
3195
00:18:31,928 --> 00:18:32,128
[juliet_hahn]: thing
3196
00:18:32,058 --> 00:18:32,138
[maggie]: you
3197
00:18:32,168 --> 00:18:32,308
[juliet_hahn]: which
3198
00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:32,519
[maggie]: doing
3199
00:18:32,368 --> 00:18:32,448
[juliet_hahn]: is
3200
00:18:32,559 --> 00:18:32,840
[maggie]: the same
3201
00:18:32,889 --> 00:18:33,090
[juliet_hahn]: real
3202
00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:33,160
[maggie]: sort of
3203
00:18:33,230 --> 00:18:33,991
[juliet_hahn]: fascinating
3204
00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:33,721
[maggie]: thing which is
3205
00:18:34,111 --> 00:18:34,251
[juliet_hahn]: when
3206
00:18:34,182 --> 00:18:34,442
[maggie]: really
3207
00:18:34,292 --> 00:18:34,712
[juliet_hahn]: we think
3208
00:18:34,542 --> 00:18:35,284
[maggie]: fascinating
3209
00:18:34,973 --> 00:18:35,333
[juliet_hahn]: about
3210
00:18:35,404 --> 00:18:36,005
[maggie]: when we think
3211
00:18:35,854 --> 00:18:36,936
[juliet_hahn]: the complexity
3212
00:18:36,285 --> 00:18:36,626
[maggie]: about
3213
00:18:37,116 --> 00:18:37,176
[juliet_hahn]: of
3214
00:18:37,187 --> 00:18:37,307
[maggie]: the
3215
00:18:37,256 --> 00:18:37,657
[juliet_hahn]: the human
3216
00:18:37,588 --> 00:18:38,249
[maggie]: complexity
3217
00:18:37,717 --> 00:18:37,978
[juliet_hahn]: brain
3218
00:18:38,429 --> 00:18:38,509
[maggie]: of
3219
00:18:38,438 --> 00:18:38,619
[juliet_hahn]: right
3220
00:18:38,549 --> 00:18:38,950
[maggie]: the human
3221
00:18:38,939 --> 00:18:39,019
[juliet_hahn]: and
3222
00:18:39,010 --> 00:18:39,250
[maggie]: brain
3223
00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:39,781
[juliet_hahn]: what it does
3224
00:18:39,811 --> 00:18:39,931
[maggie]: it
3225
00:18:39,901 --> 00:18:40,802
[juliet_hahn]: and what is learned
3226
00:18:40,512 --> 00:18:41,274
[maggie]: what it does and
3227
00:18:41,303 --> 00:18:41,624
[juliet_hahn]: because
3228
00:18:41,354 --> 00:18:42,135
[maggie]: what is learned
3229
00:18:41,844 --> 00:18:42,605
[juliet_hahn]: it helps and
3230
00:18:42,616 --> 00:18:42,936
[maggie]: because
3231
00:18:42,786 --> 00:18:43,186
[juliet_hahn]: how you
3232
00:18:43,177 --> 00:18:43,237
[maggie]: it
3233
00:18:43,226 --> 00:18:43,427
[juliet_hahn]: know if
3234
00:18:43,417 --> 00:18:43,758
[maggie]: helps
3235
00:18:43,487 --> 00:18:43,928
[juliet_hahn]: a child
3236
00:18:43,858 --> 00:18:43,918
[maggie]: and
3237
00:18:44,048 --> 00:18:45,009
[juliet_hahn]: is in a situation
3238
00:18:44,399 --> 00:18:45,220
[maggie]: you know if a child
3239
00:18:45,250 --> 00:18:45,270
[juliet_hahn]: a
3240
00:18:45,340 --> 00:18:45,401
[maggie]: is
3241
00:18:45,350 --> 00:18:45,530
[juliet_hahn]: young
3242
00:18:45,481 --> 00:18:45,641
[maggie]: in the
3243
00:18:45,650 --> 00:18:45,810
[juliet_hahn]: age
3244
00:18:45,681 --> 00:18:46,282
[maggie]: situation
3245
00:18:46,151 --> 00:18:46,371
[juliet_hahn]: whether
3246
00:18:46,402 --> 00:18:46,522
[maggie]: from
3247
00:18:46,411 --> 00:18:46,531
[juliet_hahn]: it's
3248
00:18:46,583 --> 00:18:46,603
[maggie]: a
3249
00:18:46,591 --> 00:18:46,751
[juliet_hahn]: good
3250
00:18:46,663 --> 00:18:46,843
[maggie]: young
3251
00:18:46,891 --> 00:18:46,951
[juliet_hahn]: or
3252
00:18:46,943 --> 00:18:47,123
[maggie]: age
3253
00:18:47,051 --> 00:18:47,392
[juliet_hahn]: bad
3254
00:18:47,464 --> 00:18:47,845
[maggie]: whether it's
3255
00:18:47,852 --> 00:18:47,992
[juliet_hahn]: how
3256
00:18:47,905 --> 00:18:48,065
[maggie]: good
3257
00:18:48,072 --> 00:18:48,233
[juliet_hahn]: that
3258
00:18:48,205 --> 00:18:48,265
[maggie]: or
3259
00:18:48,313 --> 00:18:48,733
[juliet_hahn]: developed
3260
00:18:48,365 --> 00:18:48,706
[maggie]: bad
3261
00:18:49,013 --> 00:18:49,514
[juliet_hahn]: that
3262
00:18:49,187 --> 00:18:49,527
[maggie]: how that
3263
00:18:49,574 --> 00:18:49,914
[juliet_hahn]: child's
3264
00:18:49,628 --> 00:18:50,028
[maggie]: developed
3265
00:18:49,974 --> 00:18:50,315
[juliet_hahn]: brain
3266
00:18:50,729 --> 00:18:50,830
[maggie]: that
3267
00:18:50,735 --> 00:18:50,815
[juliet_hahn]: to
3268
00:18:50,890 --> 00:18:51,210
[maggie]: child's
3269
00:18:50,895 --> 00:18:51,095
[juliet_hahn]: then
3270
00:18:51,290 --> 00:18:51,631
[maggie]: brain
3271
00:18:51,296 --> 00:18:52,156
[juliet_hahn]: you take on these
3272
00:18:52,052 --> 00:18:52,112
[maggie]: to
3273
00:18:52,196 --> 00:18:52,497
[juliet_hahn]: paths
3274
00:18:52,212 --> 00:18:52,693
[maggie]: then you
3275
00:18:52,677 --> 00:18:52,897
[juliet_hahn]: as you
3276
00:18:52,953 --> 00:18:53,133
[maggie]: take
3277
00:18:52,997 --> 00:18:53,177
[juliet_hahn]: said
3278
00:18:53,214 --> 00:18:53,815
[maggie]: on these paths
3279
00:18:53,618 --> 00:18:53,738
[juliet_hahn]: so
3280
00:18:53,995 --> 00:18:54,215
[maggie]: as you
3281
00:18:54,178 --> 00:18:54,399
[juliet_hahn]: you know
3282
00:18:54,315 --> 00:18:54,496
[maggie]: said
3283
00:18:54,539 --> 00:18:54,779
[juliet_hahn]: go ahead
3284
00:18:54,936 --> 00:18:55,898
[maggie]: so you know go
3285
00:18:55,892 --> 00:18:55,912
[abbe_greenberg]: i
3286
00:18:55,938 --> 00:18:56,078
[maggie]: ahead
3287
00:18:55,952 --> 00:18:56,993
[abbe_greenberg]: was going to say the more
3288
00:18:56,769 --> 00:18:57,351
[maggie]: was going to say the
3289
00:18:57,314 --> 00:18:57,514
[abbe_greenberg]: that
3290
00:18:57,451 --> 00:18:57,812
[maggie]: more
3291
00:18:57,755 --> 00:18:58,235
[abbe_greenberg]: the more time
3292
00:18:58,133 --> 00:18:58,354
[maggie]: that
3293
00:18:58,260 --> 00:18:58,486
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3294
00:18:58,295 --> 00:18:58,576
[abbe_greenberg]: i spend
3295
00:18:58,555 --> 00:18:58,635
[maggie]: the
3296
00:18:58,616 --> 00:18:58,776
[abbe_greenberg]: doing
3297
00:18:58,695 --> 00:18:58,796
[maggie]: more
3298
00:18:58,836 --> 00:18:59,277
[abbe_greenberg]: research
3299
00:18:58,876 --> 00:18:59,578
[maggie]: time i spend in
3300
00:18:59,658 --> 00:19:00,018
[abbe_greenberg]: into
3301
00:18:59,658 --> 00:19:00,100
[maggie]: research
3302
00:19:00,179 --> 00:19:00,519
[abbe_greenberg]: brain
3303
00:19:00,501 --> 00:19:00,842
[maggie]: into
3304
00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:00,940
[abbe_greenberg]: nero
3305
00:19:00,983 --> 00:19:01,324
[maggie]: brain
3306
00:19:01,060 --> 00:19:01,521
[abbe_greenberg]: science
3307
00:19:01,444 --> 00:19:02,327
[maggie]: and nero science
3308
00:19:02,302 --> 00:19:03,065
[abbe_greenberg]: more i've come
3309
00:19:03,109 --> 00:19:03,270
[maggie]: more
3310
00:19:03,146 --> 00:19:03,768
[abbe_greenberg]: to understand
3311
00:19:03,451 --> 00:19:03,872
[maggie]: i've come
3312
00:19:03,829 --> 00:19:03,929
[abbe_greenberg]: that
3313
00:19:03,953 --> 00:19:04,013
[maggie]: to
3314
00:19:03,969 --> 00:19:04,110
[abbe_greenberg]: there
3315
00:19:04,073 --> 00:19:04,576
[maggie]: understand
3316
00:19:04,190 --> 00:19:04,572
[abbe_greenberg]: isn't any
3317
00:19:04,636 --> 00:19:04,736
[maggie]: that
3318
00:19:04,652 --> 00:19:04,813
[abbe_greenberg]: such
3319
00:19:04,777 --> 00:19:04,937
[maggie]: there
3320
00:19:04,853 --> 00:19:04,994
[abbe_greenberg]: thing
3321
00:19:04,998 --> 00:19:05,198
[maggie]: isn't
3322
00:19:05,034 --> 00:19:05,255
[abbe_greenberg]: as the
3323
00:19:05,279 --> 00:19:05,399
[maggie]: any
3324
00:19:05,295 --> 00:19:05,456
[abbe_greenberg]: neuro
3325
00:19:05,460 --> 00:19:05,600
[maggie]: such
3326
00:19:05,536 --> 00:19:05,858
[abbe_greenberg]: typical
3327
00:19:05,661 --> 00:19:05,922
[maggie]: thing as
3328
00:19:05,918 --> 00:19:06,139
[abbe_greenberg]: brain
3329
00:19:05,962 --> 00:19:06,665
[maggie]: the neuro typical
3330
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:06,581
[juliet_hahn]: right
3331
00:19:06,725 --> 00:19:06,926
[maggie]: brain
3332
00:19:07,472 --> 00:19:07,833
[abbe_greenberg]: really
3333
00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:08,302
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3334
00:19:08,274 --> 00:19:09,136
[abbe_greenberg]: really have come to
3335
00:19:09,092 --> 00:19:09,413
[maggie]: really
3336
00:19:09,176 --> 00:19:09,718
[abbe_greenberg]: believe that
3337
00:19:09,633 --> 00:19:09,793
[maggie]: come
3338
00:19:09,778 --> 00:19:09,858
[abbe_greenberg]: we
3339
00:19:09,854 --> 00:19:10,295
[maggie]: to believe
3340
00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:10,460
[abbe_greenberg]: all
3341
00:19:10,375 --> 00:19:11,197
[maggie]: that we all
3342
00:19:11,121 --> 00:19:12,023
[abbe_greenberg]: our brains are so
3343
00:19:12,079 --> 00:19:12,360
[maggie]: brains
3344
00:19:12,144 --> 00:19:12,445
[abbe_greenberg]: highly
3345
00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:12,500
[maggie]: are
3346
00:19:12,485 --> 00:19:12,886
[abbe_greenberg]: adaptive
3347
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:13,222
[maggie]: so highly
3348
00:19:12,946 --> 00:19:13,186
[abbe_greenberg]: and so
3349
00:19:13,282 --> 00:19:13,703
[maggie]: adapted
3350
00:19:13,347 --> 00:19:13,848
[abbe_greenberg]: plastic
3351
00:19:13,743 --> 00:19:13,984
[maggie]: and so
3352
00:19:14,008 --> 00:19:14,470
[abbe_greenberg]: quotumquote
3353
00:19:14,184 --> 00:19:14,665
[maggie]: plastic
3354
00:19:14,510 --> 00:19:14,670
[abbe_greenberg]: right
3355
00:19:15,307 --> 00:19:15,487
[maggie]: right
3356
00:19:15,552 --> 00:19:16,333
[abbe_greenberg]: they've learned in the last
3357
00:19:16,349 --> 00:19:16,529
[maggie]: they've
3358
00:19:16,393 --> 00:19:16,593
[abbe_greenberg]: twenty
3359
00:19:16,589 --> 00:19:16,809
[maggie]: learned
3360
00:19:16,634 --> 00:19:16,894
[abbe_greenberg]: years is
3361
00:19:16,850 --> 00:19:16,970
[maggie]: in the
3362
00:19:16,934 --> 00:19:17,034
[abbe_greenberg]: that
3363
00:19:17,010 --> 00:19:17,130
[maggie]: last
3364
00:19:17,114 --> 00:19:17,194
[abbe_greenberg]: our
3365
00:19:17,190 --> 00:19:17,390
[maggie]: twenty
3366
00:19:17,275 --> 00:19:17,695
[abbe_greenberg]: brains
3367
00:19:17,430 --> 00:19:17,831
[maggie]: years is that
3368
00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:18,122
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3369
00:19:17,896 --> 00:19:18,396
[abbe_greenberg]: change
3370
00:19:17,911 --> 00:19:19,173
[maggie]: our brains change
3371
00:19:18,777 --> 00:19:19,859
[abbe_greenberg]: in structure and function
3372
00:19:19,574 --> 00:19:20,095
[maggie]: in structure
3373
00:19:20,059 --> 00:19:20,179
[abbe_greenberg]: all
3374
00:19:20,175 --> 00:19:20,235
[maggie]: and
3375
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:20,300
[abbe_greenberg]: the
3376
00:19:20,315 --> 00:19:20,616
[maggie]: function
3377
00:19:20,340 --> 00:19:20,961
[abbe_greenberg]: way through our course
3378
00:19:20,856 --> 00:19:21,077
[maggie]: all the
3379
00:19:21,021 --> 00:19:21,061
[abbe_greenberg]: of
3380
00:19:21,117 --> 00:19:21,197
[maggie]: way
3381
00:19:21,121 --> 00:19:21,201
[abbe_greenberg]: our
3382
00:19:21,217 --> 00:19:21,397
[maggie]: through
3383
00:19:21,241 --> 00:19:21,401
[abbe_greenberg]: life
3384
00:19:21,452 --> 00:19:21,613
[juliet_hahn]: right
3385
00:19:21,502 --> 00:19:21,642
[abbe_greenberg]: even
3386
00:19:21,557 --> 00:19:21,738
[maggie]: course
3387
00:19:21,702 --> 00:19:21,842
[abbe_greenberg]: into
3388
00:19:21,798 --> 00:19:21,958
[maggie]: of our
3389
00:19:21,902 --> 00:19:21,962
[abbe_greenberg]: our
3390
00:19:22,018 --> 00:19:22,178
[maggie]: life
3391
00:19:22,022 --> 00:19:22,423
[abbe_greenberg]: nineties
3392
00:19:22,279 --> 00:19:22,860
[maggie]: even in were
3393
00:19:23,204 --> 00:19:24,106
[abbe_greenberg]: so knowing
3394
00:19:23,981 --> 00:19:24,102
[maggie]: so
3395
00:19:24,266 --> 00:19:24,627
[abbe_greenberg]: that
3396
00:19:24,562 --> 00:19:24,903
[maggie]: knowing
3397
00:19:25,027 --> 00:19:25,048
[abbe_greenberg]: i
3398
00:19:25,063 --> 00:19:25,404
[maggie]: that
3399
00:19:25,088 --> 00:19:25,649
[abbe_greenberg]: don't think there's
3400
00:19:25,804 --> 00:19:25,844
[maggie]: i
3401
00:19:25,809 --> 00:19:25,989
[abbe_greenberg]: any
3402
00:19:25,885 --> 00:19:26,445
[maggie]: don't think there's
3403
00:19:26,530 --> 00:19:26,670
[abbe_greenberg]: two
3404
00:19:26,606 --> 00:19:26,766
[maggie]: any
3405
00:19:26,770 --> 00:19:27,331
[abbe_greenberg]: brains that
3406
00:19:27,347 --> 00:19:27,968
[maggie]: two brains
3407
00:19:27,632 --> 00:19:28,153
[abbe_greenberg]: the same way
3408
00:19:28,048 --> 00:19:28,509
[maggie]: that we the
3409
00:19:28,554 --> 00:19:28,634
[abbe_greenberg]: and
3410
00:19:28,589 --> 00:19:28,870
[maggie]: same
3411
00:19:28,694 --> 00:19:29,495
[abbe_greenberg]: i think that our brains
3412
00:19:29,290 --> 00:19:29,390
[maggie]: way
3413
00:19:29,535 --> 00:19:30,257
[abbe_greenberg]: are miraculous
3414
00:19:29,771 --> 00:19:30,432
[maggie]: and i think that our
3415
00:19:30,337 --> 00:19:30,457
[abbe_greenberg]: they
3416
00:19:30,452 --> 00:19:30,693
[maggie]: brains
3417
00:19:30,537 --> 00:19:30,637
[abbe_greenberg]: do
3418
00:19:30,540 --> 00:19:31,470
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3419
00:19:30,753 --> 00:19:30,813
[maggie]: are
3420
00:19:30,818 --> 00:19:31,519
[abbe_greenberg]: incredible
3421
00:19:30,873 --> 00:19:31,414
[maggie]: miraculous
3422
00:19:31,639 --> 00:19:32,000
[abbe_greenberg]: things
3423
00:19:32,155 --> 00:19:32,576
[maggie]: credible
3424
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:32,481
[abbe_greenberg]: and so
3425
00:19:32,656 --> 00:19:32,976
[maggie]: things
3426
00:19:32,882 --> 00:19:33,322
[abbe_greenberg]: there's nothing
3427
00:19:33,137 --> 00:19:33,437
[maggie]: and so
3428
00:19:33,623 --> 00:19:33,943
[abbe_greenberg]: typical
3429
00:19:33,818 --> 00:19:34,238
[maggie]: there's nothing
3430
00:19:34,124 --> 00:19:34,585
[abbe_greenberg]: about any
3431
00:19:34,539 --> 00:19:34,880
[maggie]: typical
3432
00:19:34,645 --> 00:19:35,246
[abbe_greenberg]: of our brains
3433
00:19:35,020 --> 00:19:35,220
[maggie]: about
3434
00:19:35,042 --> 00:19:35,266
[juliet_hahn]: right
3435
00:19:35,340 --> 00:19:35,581
[maggie]: any of
3436
00:19:35,566 --> 00:19:35,647
[abbe_greenberg]: or
3437
00:19:35,661 --> 00:19:36,122
[maggie]: our brains
3438
00:19:36,368 --> 00:19:37,730
[abbe_greenberg]: you know any of the things our
brains can do
3439
00:19:37,664 --> 00:19:37,885
[maggie]: the things
3440
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:37,980
[juliet_hahn]: which
3441
00:19:37,945 --> 00:19:38,245
[maggie]: our brains
3442
00:19:38,041 --> 00:19:38,281
[juliet_hahn]: is just
3443
00:19:38,285 --> 00:19:38,365
[maggie]: can
3444
00:19:38,341 --> 00:19:38,923
[juliet_hahn]: fascinating
3445
00:19:38,445 --> 00:19:39,427
[maggie]: do which is
3446
00:19:39,484 --> 00:19:39,604
[juliet_hahn]: so
3447
00:19:39,587 --> 00:19:40,249
[maggie]: just fascinatin
3448
00:19:39,945 --> 00:19:40,847
[juliet_hahn]: now i want to go
3449
00:19:40,889 --> 00:19:41,010
[maggie]: so
3450
00:19:40,988 --> 00:19:41,309
[juliet_hahn]: to you
3451
00:19:41,330 --> 00:19:41,430
[maggie]: now
3452
00:19:41,369 --> 00:19:41,790
[juliet_hahn]: guys met
3453
00:19:41,851 --> 00:19:42,231
[maggie]: i want to go
3454
00:19:42,271 --> 00:19:42,612
[juliet_hahn]: university
3455
00:19:42,331 --> 00:19:42,672
[maggie]: to you
3456
00:19:42,672 --> 00:19:43,193
[juliet_hahn]: pennsylvania
3457
00:19:42,732 --> 00:19:43,914
[maggie]: guys met university
3458
00:19:43,654 --> 00:19:44,256
[juliet_hahn]: in the eighties
3459
00:19:43,934 --> 00:19:44,495
[maggie]: of pennsylvania
3460
00:19:44,396 --> 00:19:45,078
[juliet_hahn]: am i correct there
3461
00:19:44,995 --> 00:19:46,157
[maggie]: in the eighties and might correct
3462
00:19:46,624 --> 00:19:46,705
[juliet_hahn]: and
3463
00:19:47,449 --> 00:19:48,050
[maggie]: late eighties
3464
00:19:47,891 --> 00:19:48,313
[juliet_hahn]: late it is
3465
00:19:48,410 --> 00:19:49,652
[maggie]: late eighties can they just say
3466
00:19:49,702 --> 00:19:50,043
[abbe_greenberg]: almost
3467
00:19:49,753 --> 00:19:52,577
[maggie]: latitiswell
3468
00:19:50,123 --> 00:19:51,247
[abbe_greenberg]: nineties really was so
3469
00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,891
[juliet_hahn]: yes
3470
00:19:51,849 --> 00:19:52,210
[abbe_greenberg]: nineties
3471
00:19:54,991 --> 00:19:56,376
[juliet_hahn]: because when did you graduate university
3472
00:19:56,323 --> 00:19:56,504
[maggie]: because
3473
00:19:56,396 --> 00:19:56,858
[juliet_hahn]: of pensylvania
3474
00:19:56,724 --> 00:20:01,395
[maggie]: did you graduate university of penslvania i
abby graduated eighty eight i graduated
3475
00:20:01,462 --> 00:20:01,623
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3476
00:20:01,475 --> 00:20:01,996
[maggie]: eighty nine
3477
00:20:02,184 --> 00:20:03,566
[juliet_hahn]: that's very late it's late
3478
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:03,700
[maggie]: that's
3479
00:20:03,626 --> 00:20:03,866
[juliet_hahn]: eighties
3480
00:20:03,740 --> 00:20:03,920
[maggie]: very
3481
00:20:03,926 --> 00:20:04,087
[juliet_hahn]: let's
3482
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:04,141
[maggie]: late
3483
00:20:04,147 --> 00:20:04,207
[juliet_hahn]: say
3484
00:20:04,301 --> 00:20:05,122
[maggie]: is lady
3485
00:20:05,569 --> 00:20:05,770
[juliet_hahn]: late
3486
00:20:05,703 --> 00:20:07,667
[maggie]: ltadieslaadies
3487
00:20:05,850 --> 00:20:08,053
[juliet_hahn]: eighties so take us through that a
little bit
3488
00:20:08,067 --> 00:20:08,167
[maggie]: so
3489
00:20:08,133 --> 00:20:08,474
[juliet_hahn]: how you
3490
00:20:08,468 --> 00:20:08,648
[maggie]: take
3491
00:20:08,514 --> 00:20:08,915
[juliet_hahn]: connected
3492
00:20:08,688 --> 00:20:09,189
[maggie]: us through that
3493
00:20:09,095 --> 00:20:09,335
[juliet_hahn]: do you
3494
00:20:09,269 --> 00:20:09,530
[maggie]: a little
3495
00:20:09,396 --> 00:20:09,536
[juliet_hahn]: guys
3496
00:20:09,570 --> 00:20:09,630
[maggie]: bit
3497
00:20:09,616 --> 00:20:09,936
[juliet_hahn]: remember
3498
00:20:09,690 --> 00:20:10,051
[maggie]: how you
3499
00:20:09,997 --> 00:20:10,097
[juliet_hahn]: the
3500
00:20:10,091 --> 00:20:10,471
[maggie]: connected
3501
00:20:10,137 --> 00:20:10,698
[juliet_hahn]: first time that
3502
00:20:10,652 --> 00:20:10,732
[maggie]: do
3503
00:20:10,758 --> 00:20:10,898
[juliet_hahn]: you
3504
00:20:10,772 --> 00:20:11,453
[maggie]: you guys remember
3505
00:20:11,219 --> 00:20:11,419
[juliet_hahn]: you know
3506
00:20:11,533 --> 00:20:11,613
[maggie]: the
3507
00:20:11,539 --> 00:20:11,659
[juliet_hahn]: saw
3508
00:20:11,673 --> 00:20:11,833
[maggie]: first
3509
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:11,880
[juliet_hahn]: ach
3510
00:20:11,894 --> 00:20:12,054
[maggie]: time
3511
00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:12,121
[juliet_hahn]: other
3512
00:20:12,094 --> 00:20:12,194
[maggie]: that
3513
00:20:12,222 --> 00:20:12,282
[juliet_hahn]: and
3514
00:20:12,274 --> 00:20:12,414
[maggie]: you
3515
00:20:12,322 --> 00:20:13,166
[juliet_hahn]: we're like wait
3516
00:20:12,995 --> 00:20:13,356
[maggie]: saw each
3517
00:20:13,327 --> 00:20:13,447
[juliet_hahn]: this
3518
00:20:13,416 --> 00:20:13,596
[maggie]: other
3519
00:20:13,508 --> 00:20:13,668
[juliet_hahn]: is a
3520
00:20:13,677 --> 00:20:13,757
[maggie]: and
3521
00:20:13,749 --> 00:20:13,889
[juliet_hahn]: good
3522
00:20:13,777 --> 00:20:13,957
[maggie]: we're
3523
00:20:13,950 --> 00:20:14,251
[juliet_hahn]: friend
3524
00:20:13,997 --> 00:20:14,197
[maggie]: like
3525
00:20:14,432 --> 00:20:14,532
[juliet_hahn]: and
3526
00:20:14,438 --> 00:20:14,638
[maggie]: wait
3527
00:20:14,572 --> 00:20:15,135
[juliet_hahn]: then kind of
3528
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:19,005
[maggie]: friend i do i remember the first
time i met you do you remember that
3529
00:20:19,086 --> 00:20:24,535
[maggie]: in your dorm room abby was was
was in her do you know we were
3530
00:20:25,056 --> 00:20:26,758
[maggie]: i think i was talking to to
your
3531
00:20:27,090 --> 00:20:28,770
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3532
00:20:27,259 --> 00:20:27,800
[maggie]: sweet mate
3533
00:20:27,955 --> 00:20:28,542
[abbe_greenberg]: hm
3534
00:20:28,662 --> 00:20:29,243
[maggie]: and miriam
3535
00:20:29,060 --> 00:20:29,080
[juliet_hahn]: i
3536
00:20:29,503 --> 00:20:33,189
[maggie]: and then i met abby through that
but we lived in a very very close
3537
00:20:33,269 --> 00:20:37,236
[maggie]: storm where people really tended to know
each other
3538
00:20:37,050 --> 00:20:38,130
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3539
00:20:37,476 --> 00:20:40,854
[maggie]: and got to know each other we
ate dinner in a separate kind of
3540
00:20:41,192 --> 00:20:41,918
[abbe_greenberg]: we were a college
3541
00:20:41,759 --> 00:20:42,119
[maggie]: a separate
3542
00:20:41,958 --> 00:20:42,220
[abbe_greenberg]: house
3543
00:20:42,159 --> 00:20:42,580
[maggie]: dining hall
3544
00:20:42,603 --> 00:20:42,663
[abbe_greenberg]: we
3545
00:20:42,610 --> 00:20:42,670
[juliet_hahn]: ye
3546
00:20:42,744 --> 00:20:42,845
[abbe_greenberg]: had
3547
00:20:43,201 --> 00:20:46,567
[maggie]: you we were in a college living
learning community kind of so we all got
3548
00:20:46,667 --> 00:20:48,971
[maggie]: to a lot of people got to
know each other really well
3549
00:20:48,870 --> 00:20:48,992
[juliet_hahn]: ye
3550
00:20:49,532 --> 00:20:52,517
[maggie]: and so i knew abby sweet mate
but
3551
00:20:52,980 --> 00:20:53,936
[juliet_hahn]: ye
3552
00:20:53,138 --> 00:20:56,445
[maggie]: that's sort of how we first connected
and you know we
3553
00:20:57,382 --> 00:20:58,447
[abbe_greenberg]: you were and you were dating my
3554
00:20:58,479 --> 00:20:58,539
[maggie]: and
3555
00:20:58,527 --> 00:20:58,668
[abbe_greenberg]: good
3556
00:20:58,559 --> 00:20:58,780
[maggie]: you were
3557
00:20:58,728 --> 00:20:58,989
[abbe_greenberg]: friend
3558
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:00,542
[maggie]: in my yeah while
3559
00:21:00,540 --> 00:21:00,861
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3560
00:21:00,582 --> 00:21:01,243
[maggie]: i's trying to
3561
00:21:01,585 --> 00:21:01,968
[abbe_greenberg]: on the date
3562
00:21:02,185 --> 00:21:03,066
[maggie]: you sort of set it up
3563
00:21:02,977 --> 00:21:03,118
[abbe_greenberg]: yeh
3564
00:21:03,247 --> 00:21:03,427
[maggie]: yeah
3565
00:21:03,552 --> 00:21:03,853
[abbe_greenberg]: oh
3566
00:21:04,429 --> 00:21:04,729
[maggie]: yeah
3567
00:21:05,210 --> 00:21:06,813
[juliet_hahn]: i love that i love that it's
3568
00:21:06,833 --> 00:21:06,853
[maggie]: i
3569
00:21:06,853 --> 00:21:07,033
[juliet_hahn]: always
3570
00:21:06,953 --> 00:21:07,093
[maggie]: love
3571
00:21:07,053 --> 00:21:07,173
[juliet_hahn]: fun
3572
00:21:07,153 --> 00:21:07,313
[maggie]: that
3573
00:21:07,253 --> 00:21:07,434
[juliet_hahn]: to go
3574
00:21:07,454 --> 00:21:07,474
[maggie]: i
3575
00:21:07,534 --> 00:21:07,754
[juliet_hahn]: back
3576
00:21:07,554 --> 00:21:07,914
[maggie]: love that and
3577
00:21:07,834 --> 00:21:08,275
[juliet_hahn]: i think to
3578
00:21:08,235 --> 00:21:08,355
[maggie]: it's
3579
00:21:08,315 --> 00:21:08,375
[juliet_hahn]: go
3580
00:21:08,395 --> 00:21:08,555
[maggie]: always
3581
00:21:08,455 --> 00:21:08,616
[juliet_hahn]: back
3582
00:21:08,595 --> 00:21:08,696
[maggie]: fun
3583
00:21:08,696 --> 00:21:08,776
[juliet_hahn]: and
3584
00:21:08,776 --> 00:21:08,816
[maggie]: to
3585
00:21:08,856 --> 00:21:09,237
[juliet_hahn]: remember
3586
00:21:08,876 --> 00:21:09,357
[maggie]: go back i
3587
00:21:09,337 --> 00:21:09,517
[juliet_hahn]: these
3588
00:21:09,437 --> 00:21:10,058
[maggie]: think to go back
3589
00:21:09,958 --> 00:21:10,198
[juliet_hahn]: fun
3590
00:21:10,138 --> 00:21:10,659
[maggie]: and remember
3591
00:21:10,379 --> 00:21:11,100
[juliet_hahn]: and good times
3592
00:21:10,779 --> 00:21:11,620
[maggie]: these fun
3593
00:21:11,621 --> 00:21:11,741
[juliet_hahn]: so
3594
00:21:11,801 --> 00:21:12,502
[maggie]: and good times
3595
00:21:13,023 --> 00:21:13,103
[juliet_hahn]: and
3596
00:21:13,043 --> 00:21:13,163
[maggie]: so
3597
00:21:13,304 --> 00:21:14,425
[juliet_hahn]: abbie we didn't say what
3598
00:21:14,445 --> 00:21:14,525
[maggie]: and
3599
00:21:14,526 --> 00:21:14,686
[juliet_hahn]: you
3600
00:21:14,726 --> 00:21:15,407
[maggie]: abbie we didn't say
3601
00:21:15,407 --> 00:21:15,667
[juliet_hahn]: because i
3602
00:21:15,707 --> 00:21:15,827
[maggie]: what
3603
00:21:15,708 --> 00:21:15,848
[juliet_hahn]: know
3604
00:21:15,948 --> 00:21:16,088
[maggie]: you
3605
00:21:16,088 --> 00:21:16,409
[juliet_hahn]: maggie
3606
00:21:16,792 --> 00:21:17,236
[maggie]: because i know
3607
00:21:17,460 --> 00:21:17,621
[juliet_hahn]: your
3608
00:21:17,478 --> 00:21:17,781
[maggie]: maggie
3609
00:21:17,942 --> 00:21:18,964
[juliet_hahn]: major was philosophy
3610
00:21:18,929 --> 00:21:19,050
[maggie]: our
3611
00:21:19,165 --> 00:21:19,325
[juliet_hahn]: abby
3612
00:21:19,352 --> 00:21:19,633
[maggie]: major
3613
00:21:19,365 --> 00:21:19,786
[juliet_hahn]: what was your
3614
00:21:19,694 --> 00:21:20,378
[maggie]: was philosophy
3615
00:21:19,866 --> 00:21:20,167
[juliet_hahn]: major
3616
00:21:20,559 --> 00:21:21,565
[maggie]: abby what was your major
3617
00:21:21,482 --> 00:21:22,144
[abbe_greenberg]: communication
3618
00:21:22,299 --> 00:21:22,964
[maggie]: communication
3619
00:21:22,365 --> 00:21:23,510
[abbe_greenberg]: with a minor and psychology
3620
00:21:23,186 --> 00:21:23,649
[maggie]: with a minor
3621
00:21:23,590 --> 00:21:23,650
[juliet_hahn]: so
3622
00:21:23,710 --> 00:21:24,335
[maggie]: and psychology
3623
00:21:24,171 --> 00:21:24,972
[juliet_hahn]: i read that but then i
3624
00:21:24,969 --> 00:21:25,029
[maggie]: so
3625
00:21:25,012 --> 00:21:25,593
[juliet_hahn]: was like wait who
3626
00:21:25,550 --> 00:21:26,030
[maggie]: i read that
3627
00:21:25,934 --> 00:21:26,274
[juliet_hahn]: who
3628
00:21:26,070 --> 00:21:26,611
[maggie]: but then i was like
3629
00:21:26,515 --> 00:21:26,615
[juliet_hahn]: who
3630
00:21:26,631 --> 00:21:26,772
[maggie]: wait
3631
00:21:26,815 --> 00:21:26,975
[juliet_hahn]: was
3632
00:21:26,872 --> 00:21:27,072
[maggie]: who's
3633
00:21:27,035 --> 00:21:30,922
[juliet_hahn]: it now that yeah right which is
again that's
3634
00:21:30,979 --> 00:21:31,299
[maggie]: right which
3635
00:21:31,282 --> 00:21:31,343
[juliet_hahn]: you
3636
00:21:31,339 --> 00:21:31,399
[maggie]: is
3637
00:21:31,383 --> 00:21:32,164
[juliet_hahn]: know fascinating
3638
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:32,301
[maggie]: again that's
3639
00:21:32,204 --> 00:21:32,905
[juliet_hahn]: to communications
3640
00:21:32,641 --> 00:21:33,523
[maggie]: you know fascinating
3641
00:21:32,985 --> 00:21:33,686
[juliet_hahn]: and psychology
3642
00:21:33,563 --> 00:21:34,204
[maggie]: the communication
3643
00:21:33,787 --> 00:21:34,388
[juliet_hahn]: you kind of were
3644
00:21:34,364 --> 00:21:34,424
[maggie]: and
3645
00:21:34,428 --> 00:21:34,548
[juliet_hahn]: like
3646
00:21:34,484 --> 00:21:35,065
[maggie]: psychology
3647
00:21:34,608 --> 00:21:35,129
[juliet_hahn]: i want to learn
3648
00:21:35,146 --> 00:21:35,246
[maggie]: you
3649
00:21:35,209 --> 00:21:35,349
[juliet_hahn]: more
3650
00:21:35,306 --> 00:21:35,727
[maggie]: kind of were
3651
00:21:35,690 --> 00:21:35,890
[juliet_hahn]: this
3652
00:21:35,787 --> 00:21:36,488
[maggie]: like i want to learn
3653
00:21:36,551 --> 00:21:36,671
[juliet_hahn]: and
3654
00:21:36,568 --> 00:21:37,229
[maggie]: more this
3655
00:21:37,152 --> 00:21:37,993
[juliet_hahn]: where did that take
3656
00:21:37,910 --> 00:21:38,030
[maggie]: and
3657
00:21:38,053 --> 00:21:38,474
[juliet_hahn]: you both
3658
00:21:38,531 --> 00:21:38,711
[maggie]: where
3659
00:21:38,694 --> 00:21:38,875
[juliet_hahn]: after
3660
00:21:38,771 --> 00:21:39,052
[maggie]: did that
3661
00:21:38,915 --> 00:21:39,616
[juliet_hahn]: you graduated
3662
00:21:39,132 --> 00:21:40,234
[maggie]: take you both after
3663
00:21:40,097 --> 00:21:40,357
[juliet_hahn]: where
3664
00:21:40,274 --> 00:21:40,975
[maggie]: you graduated
3665
00:21:40,597 --> 00:21:41,138
[juliet_hahn]: you know what
3666
00:21:41,456 --> 00:21:42,477
[maggie]: where you know what
3667
00:21:43,060 --> 00:21:44,211
[juliet_hahn]: field did you go into
3668
00:21:44,409 --> 00:21:45,538
[maggie]: field did you go into
3669
00:21:45,690 --> 00:21:46,873
[juliet_hahn]: if you can share that a little
bit
3670
00:21:47,019 --> 00:21:56,895
[maggie]: if you can share that i had
always gravitated toward working with people working enough
3671
00:21:56,712 --> 00:21:56,793
[juliet_hahn]: ah
3672
00:21:56,975 --> 00:21:57,716
[maggie]: for profits
3673
00:21:57,462 --> 00:21:57,668
[abbe_greenberg]: oh
3674
00:21:58,478 --> 00:22:01,964
[maggie]: you know was sort of like i
want to change the world you know type
3675
00:22:02,064 --> 00:22:04,608
[maggie]: of idealist but i also was
3676
00:22:04,590 --> 00:22:04,878
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3677
00:22:04,908 --> 00:22:09,837
[maggie]: was so interested in mental health because
um i think it was a big in
3678
00:22:09,997 --> 00:22:13,643
[maggie]: certain ways for the it was a
big conversation in my family
3679
00:22:14,550 --> 00:22:15,570
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3680
00:22:14,645 --> 00:22:17,730
[maggie]: in other ways it wasn't it was
kind of strange but because my mom was
3681
00:22:17,770 --> 00:22:18,151
[maggie]: a social
3682
00:22:18,150 --> 00:22:19,200
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3683
00:22:18,171 --> 00:22:21,376
[maggie]: worker being in therapy wasn't foreign to
me in any way
3684
00:22:22,705 --> 00:22:22,725
[abbe_greenberg]: a
3685
00:22:22,718 --> 00:22:23,079
[maggie]: and so
3686
00:22:24,603 --> 00:22:24,624
[juliet_hahn]: a
3687
00:22:24,762 --> 00:22:31,733
[maggie]: i worked in a number of different
not for profits sometimes during research and sometimes
3688
00:22:31,230 --> 00:22:32,370
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3689
00:22:31,853 --> 00:22:37,142
[maggie]: working directly with with different people often
kids or teas
3690
00:22:37,650 --> 00:22:37,871
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3691
00:22:37,683 --> 00:22:42,391
[maggie]: or sometimes elderly so i worked with
a lot of different different types of people
3692
00:22:42,471 --> 00:22:42,752
[maggie]: but then
3693
00:22:42,660 --> 00:22:43,860
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3694
00:22:43,052 --> 00:22:47,480
[maggie]: i went to social work school um
and that it's just
3695
00:22:47,469 --> 00:22:47,490
[juliet_hahn]: m
3696
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:48,722
[maggie]: that sort of fit in all
3697
00:22:48,722 --> 00:22:48,864
[juliet_hahn]: yes
3698
00:22:48,802 --> 00:22:51,708
[maggie]: my interests together and i ended up
being
3699
00:22:51,909 --> 00:22:51,930
[juliet_hahn]: m
3700
00:22:52,309 --> 00:22:54,614
[maggie]: a high school counsellor in a new
york city high school
3701
00:22:54,690 --> 00:22:55,098
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3702
00:22:54,895 --> 00:22:55,756
[maggie]: for a lot of years
3703
00:22:55,910 --> 00:22:57,232
[juliet_hahn]: interesting yeah i love i
3704
00:22:57,269 --> 00:22:57,711
[maggie]: interesting
3705
00:22:57,292 --> 00:22:58,134
[juliet_hahn]: love where things
3706
00:22:58,193 --> 00:22:58,213
[maggie]: i
3707
00:22:58,214 --> 00:22:58,354
[juliet_hahn]: take
3708
00:22:58,293 --> 00:22:58,413
[maggie]: love
3709
00:22:58,394 --> 00:22:58,575
[juliet_hahn]: you and
3710
00:22:58,534 --> 00:22:58,554
[maggie]: i
3711
00:22:58,595 --> 00:22:58,715
[juliet_hahn]: then
3712
00:22:58,634 --> 00:22:59,217
[maggie]: love where
3713
00:22:58,815 --> 00:22:59,376
[juliet_hahn]: abby where did
3714
00:22:59,277 --> 00:22:59,478
[maggie]: things
3715
00:22:59,456 --> 00:22:59,556
[juliet_hahn]: you
3716
00:22:59,538 --> 00:22:59,799
[maggie]: take you
3717
00:22:59,757 --> 00:22:59,877
[juliet_hahn]: end
3718
00:22:59,839 --> 00:23:00,020
[maggie]: and then
3719
00:23:00,037 --> 00:23:00,117
[juliet_hahn]: up
3720
00:23:00,140 --> 00:23:01,445
[maggie]: abby where did you end up
3721
00:23:02,222 --> 00:23:03,384
[abbe_greenberg]: i've always been fascinated
3722
00:23:02,929 --> 00:23:03,450
[maggie]: i've always
3723
00:23:03,424 --> 00:23:03,524
[abbe_greenberg]: with
3724
00:23:03,470 --> 00:23:03,610
[maggie]: been
3725
00:23:03,564 --> 00:23:03,645
[abbe_greenberg]: how
3726
00:23:03,650 --> 00:23:04,111
[maggie]: fascinated
3727
00:23:03,745 --> 00:23:04,246
[abbe_greenberg]: talk works
3728
00:23:04,151 --> 00:23:04,933
[maggie]: with how talk works
3729
00:23:05,107 --> 00:23:05,448
[abbe_greenberg]: i find
3730
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:05,683
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3731
00:23:05,568 --> 00:23:06,029
[abbe_greenberg]: language
3732
00:23:05,834 --> 00:23:06,155
[maggie]: i find
3733
00:23:06,089 --> 00:23:06,810
[abbe_greenberg]: and communication
3734
00:23:06,295 --> 00:23:07,517
[maggie]: language and communication
3735
00:23:07,110 --> 00:23:07,651
[abbe_greenberg]: fascinating
3736
00:23:07,837 --> 00:23:08,358
[maggie]: fascinating
3737
00:23:08,493 --> 00:23:09,354
[abbe_greenberg]: law in my family
3738
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:09,400
[maggie]: law
3739
00:23:09,394 --> 00:23:09,474
[abbe_greenberg]: is
3740
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:09,560
[maggie]: in
3741
00:23:09,534 --> 00:23:09,715
[abbe_greenberg]: that
3742
00:23:09,620 --> 00:23:10,081
[maggie]: my family
3743
00:23:09,975 --> 00:23:10,416
[abbe_greenberg]: i started
3744
00:23:10,261 --> 00:23:10,442
[maggie]: that
3745
00:23:10,496 --> 00:23:10,817
[abbe_greenberg]: talking
3746
00:23:10,637 --> 00:23:10,657
[juliet_hahn]: a
3747
00:23:10,702 --> 00:23:11,143
[maggie]: i started
3748
00:23:10,857 --> 00:23:11,518
[abbe_greenberg]: in full sentences
3749
00:23:11,223 --> 00:23:11,624
[maggie]: talking in
3750
00:23:11,598 --> 00:23:11,658
[abbe_greenberg]: at
3751
00:23:11,684 --> 00:23:11,844
[maggie]: full
3752
00:23:11,702 --> 00:23:11,944
[juliet_hahn]: months
3753
00:23:11,718 --> 00:23:11,918
[abbe_greenberg]: nine
3754
00:23:11,884 --> 00:23:12,245
[maggie]: sentences
3755
00:23:11,958 --> 00:23:12,319
[abbe_greenberg]: months old
3756
00:23:12,325 --> 00:23:12,365
[maggie]: at
3757
00:23:12,379 --> 00:23:12,439
[abbe_greenberg]: and
3758
00:23:12,445 --> 00:23:12,625
[maggie]: nine
3759
00:23:12,499 --> 00:23:12,980
[abbe_greenberg]: i haven't
3760
00:23:12,685 --> 00:23:12,866
[maggie]: months
3761
00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:13,301
[abbe_greenberg]: stopped
3762
00:23:13,046 --> 00:23:13,547
[maggie]: when i had
3763
00:23:13,401 --> 00:23:13,721
[abbe_greenberg]: since
3764
00:23:13,787 --> 00:23:13,887
[maggie]: to
3765
00:23:14,543 --> 00:23:14,623
[abbe_greenberg]: and
3766
00:23:14,610 --> 00:23:15,113
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3767
00:23:14,643 --> 00:23:15,284
[abbe_greenberg]: there is some truth
3768
00:23:15,250 --> 00:23:15,330
[maggie]: and
3769
00:23:15,344 --> 00:23:15,404
[abbe_greenberg]: to
3770
00:23:15,370 --> 00:23:15,510
[maggie]: there
3771
00:23:15,444 --> 00:23:15,544
[abbe_greenberg]: that
3772
00:23:15,550 --> 00:23:15,610
[maggie]: is
3773
00:23:15,605 --> 00:23:15,625
[abbe_greenberg]: i
3774
00:23:15,670 --> 00:23:15,791
[maggie]: some
3775
00:23:15,685 --> 00:23:15,865
[abbe_greenberg]: think
3776
00:23:15,831 --> 00:23:16,011
[maggie]: truth
3777
00:23:16,045 --> 00:23:16,266
[abbe_greenberg]: although
3778
00:23:16,051 --> 00:23:16,271
[maggie]: to that
3779
00:23:16,286 --> 00:23:16,446
[abbe_greenberg]: maybe
3780
00:23:16,312 --> 00:23:16,552
[maggie]: i think
3781
00:23:16,506 --> 00:23:17,047
[abbe_greenberg]: not the nine month
3782
00:23:17,013 --> 00:23:17,153
[maggie]: maybe
3783
00:23:17,107 --> 00:23:17,207
[abbe_greenberg]: old
3784
00:23:17,233 --> 00:23:17,313
[maggie]: not
3785
00:23:17,247 --> 00:23:17,428
[abbe_greenberg]: part
3786
00:23:17,353 --> 00:23:17,714
[maggie]: the nine
3787
00:23:17,989 --> 00:23:19,611
[abbe_greenberg]: um i've always
3788
00:23:19,717 --> 00:23:19,737
[maggie]: i
3789
00:23:19,731 --> 00:23:19,972
[abbe_greenberg]: i mean i
3790
00:23:20,018 --> 00:23:20,298
[maggie]: always
3791
00:23:20,032 --> 00:23:20,272
[abbe_greenberg]: majored
3792
00:23:20,304 --> 00:23:20,325
[juliet_hahn]: a
3793
00:23:20,312 --> 00:23:20,953
[abbe_greenberg]: in communication
3794
00:23:20,519 --> 00:23:21,059
[maggie]: mean a major in
3795
00:23:21,054 --> 00:23:21,094
[abbe_greenberg]: i
3796
00:23:21,099 --> 00:23:21,620
[maggie]: communication
3797
00:23:21,254 --> 00:23:21,895
[abbe_greenberg]: threw myself into
3798
00:23:21,781 --> 00:23:21,801
[maggie]: i
3799
00:23:21,935 --> 00:23:22,416
[abbe_greenberg]: communication
3800
00:23:21,981 --> 00:23:22,422
[maggie]: threw myself
3801
00:23:22,496 --> 00:23:22,837
[abbe_greenberg]: research
3802
00:23:22,542 --> 00:23:23,123
[maggie]: to communication
3803
00:23:22,897 --> 00:23:23,237
[abbe_greenberg]: i became
3804
00:23:23,203 --> 00:23:23,564
[maggie]: research
3805
00:23:23,277 --> 00:23:23,698
[abbe_greenberg]: a professor
3806
00:23:23,624 --> 00:23:23,944
[maggie]: and became
3807
00:23:23,738 --> 00:23:24,439
[abbe_greenberg]: of communication
3808
00:23:24,004 --> 00:23:24,405
[maggie]: a professor
3809
00:23:24,270 --> 00:23:25,320
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3810
00:23:24,445 --> 00:23:25,166
[maggie]: of communication
3811
00:23:24,740 --> 00:23:25,481
[abbe_greenberg]: but i was
3812
00:23:25,447 --> 00:23:25,547
[maggie]: but
3813
00:23:25,561 --> 00:23:25,741
[abbe_greenberg]: not
3814
00:23:25,647 --> 00:23:25,667
[maggie]: i
3815
00:23:25,882 --> 00:23:26,223
[abbe_greenberg]: interested
3816
00:23:26,088 --> 00:23:26,448
[maggie]: was not
3817
00:23:26,283 --> 00:23:26,905
[abbe_greenberg]: in the media
3818
00:23:26,589 --> 00:23:27,050
[maggie]: interested in
3819
00:23:27,066 --> 00:23:27,166
[abbe_greenberg]: end
3820
00:23:27,090 --> 00:23:27,171
[maggie]: the
3821
00:23:27,226 --> 00:23:27,287
[abbe_greenberg]: of
3822
00:23:27,251 --> 00:23:27,612
[maggie]: media
3823
00:23:27,387 --> 00:23:28,250
[abbe_greenberg]: it and the journalism
3824
00:23:27,953 --> 00:23:28,014
[maggie]: of
3825
00:23:27,990 --> 00:23:29,010
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3826
00:23:28,114 --> 00:23:28,375
[maggie]: it and
3827
00:23:28,330 --> 00:23:28,390
[abbe_greenberg]: end
3828
00:23:28,395 --> 00:23:28,475
[maggie]: the
3829
00:23:28,430 --> 00:23:28,571
[abbe_greenberg]: of it
3830
00:23:28,535 --> 00:23:28,957
[maggie]: journalism
3831
00:23:28,671 --> 00:23:29,213
[abbe_greenberg]: i really was
3832
00:23:29,218 --> 00:23:29,298
[maggie]: that
3833
00:23:29,273 --> 00:23:29,574
[abbe_greenberg]: focused
3834
00:23:29,378 --> 00:23:29,800
[maggie]: i really
3835
00:23:29,635 --> 00:23:29,996
[abbe_greenberg]: on inter
3836
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:30,301
[maggie]: was focused
3837
00:23:30,036 --> 00:23:30,397
[abbe_greenberg]: personal
3838
00:23:30,362 --> 00:23:30,402
[maggie]: on
3839
00:23:30,437 --> 00:23:31,039
[abbe_greenberg]: communication
3840
00:23:30,502 --> 00:23:31,767
[maggie]: in personal communication
3841
00:23:31,530 --> 00:23:31,813
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3842
00:23:31,862 --> 00:23:32,843
[abbe_greenberg]: conflict management
3843
00:23:32,579 --> 00:23:33,019
[maggie]: conflict
3844
00:23:32,984 --> 00:23:33,144
[abbe_greenberg]: how
3845
00:23:33,100 --> 00:23:33,580
[maggie]: management
3846
00:23:33,224 --> 00:23:33,765
[abbe_greenberg]: we use our
3847
00:23:33,721 --> 00:23:33,841
[maggie]: how
3848
00:23:33,845 --> 00:23:34,486
[abbe_greenberg]: language
3849
00:23:33,961 --> 00:23:35,163
[maggie]: we use our language
3850
00:23:35,428 --> 00:23:36,049
[abbe_greenberg]: to manage
3851
00:23:36,069 --> 00:23:36,090
[juliet_hahn]: m
3852
00:23:36,145 --> 00:23:36,766
[maggie]: to manage
3853
00:23:36,389 --> 00:23:37,451
[abbe_greenberg]: difficult situations
3854
00:23:37,106 --> 00:23:38,168
[maggie]: difficult situations
3855
00:23:37,611 --> 00:23:38,152
[abbe_greenberg]: and so
3856
00:23:38,328 --> 00:23:38,869
[maggie]: and so
3857
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:38,900
[juliet_hahn]: m
3858
00:23:38,913 --> 00:23:39,454
[abbe_greenberg]: it was really
3859
00:23:39,630 --> 00:23:40,171
[maggie]: it was really
3860
00:23:39,995 --> 00:23:40,776
[abbe_greenberg]: a personal thing for
3861
00:23:40,712 --> 00:23:41,173
[maggie]: a personal
3862
00:23:40,817 --> 00:23:41,217
[abbe_greenberg]: me because
3863
00:23:41,213 --> 00:23:41,473
[maggie]: thing for
3864
00:23:41,398 --> 00:23:41,438
[abbe_greenberg]: i
3865
00:23:41,514 --> 00:23:41,594
[maggie]: me
3866
00:23:41,518 --> 00:23:41,638
[abbe_greenberg]: was
3867
00:23:41,674 --> 00:23:41,934
[maggie]: because
3868
00:23:41,718 --> 00:23:42,299
[abbe_greenberg]: trying to figure
3869
00:23:42,115 --> 00:23:42,355
[maggie]: i was
3870
00:23:42,330 --> 00:23:42,531
[juliet_hahn]: oh
3871
00:23:42,419 --> 00:23:42,559
[abbe_greenberg]: out
3872
00:23:42,435 --> 00:23:43,016
[maggie]: trying to figure
3873
00:23:42,980 --> 00:23:43,160
[abbe_greenberg]: in my
3874
00:23:43,136 --> 00:23:43,256
[maggie]: out
3875
00:23:43,261 --> 00:23:43,741
[abbe_greenberg]: own way how
3876
00:23:43,697 --> 00:23:43,877
[maggie]: in my
3877
00:23:43,842 --> 00:23:44,085
[abbe_greenberg]: i could
3878
00:23:43,978 --> 00:23:44,258
[maggie]: own way
3879
00:23:44,166 --> 00:23:44,914
[abbe_greenberg]: navigate
3880
00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:45,580
[maggie]: i could navigate
3881
00:23:45,652 --> 00:23:46,313
[abbe_greenberg]: my anxiety
3882
00:23:45,900 --> 00:23:46,620
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3883
00:23:46,362 --> 00:23:47,023
[maggie]: my anxiety
3884
00:23:46,673 --> 00:23:47,715
[abbe_greenberg]: my mental health issues
3885
00:23:47,423 --> 00:23:47,984
[maggie]: my mental health
3886
00:23:47,915 --> 00:23:48,136
[abbe_greenberg]: using
3887
00:23:48,044 --> 00:23:48,445
[maggie]: issues
3888
00:23:48,196 --> 00:23:48,596
[abbe_greenberg]: language
3889
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,140
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3890
00:23:48,645 --> 00:23:48,866
[maggie]: using
3891
00:23:48,657 --> 00:23:48,977
[abbe_greenberg]: because that
3892
00:23:48,926 --> 00:23:49,287
[maggie]: language
3893
00:23:49,017 --> 00:23:49,458
[abbe_greenberg]: was what came
3894
00:23:49,367 --> 00:23:49,567
[maggie]: because
3895
00:23:49,538 --> 00:23:49,919
[abbe_greenberg]: easiest
3896
00:23:49,587 --> 00:23:49,948
[maggie]: that was what
3897
00:23:49,999 --> 00:23:50,079
[abbe_greenberg]: to
3898
00:23:50,028 --> 00:23:50,188
[maggie]: came
3899
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:50,219
[abbe_greenberg]: me
3900
00:23:50,268 --> 00:23:50,629
[maggie]: easiest
3901
00:23:50,279 --> 00:23:50,780
[abbe_greenberg]: and that was what
3902
00:23:50,709 --> 00:23:50,789
[maggie]: to
3903
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:50,860
[abbe_greenberg]: i
3904
00:23:50,849 --> 00:23:50,929
[maggie]: me
3905
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:51,301
[abbe_greenberg]: enjoyed
3906
00:23:51,009 --> 00:23:51,350
[maggie]: and that was
3907
00:23:51,341 --> 00:23:51,421
[abbe_greenberg]: the
3908
00:23:51,390 --> 00:23:51,510
[maggie]: what
3909
00:23:51,461 --> 00:23:51,662
[abbe_greenberg]: most
3910
00:23:51,550 --> 00:23:52,011
[maggie]: i enjoyed
3911
00:23:51,742 --> 00:23:52,403
[abbe_greenberg]: so i
3912
00:23:52,472 --> 00:23:52,572
[maggie]: so
3913
00:23:52,483 --> 00:23:53,224
[abbe_greenberg]: really threw myself
3914
00:23:53,113 --> 00:23:53,413
[maggie]: i really
3915
00:23:53,304 --> 00:23:53,505
[abbe_greenberg]: into
3916
00:23:53,453 --> 00:23:53,594
[maggie]: threw
3917
00:23:53,565 --> 00:23:53,665
[abbe_greenberg]: the
3918
00:23:53,654 --> 00:23:53,954
[maggie]: myself
3919
00:23:53,745 --> 00:23:54,226
[abbe_greenberg]: inter personal
3920
00:23:54,034 --> 00:23:54,195
[maggie]: into
3921
00:23:54,266 --> 00:23:54,807
[abbe_greenberg]: communication
3922
00:23:54,275 --> 00:23:54,936
[maggie]: the personal
3923
00:23:54,813 --> 00:23:54,974
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
3924
00:23:54,887 --> 00:23:55,127
[abbe_greenberg]: world
3925
00:23:54,996 --> 00:23:55,517
[maggie]: communication
3926
00:23:55,488 --> 00:23:55,568
[abbe_greenberg]: and
3927
00:23:55,597 --> 00:23:55,817
[maggie]: world
3928
00:23:55,648 --> 00:23:56,590
[abbe_greenberg]: ended up being a professor
3929
00:23:56,238 --> 00:23:56,839
[maggie]: and being
3930
00:23:56,670 --> 00:23:57,051
[abbe_greenberg]: for twenty
3931
00:23:56,859 --> 00:23:57,300
[maggie]: a professor
3932
00:23:57,111 --> 00:23:57,351
[abbe_greenberg]: something
3933
00:23:57,360 --> 00:23:57,440
[maggie]: for
3934
00:23:57,391 --> 00:23:57,531
[abbe_greenberg]: years
3935
00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:57,741
[maggie]: twenty
3936
00:23:57,692 --> 00:23:57,753
[abbe_greenberg]: we
3937
00:23:57,801 --> 00:23:58,041
[maggie]: something
3938
00:23:57,834 --> 00:23:58,076
[abbe_greenberg]: loved
3939
00:23:58,081 --> 00:23:58,261
[maggie]: years
3940
00:23:58,136 --> 00:23:58,197
[abbe_greenberg]: it
3941
00:23:58,300 --> 00:23:58,881
[juliet_hahn]: right and
3942
00:23:58,834 --> 00:23:59,040
[abbe_greenberg]: great
3943
00:23:59,041 --> 00:23:59,602
[juliet_hahn]: you know what
3944
00:23:59,604 --> 00:23:59,804
[maggie]: right
3945
00:23:59,642 --> 00:24:00,183
[juliet_hahn]: i love so much
3946
00:24:00,205 --> 00:24:00,285
[maggie]: and
3947
00:24:00,243 --> 00:24:00,263
[juliet_hahn]: i
3948
00:24:00,465 --> 00:24:00,645
[maggie]: you know
3949
00:24:00,584 --> 00:24:00,984
[juliet_hahn]: actually was
3950
00:24:00,886 --> 00:24:01,006
[maggie]: what
3951
00:24:01,024 --> 00:24:01,145
[juliet_hahn]: just
3952
00:24:01,046 --> 00:24:01,266
[maggie]: i love
3953
00:24:01,225 --> 00:24:01,265
[juliet_hahn]: at
3954
00:24:01,327 --> 00:24:01,407
[maggie]: so
3955
00:24:01,345 --> 00:24:01,385
[juliet_hahn]: a
3956
00:24:01,447 --> 00:24:01,567
[maggie]: much
3957
00:24:01,605 --> 00:24:03,488
[juliet_hahn]: podmpodcast
3958
00:24:01,627 --> 00:24:04,852
[maggie]: i actually wish was at a podpodcast
3959
00:24:03,669 --> 00:24:04,630
[juliet_hahn]: convention and my
3960
00:24:05,013 --> 00:24:05,494
[maggie]: convention
3961
00:24:05,372 --> 00:24:05,712
[juliet_hahn]: topic
3962
00:24:05,654 --> 00:24:05,974
[maggie]: and my
3963
00:24:05,832 --> 00:24:06,754
[juliet_hahn]: was the
3964
00:24:06,716 --> 00:24:07,036
[maggie]: topic
3965
00:24:06,914 --> 00:24:07,134
[juliet_hahn]: you know
3966
00:24:07,176 --> 00:24:07,437
[maggie]: was
3967
00:24:07,235 --> 00:24:07,335
[juliet_hahn]: the
3968
00:24:07,958 --> 00:24:08,058
[maggie]: the
3969
00:24:08,116 --> 00:24:08,296
[juliet_hahn]: about
3970
00:24:08,218 --> 00:24:08,438
[maggie]: you know
3971
00:24:08,377 --> 00:24:08,637
[juliet_hahn]: story
3972
00:24:08,559 --> 00:24:08,699
[maggie]: that
3973
00:24:08,697 --> 00:24:09,959
[juliet_hahn]: telling and podcastingan
3974
00:24:09,420 --> 00:24:10,382
[maggie]: about storytelling and
3975
00:24:10,380 --> 00:24:10,520
[juliet_hahn]: when
3976
00:24:10,442 --> 00:24:11,083
[maggie]: podcasting
3977
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,502
[juliet_hahn]: when i started
3978
00:24:11,203 --> 00:24:11,804
[maggie]: and when
3979
00:24:12,003 --> 00:24:12,103
[juliet_hahn]: the
3980
00:24:12,044 --> 00:24:12,145
[maggie]: when
3981
00:24:12,203 --> 00:24:12,564
[juliet_hahn]: speech
3982
00:24:12,265 --> 00:24:12,806
[maggie]: i started
3983
00:24:12,724 --> 00:24:13,084
[juliet_hahn]: the talk
3984
00:24:13,086 --> 00:24:13,908
[maggie]: at the page
3985
00:24:13,665 --> 00:24:13,705
[juliet_hahn]: i
3986
00:24:14,028 --> 00:24:14,408
[maggie]: the talk
3987
00:24:14,447 --> 00:24:14,927
[juliet_hahn]: opened up with
3988
00:24:14,989 --> 00:24:15,009
[maggie]: i
3989
00:24:15,008 --> 00:24:16,150
[juliet_hahn]: a story and it was a story
3990
00:24:15,851 --> 00:24:16,312
[maggie]: opened up with
3991
00:24:16,290 --> 00:24:16,490
[juliet_hahn]: about
3992
00:24:16,372 --> 00:24:16,692
[maggie]: a story
3993
00:24:16,590 --> 00:24:16,791
[juliet_hahn]: third
3994
00:24:16,792 --> 00:24:16,872
[maggie]: and
3995
00:24:16,891 --> 00:24:17,211
[juliet_hahn]: grade
3996
00:24:16,913 --> 00:24:17,494
[maggie]: it was a story
3997
00:24:17,512 --> 00:24:17,632
[juliet_hahn]: and
3998
00:24:17,634 --> 00:24:17,854
[maggie]: about
3999
00:24:17,892 --> 00:24:17,953
[juliet_hahn]: you
4000
00:24:17,934 --> 00:24:18,155
[maggie]: third
4001
00:24:18,013 --> 00:24:18,153
[juliet_hahn]: know
4002
00:24:18,235 --> 00:24:18,535
[maggie]: grade
4003
00:24:18,433 --> 00:24:18,794
[juliet_hahn]: how i was
4004
00:24:18,836 --> 00:24:19,437
[maggie]: and you know
4005
00:24:19,375 --> 00:24:19,916
[juliet_hahn]: went to special
4006
00:24:19,757 --> 00:24:19,978
[maggie]: how i
4007
00:24:19,976 --> 00:24:20,236
[juliet_hahn]: reading
4008
00:24:20,038 --> 00:24:20,118
[maggie]: was
4009
00:24:20,677 --> 00:24:20,797
[juliet_hahn]: but
4010
00:24:20,739 --> 00:24:20,939
[maggie]: went to
4011
00:24:20,917 --> 00:24:21,058
[juliet_hahn]: from
4012
00:24:20,979 --> 00:24:21,259
[maggie]: special
4013
00:24:21,138 --> 00:24:21,338
[juliet_hahn]: that
4014
00:24:21,299 --> 00:24:21,580
[maggie]: reading
4015
00:24:21,438 --> 00:24:21,939
[juliet_hahn]: day on
4016
00:24:22,001 --> 00:24:22,121
[maggie]: but
4017
00:24:22,220 --> 00:24:22,781
[juliet_hahn]: remember
4018
00:24:22,241 --> 00:24:23,263
[maggie]: from that day on
4019
00:24:23,402 --> 00:24:23,502
[juliet_hahn]: that
4020
00:24:23,403 --> 00:24:23,423
[maggie]: i
4021
00:24:23,522 --> 00:24:23,622
[juliet_hahn]: when
4022
00:24:23,543 --> 00:24:24,104
[maggie]: remember
4023
00:24:23,682 --> 00:24:24,804
[juliet_hahn]: i spoke to my teachers
4024
00:24:24,725 --> 00:24:24,986
[maggie]: that when
4025
00:24:25,024 --> 00:24:25,165
[juliet_hahn]: when
4026
00:24:25,026 --> 00:24:25,366
[maggie]: i spoke
4027
00:24:25,205 --> 00:24:25,525
[juliet_hahn]: i spoke
4028
00:24:25,446 --> 00:24:25,627
[maggie]: to my
4029
00:24:25,605 --> 00:24:26,086
[juliet_hahn]: to adults
4030
00:24:25,747 --> 00:24:26,548
[maggie]: teachers when i
4031
00:24:26,547 --> 00:24:26,667
[juliet_hahn]: they
4032
00:24:26,648 --> 00:24:26,869
[maggie]: spoke
4033
00:24:26,727 --> 00:24:27,068
[juliet_hahn]: listened
4034
00:24:26,929 --> 00:24:27,410
[maggie]: to adults
4035
00:24:27,308 --> 00:24:27,909
[juliet_hahn]: to me and
4036
00:24:27,870 --> 00:24:27,991
[maggie]: they
4037
00:24:27,929 --> 00:24:28,049
[juliet_hahn]: they
4038
00:24:28,051 --> 00:24:28,391
[maggie]: listened
4039
00:24:28,089 --> 00:24:28,550
[juliet_hahn]: would stop
4040
00:24:28,632 --> 00:24:28,712
[maggie]: to
4041
00:24:28,710 --> 00:24:28,791
[juliet_hahn]: and
4042
00:24:28,772 --> 00:24:28,852
[maggie]: me
4043
00:24:28,811 --> 00:24:29,191
[juliet_hahn]: they would ask
4044
00:24:29,133 --> 00:24:29,353
[maggie]: and they
4045
00:24:29,271 --> 00:24:29,792
[juliet_hahn]: me questions
4046
00:24:29,413 --> 00:24:29,874
[maggie]: would stop
4047
00:24:29,872 --> 00:24:30,073
[juliet_hahn]: but then
4048
00:24:30,034 --> 00:24:30,114
[maggie]: and
4049
00:24:30,113 --> 00:24:30,213
[juliet_hahn]: when
4050
00:24:30,134 --> 00:24:30,355
[maggie]: they would
4051
00:24:30,253 --> 00:24:30,413
[juliet_hahn]: i had
4052
00:24:30,415 --> 00:24:30,495
[maggie]: ask
4053
00:24:30,453 --> 00:24:30,654
[juliet_hahn]: to do
4054
00:24:30,595 --> 00:24:31,136
[maggie]: me questions
4055
00:24:30,774 --> 00:24:31,235
[juliet_hahn]: work when
4056
00:24:31,196 --> 00:24:31,276
[maggie]: but
4057
00:24:31,295 --> 00:24:31,335
[juliet_hahn]: i
4058
00:24:31,316 --> 00:24:31,416
[maggie]: then
4059
00:24:31,375 --> 00:24:31,475
[juliet_hahn]: had
4060
00:24:31,456 --> 00:24:31,537
[maggie]: when
4061
00:24:31,515 --> 00:24:31,575
[juliet_hahn]: to
4062
00:24:31,577 --> 00:24:31,597
[maggie]: i
4063
00:24:31,635 --> 00:24:31,856
[juliet_hahn]: write
4064
00:24:31,657 --> 00:24:32,338
[maggie]: had to do work
4065
00:24:32,316 --> 00:24:32,477
[juliet_hahn]: to do
4066
00:24:32,458 --> 00:24:32,558
[maggie]: when
4067
00:24:32,537 --> 00:24:32,577
[juliet_hahn]: a
4068
00:24:32,618 --> 00:24:32,638
[maggie]: i
4069
00:24:32,637 --> 00:24:32,897
[juliet_hahn]: test
4070
00:24:32,959 --> 00:24:33,139
[maggie]: right
4071
00:24:32,998 --> 00:24:33,699
[juliet_hahn]: i was told i wasn't
4072
00:24:33,620 --> 00:24:33,780
[maggie]: to do
4073
00:24:33,739 --> 00:24:34,019
[juliet_hahn]: trying
4074
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:34,221
[maggie]: a test
4075
00:24:34,260 --> 00:24:34,500
[juliet_hahn]: enough
4076
00:24:34,301 --> 00:24:34,982
[maggie]: i was told i wasn't
4077
00:24:34,901 --> 00:24:35,221
[juliet_hahn]: and that
4078
00:24:35,123 --> 00:24:35,403
[maggie]: trying
4079
00:24:35,342 --> 00:24:35,382
[juliet_hahn]: i
4080
00:24:35,463 --> 00:24:35,623
[maggie]: hard
4081
00:24:35,482 --> 00:24:35,802
[juliet_hahn]: wasn't
4082
00:24:35,683 --> 00:24:35,904
[maggie]: enough
4083
00:24:35,902 --> 00:24:36,363
[juliet_hahn]: focused
4084
00:24:36,284 --> 00:24:36,585
[maggie]: and that
4085
00:24:36,443 --> 00:24:36,924
[juliet_hahn]: and i needed
4086
00:24:36,705 --> 00:24:37,146
[maggie]: i wasn't
4087
00:24:36,984 --> 00:24:37,265
[juliet_hahn]: to work
4088
00:24:37,266 --> 00:24:37,707
[maggie]: focused
4089
00:24:37,325 --> 00:24:37,746
[juliet_hahn]: harder and
4090
00:24:37,787 --> 00:24:37,867
[maggie]: and
4091
00:24:37,906 --> 00:24:37,966
[juliet_hahn]: you
4092
00:24:37,927 --> 00:24:37,947
[maggie]: i
4093
00:24:38,006 --> 00:24:38,146
[juliet_hahn]: know
4094
00:24:38,027 --> 00:24:38,608
[maggie]: needed to work
4095
00:24:38,487 --> 00:24:38,727
[juliet_hahn]: i didn't
4096
00:24:38,668 --> 00:24:38,969
[maggie]: harder
4097
00:24:38,787 --> 00:24:38,948
[juliet_hahn]: give
4098
00:24:39,029 --> 00:24:39,309
[maggie]: and you
4099
00:24:39,348 --> 00:24:39,428
[juliet_hahn]: the
4100
00:24:39,350 --> 00:24:39,470
[maggie]: know
4101
00:24:39,468 --> 00:24:39,929
[juliet_hahn]: assignment
4102
00:24:39,830 --> 00:24:40,071
[maggie]: i didn't
4103
00:24:39,989 --> 00:24:40,109
[juliet_hahn]: what
4104
00:24:40,131 --> 00:24:40,291
[maggie]: give
4105
00:24:40,210 --> 00:24:40,710
[juliet_hahn]: i do when
4106
00:24:40,712 --> 00:24:40,792
[maggie]: the
4107
00:24:40,751 --> 00:24:40,851
[juliet_hahn]: i'm
4108
00:24:40,832 --> 00:24:41,293
[maggie]: assignment
4109
00:24:40,911 --> 00:24:41,352
[juliet_hahn]: in class
4110
00:24:41,353 --> 00:24:41,573
[maggie]: what i
4111
00:24:41,712 --> 00:24:41,832
[juliet_hahn]: and
4112
00:24:41,713 --> 00:24:42,314
[maggie]: do when i'm in
4113
00:24:42,293 --> 00:24:42,473
[juliet_hahn]: that
4114
00:24:42,375 --> 00:24:42,695
[maggie]: class
4115
00:24:42,554 --> 00:24:42,974
[juliet_hahn]: was where
4116
00:24:43,056 --> 00:24:43,196
[maggie]: and
4117
00:24:43,435 --> 00:24:43,575
[juliet_hahn]: my
4118
00:24:43,637 --> 00:24:43,817
[maggie]: that
4119
00:24:43,695 --> 00:24:43,976
[juliet_hahn]: story
4120
00:24:43,877 --> 00:24:43,997
[maggie]: was
4121
00:24:44,036 --> 00:24:44,296
[juliet_hahn]: telling
4122
00:24:44,097 --> 00:24:44,318
[maggie]: where
4123
00:24:44,397 --> 00:24:45,458
[juliet_hahn]: my communications
4124
00:24:44,779 --> 00:24:45,720
[maggie]: my story telling
4125
00:24:45,579 --> 00:24:45,959
[juliet_hahn]: became
4126
00:24:45,820 --> 00:24:46,842
[maggie]: my communications
4127
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:46,861
[juliet_hahn]: apparent
4128
00:24:46,942 --> 00:24:47,303
[maggie]: became
4129
00:24:47,201 --> 00:24:47,422
[juliet_hahn]: because
4130
00:24:47,443 --> 00:24:47,563
[maggie]: so
4131
00:24:47,462 --> 00:24:47,902
[juliet_hahn]: people didn't
4132
00:24:47,784 --> 00:24:48,224
[maggie]: apparent
4133
00:24:47,943 --> 00:24:48,884
[juliet_hahn]: realize i struggled
4134
00:24:48,545 --> 00:24:49,006
[maggie]: because people
4135
00:24:48,964 --> 00:24:49,044
[juliet_hahn]: as
4136
00:24:49,046 --> 00:24:49,226
[maggie]: didn't
4137
00:24:49,104 --> 00:24:49,245
[juliet_hahn]: much
4138
00:24:49,286 --> 00:24:49,627
[maggie]: realize
4139
00:24:49,325 --> 00:24:49,886
[juliet_hahn]: as i did
4140
00:24:49,747 --> 00:24:50,388
[maggie]: i struggled as
4141
00:24:50,347 --> 00:24:50,467
[juliet_hahn]: when
4142
00:24:50,468 --> 00:24:50,608
[maggie]: much
4143
00:24:50,527 --> 00:24:50,887
[juliet_hahn]: i spoke
4144
00:24:50,668 --> 00:24:50,829
[maggie]: as i
4145
00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:51,028
[juliet_hahn]: to
4146
00:24:50,969 --> 00:24:51,209
[maggie]: did
4147
00:24:51,048 --> 00:24:51,769
[juliet_hahn]: them and
4148
00:24:51,690 --> 00:24:51,810
[maggie]: when
4149
00:24:51,829 --> 00:24:51,889
[juliet_hahn]: so
4150
00:24:51,870 --> 00:24:51,890
[maggie]: i
4151
00:24:51,969 --> 00:24:52,150
[juliet_hahn]: that's
4152
00:24:51,991 --> 00:24:52,211
[maggie]: spoke
4153
00:24:52,190 --> 00:24:52,330
[juliet_hahn]: where
4154
00:24:52,291 --> 00:24:52,371
[maggie]: to
4155
00:24:52,390 --> 00:24:52,430
[juliet_hahn]: i
4156
00:24:52,411 --> 00:24:52,552
[maggie]: them
4157
00:24:52,490 --> 00:24:53,211
[juliet_hahn]: kind of really homed
4158
00:24:53,012 --> 00:24:53,493
[maggie]: and so that's
4159
00:24:53,412 --> 00:24:53,492
[juliet_hahn]: in
4160
00:24:53,533 --> 00:24:53,653
[maggie]: where
4161
00:24:53,692 --> 00:24:53,772
[juliet_hahn]: on
4162
00:24:53,734 --> 00:24:53,974
[maggie]: i kind
4163
00:24:53,892 --> 00:24:54,113
[juliet_hahn]: that
4164
00:24:53,994 --> 00:24:54,254
[maggie]: of really
4165
00:24:54,213 --> 00:24:54,393
[juliet_hahn]: part
4166
00:24:54,355 --> 00:24:54,535
[maggie]: owned
4167
00:24:54,453 --> 00:24:54,914
[juliet_hahn]: so i love
4168
00:24:54,755 --> 00:24:54,835
[maggie]: in
4169
00:24:54,974 --> 00:24:55,094
[juliet_hahn]: that
4170
00:24:55,036 --> 00:24:55,116
[maggie]: on
4171
00:24:55,155 --> 00:24:55,275
[juliet_hahn]: that
4172
00:24:55,236 --> 00:24:55,436
[maggie]: that
4173
00:24:55,355 --> 00:24:55,876
[juliet_hahn]: fascinated
4174
00:24:55,557 --> 00:24:55,857
[maggie]: part so
4175
00:24:55,936 --> 00:24:56,036
[juliet_hahn]: you
4176
00:24:55,937 --> 00:24:56,278
[maggie]: i love
4177
00:24:56,136 --> 00:24:56,316
[juliet_hahn]: because
4178
00:24:56,318 --> 00:24:56,458
[maggie]: that
4179
00:24:56,336 --> 00:24:56,437
[juliet_hahn]: that
4180
00:24:56,498 --> 00:24:56,618
[maggie]: that
4181
00:24:56,737 --> 00:24:56,978
[juliet_hahn]: is why
4182
00:24:56,859 --> 00:24:57,200
[maggie]: so needed
4183
00:24:57,078 --> 00:24:57,318
[juliet_hahn]: i went
4184
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:57,280
[maggie]: to
4185
00:24:57,358 --> 00:24:57,518
[juliet_hahn]: into
4186
00:24:57,460 --> 00:24:57,641
[maggie]: because
4187
00:24:57,559 --> 00:24:58,099
[juliet_hahn]: communication
4188
00:24:57,661 --> 00:24:58,643
[maggie]: that is why i went
4189
00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:58,681
[juliet_hahn]: not
4190
00:24:58,683 --> 00:24:58,844
[maggie]: into
4191
00:24:58,781 --> 00:24:59,282
[juliet_hahn]: realizing
4192
00:24:58,884 --> 00:24:59,485
[maggie]: communications
4193
00:24:59,362 --> 00:24:59,883
[juliet_hahn]: until later
4194
00:24:59,906 --> 00:25:00,027
[maggie]: not
4195
00:24:59,943 --> 00:25:00,123
[juliet_hahn]: in my
4196
00:25:00,127 --> 00:25:00,608
[maggie]: realizing
4197
00:25:00,243 --> 00:25:00,504
[juliet_hahn]: life
4198
00:25:00,708 --> 00:25:00,909
[maggie]: until
4199
00:25:00,925 --> 00:25:01,045
[juliet_hahn]: that
4200
00:25:00,989 --> 00:25:01,230
[maggie]: later
4201
00:25:01,105 --> 00:25:01,366
[juliet_hahn]: i went
4202
00:25:01,290 --> 00:25:01,470
[maggie]: in my
4203
00:25:01,426 --> 00:25:01,586
[juliet_hahn]: into
4204
00:25:01,591 --> 00:25:01,851
[maggie]: life
4205
00:25:01,626 --> 00:25:02,247
[juliet_hahn]: communications
4206
00:25:02,272 --> 00:25:02,453
[maggie]: that i
4207
00:25:02,528 --> 00:25:02,888
[juliet_hahn]: because
4208
00:25:02,533 --> 00:25:03,576
[maggie]: went into communications
4209
00:25:03,620 --> 00:25:03,800
[juliet_hahn]: when i
4210
00:25:03,856 --> 00:25:04,177
[maggie]: because
4211
00:25:03,900 --> 00:25:05,142
[juliet_hahn]: spoke people stopped
4212
00:25:05,129 --> 00:25:05,149
[maggie]: i
4213
00:25:05,242 --> 00:25:05,362
[juliet_hahn]: they
4214
00:25:05,249 --> 00:25:05,570
[maggie]: spoke
4215
00:25:05,423 --> 00:25:05,763
[juliet_hahn]: listened
4216
00:25:05,870 --> 00:25:06,090
[maggie]: people
4217
00:25:06,044 --> 00:25:06,264
[juliet_hahn]: you know
4218
00:25:06,171 --> 00:25:06,471
[maggie]: stopped
4219
00:25:06,544 --> 00:25:06,645
[juliet_hahn]: they
4220
00:25:06,611 --> 00:25:06,711
[maggie]: they
4221
00:25:06,725 --> 00:25:07,005
[juliet_hahn]: treated
4222
00:25:06,772 --> 00:25:07,092
[maggie]: listened
4223
00:25:07,065 --> 00:25:07,646
[juliet_hahn]: me the same
4224
00:25:07,393 --> 00:25:07,613
[maggie]: you know
4225
00:25:07,827 --> 00:25:07,927
[juliet_hahn]: they
4226
00:25:07,893 --> 00:25:07,994
[maggie]: they
4227
00:25:07,987 --> 00:25:08,127
[juliet_hahn]: gave
4228
00:25:08,074 --> 00:25:08,354
[maggie]: treated
4229
00:25:08,187 --> 00:25:08,848
[juliet_hahn]: me positive
4230
00:25:08,394 --> 00:25:08,975
[maggie]: me the same
4231
00:25:09,169 --> 00:25:09,750
[juliet_hahn]: affirmations
4232
00:25:09,176 --> 00:25:10,177
[maggie]: they gave me positive
4233
00:25:09,870 --> 00:25:10,932
[juliet_hahn]: positive reinforcement
4234
00:25:10,498 --> 00:25:11,640
[maggie]: affirmations positive
4235
00:25:11,312 --> 00:25:11,733
[juliet_hahn]: but when i was
4236
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:12,261
[maggie]: reinforcement
4237
00:25:11,793 --> 00:25:12,454
[juliet_hahn]: in the class room
4238
00:25:12,641 --> 00:25:12,862
[maggie]: but when
4239
00:25:12,835 --> 00:25:12,915
[juliet_hahn]: and
4240
00:25:12,902 --> 00:25:12,942
[maggie]: i
4241
00:25:12,975 --> 00:25:13,015
[juliet_hahn]: i
4242
00:25:12,982 --> 00:25:13,062
[maggie]: was
4243
00:25:13,055 --> 00:25:13,155
[juliet_hahn]: had
4244
00:25:13,102 --> 00:25:13,162
[maggie]: in
4245
00:25:13,195 --> 00:25:13,256
[juliet_hahn]: to
4246
00:25:13,202 --> 00:25:13,783
[maggie]: the classroom
4247
00:25:13,316 --> 00:25:14,097
[juliet_hahn]: write is when i
4248
00:25:14,164 --> 00:25:14,244
[maggie]: and
4249
00:25:14,177 --> 00:25:14,277
[juliet_hahn]: got
4250
00:25:14,304 --> 00:25:14,344
[maggie]: i
4251
00:25:14,317 --> 00:25:14,397
[juliet_hahn]: the
4252
00:25:14,384 --> 00:25:14,484
[maggie]: had
4253
00:25:14,458 --> 00:25:14,818
[juliet_hahn]: negative
4254
00:25:14,524 --> 00:25:14,905
[maggie]: to write
4255
00:25:14,898 --> 00:25:15,059
[juliet_hahn]: stuff
4256
00:25:15,105 --> 00:25:15,165
[maggie]: is
4257
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:15,179
[juliet_hahn]: so
4258
00:25:15,226 --> 00:25:15,366
[maggie]: when
4259
00:25:15,259 --> 00:25:15,459
[juliet_hahn]: i think
4260
00:25:15,406 --> 00:25:15,726
[maggie]: i got the
4261
00:25:15,700 --> 00:25:15,840
[juliet_hahn]: it's
4262
00:25:15,807 --> 00:25:16,147
[maggie]: negative
4263
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:16,181
[juliet_hahn]: really
4264
00:25:16,227 --> 00:25:16,388
[maggie]: stuff
4265
00:25:16,261 --> 00:25:16,923
[juliet_hahn]: fascinating
4266
00:25:16,448 --> 00:25:17,511
[maggie]: so i think it it's really
4267
00:25:17,364 --> 00:25:17,524
[juliet_hahn]: and i
4268
00:25:17,592 --> 00:25:18,235
[maggie]: fascinating
4269
00:25:17,624 --> 00:25:18,667
[juliet_hahn]: love that you went into
4270
00:25:18,677 --> 00:25:18,757
[maggie]: and
4271
00:25:18,727 --> 00:25:18,928
[juliet_hahn]: that
4272
00:25:18,818 --> 00:25:19,662
[maggie]: i love that you went
4273
00:25:19,690 --> 00:25:19,890
[juliet_hahn]: because
4274
00:25:19,782 --> 00:25:20,004
[maggie]: into
4275
00:25:19,910 --> 00:25:20,130
[juliet_hahn]: you were
4276
00:25:20,064 --> 00:25:20,285
[maggie]: that
4277
00:25:20,190 --> 00:25:20,991
[juliet_hahn]: also kind of working
4278
00:25:21,009 --> 00:25:21,209
[maggie]: because
4279
00:25:21,031 --> 00:25:21,472
[juliet_hahn]: on yourself
4280
00:25:21,229 --> 00:25:21,710
[maggie]: you were also
4281
00:25:21,532 --> 00:25:21,812
[juliet_hahn]: like how
4282
00:25:21,790 --> 00:25:21,930
[maggie]: kind
4283
00:25:21,892 --> 00:25:22,012
[juliet_hahn]: can
4284
00:25:21,970 --> 00:25:22,311
[maggie]: of working
4285
00:25:22,153 --> 00:25:22,193
[juliet_hahn]: i
4286
00:25:22,351 --> 00:25:22,411
[maggie]: on
4287
00:25:22,353 --> 00:25:22,433
[juliet_hahn]: do
4288
00:25:22,451 --> 00:25:22,792
[maggie]: yourself
4289
00:25:22,533 --> 00:25:22,954
[juliet_hahn]: this and
4290
00:25:22,872 --> 00:25:23,332
[maggie]: like how can
4291
00:25:23,314 --> 00:25:23,534
[juliet_hahn]: you know
4292
00:25:23,473 --> 00:25:23,513
[maggie]: i
4293
00:25:23,594 --> 00:25:23,654
[juliet_hahn]: and
4294
00:25:23,673 --> 00:25:23,753
[maggie]: do
4295
00:25:23,694 --> 00:25:23,815
[juliet_hahn]: then
4296
00:25:23,833 --> 00:25:24,034
[maggie]: this
4297
00:25:23,875 --> 00:25:24,255
[juliet_hahn]: maggie
4298
00:25:24,002 --> 00:25:24,167
[abbe_greenberg]: yeah
4299
00:25:24,274 --> 00:25:24,955
[maggie]: and you know
4300
00:25:24,856 --> 00:25:24,956
[juliet_hahn]: you
4301
00:25:25,015 --> 00:25:25,216
[maggie]: and then
4302
00:25:25,176 --> 00:25:25,437
[juliet_hahn]: wanting
4303
00:25:25,276 --> 00:25:25,636
[maggie]: maggie
4304
00:25:25,517 --> 00:25:26,418
[juliet_hahn]: to help you know
4305
00:25:26,337 --> 00:25:29,583
[maggie]: who wanted to help you know i
also everyone who goes
4306
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:30,330
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4307
00:25:29,663 --> 00:25:32,428
[maggie]: into social work or psychology or psychiatry
4308
00:25:32,130 --> 00:25:33,270
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4309
00:25:32,588 --> 00:25:32,989
[maggie]: we all
4310
00:25:33,900 --> 00:25:34,223
[juliet_hahn]: ye
4311
00:25:34,030 --> 00:25:39,740
[maggie]: pretty much all of us are doing
it to because we've we've experienced like
4312
00:25:39,750 --> 00:25:40,152
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4313
00:25:40,180 --> 00:25:44,648
[maggie]: these kind of challenges and so you
know we know what it feels like and
4314
00:25:44,708 --> 00:25:49,497
[maggie]: we have some interest in in this
field and and into learning more about
4315
00:25:49,500 --> 00:25:49,660
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4316
00:25:49,597 --> 00:25:49,657
[maggie]: it
4317
00:25:50,340 --> 00:25:50,460
[juliet_hahn]: so
4318
00:25:51,099 --> 00:25:52,000
[maggie]: you know for ourselves
4319
00:25:51,862 --> 00:25:53,163
[juliet_hahn]: no totally which is now which
4320
00:25:53,221 --> 00:25:53,341
[maggie]: no
4321
00:25:53,223 --> 00:25:53,683
[juliet_hahn]: is awesome
4322
00:25:53,561 --> 00:25:53,861
[maggie]: totally
4323
00:25:53,723 --> 00:25:53,903
[juliet_hahn]: though
4324
00:25:53,901 --> 00:25:54,001
[maggie]: which
4325
00:25:53,963 --> 00:25:54,144
[juliet_hahn]: i mean
4326
00:25:54,061 --> 00:25:54,141
[maggie]: is
4327
00:25:54,184 --> 00:25:54,464
[juliet_hahn]: it really
4328
00:25:54,322 --> 00:25:55,282
[maggie]: now which is awesome though
4329
00:25:55,104 --> 00:25:55,405
[juliet_hahn]: especially
4330
00:25:55,342 --> 00:25:55,503
[maggie]: i mean
4331
00:25:55,445 --> 00:25:55,645
[juliet_hahn]: when you
4332
00:25:55,643 --> 00:25:55,863
[maggie]: really
4333
00:25:55,665 --> 00:25:56,365
[juliet_hahn]: can do something with
4334
00:25:56,463 --> 00:25:56,784
[maggie]: especially
4335
00:25:56,466 --> 00:25:56,506
[juliet_hahn]: it
4336
00:25:56,804 --> 00:25:56,904
[maggie]: when
4337
00:25:56,906 --> 00:25:57,006
[juliet_hahn]: so
4338
00:25:56,944 --> 00:25:57,564
[maggie]: you could do something
4339
00:25:57,446 --> 00:25:57,647
[juliet_hahn]: when
4340
00:25:57,604 --> 00:25:57,724
[maggie]: with
4341
00:25:57,787 --> 00:25:57,947
[juliet_hahn]: did
4342
00:25:57,805 --> 00:25:57,865
[maggie]: it
4343
00:25:58,027 --> 00:25:58,607
[juliet_hahn]: you guys
4344
00:25:58,265 --> 00:25:59,306
[maggie]: so when did
4345
00:25:59,268 --> 00:25:59,708
[juliet_hahn]: realize
4346
00:25:59,366 --> 00:25:59,926
[maggie]: you guys
4347
00:25:59,909 --> 00:26:00,189
[juliet_hahn]: okay
4348
00:26:00,627 --> 00:26:01,528
[maggie]: realize okay
4349
00:26:01,310 --> 00:26:02,411
[juliet_hahn]: our anxiety has really
4350
00:26:02,649 --> 00:26:03,250
[maggie]: our anxiety
4351
00:26:03,093 --> 00:26:03,393
[juliet_hahn]: gotten
4352
00:26:03,330 --> 00:26:03,530
[maggie]: has
4353
00:26:03,453 --> 00:26:03,774
[juliet_hahn]: the best
4354
00:26:03,630 --> 00:26:03,851
[maggie]: really
4355
00:26:03,934 --> 00:26:04,535
[juliet_hahn]: of us separately
4356
00:26:04,572 --> 00:26:04,852
[maggie]: gotten
4357
00:26:04,595 --> 00:26:05,276
[juliet_hahn]: and then together
4358
00:26:04,932 --> 00:26:05,213
[maggie]: the best
4359
00:26:05,376 --> 00:26:05,457
[juliet_hahn]: and
4360
00:26:05,413 --> 00:26:05,453
[maggie]: of
4361
00:26:05,497 --> 00:26:05,617
[juliet_hahn]: then
4362
00:26:05,513 --> 00:26:06,014
[maggie]: us separately
4363
00:26:05,717 --> 00:26:06,058
[juliet_hahn]: when did
4364
00:26:06,074 --> 00:26:06,154
[maggie]: and
4365
00:26:06,078 --> 00:26:06,178
[juliet_hahn]: the
4366
00:26:06,175 --> 00:26:06,295
[maggie]: then
4367
00:26:06,258 --> 00:26:06,719
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
4368
00:26:06,355 --> 00:26:06,776
[maggie]: together
4369
00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:07,139
[juliet_hahn]: sisters
4370
00:26:06,836 --> 00:26:07,316
[maggie]: and then when
4371
00:26:07,219 --> 00:26:07,440
[juliet_hahn]: really
4372
00:26:07,397 --> 00:26:07,617
[maggie]: did the
4373
00:26:07,540 --> 00:26:07,961
[juliet_hahn]: form
4374
00:26:07,697 --> 00:26:08,138
[maggie]: anxiety
4375
00:26:08,181 --> 00:26:08,301
[juliet_hahn]: and
4376
00:26:08,218 --> 00:26:08,558
[maggie]: sisters
4377
00:26:08,602 --> 00:26:08,662
[juliet_hahn]: and
4378
00:26:08,659 --> 00:26:08,859
[maggie]: really
4379
00:26:08,702 --> 00:26:09,022
[juliet_hahn]: then take
4380
00:26:08,959 --> 00:26:09,360
[maggie]: form
4381
00:26:09,063 --> 00:26:09,543
[juliet_hahn]: us what you guys
4382
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:09,740
[maggie]: and
4383
00:26:09,603 --> 00:26:10,004
[juliet_hahn]: are you know
4384
00:26:10,021 --> 00:26:10,101
[maggie]: and
4385
00:26:10,064 --> 00:26:10,144
[juliet_hahn]: what
4386
00:26:10,121 --> 00:26:10,221
[maggie]: then
4387
00:26:10,164 --> 00:26:10,305
[juliet_hahn]: you're
4388
00:26:10,301 --> 00:26:10,442
[maggie]: take
4389
00:26:10,345 --> 00:26:10,505
[juliet_hahn]: doing
4390
00:26:10,482 --> 00:26:10,522
[maggie]: us
4391
00:26:10,545 --> 00:26:10,665
[juliet_hahn]: now
4392
00:26:10,602 --> 00:26:10,702
[maggie]: what
4393
00:26:10,705 --> 00:26:10,866
[juliet_hahn]: because
4394
00:26:10,722 --> 00:26:10,983
[maggie]: you guys
4395
00:26:10,906 --> 00:26:11,066
[juliet_hahn]: i know
4396
00:26:11,023 --> 00:26:11,083
[maggie]: are
4397
00:26:11,086 --> 00:26:11,246
[juliet_hahn]: you're
4398
00:26:11,223 --> 00:26:11,303
[maggie]: you
4399
00:26:11,266 --> 00:26:11,306
[juliet_hahn]: on
4400
00:26:11,343 --> 00:26:11,443
[maggie]: know
4401
00:26:11,346 --> 00:26:11,627
[juliet_hahn]: the road
4402
00:26:11,483 --> 00:26:11,744
[maggie]: what you're
4403
00:26:11,667 --> 00:26:11,727
[juliet_hahn]: you
4404
00:26:11,764 --> 00:26:11,924
[maggie]: doing
4405
00:26:11,767 --> 00:26:12,348
[juliet_hahn]: have podcast
4406
00:26:11,964 --> 00:26:12,485
[maggie]: now because i know
4407
00:26:12,388 --> 00:26:12,588
[juliet_hahn]: you have
4408
00:26:12,505 --> 00:26:12,645
[maggie]: you're
4409
00:26:12,628 --> 00:26:12,889
[juliet_hahn]: books
4410
00:26:12,685 --> 00:26:13,046
[maggie]: on the road
4411
00:26:13,029 --> 00:26:13,049
[juliet_hahn]: i
4412
00:26:13,066 --> 00:26:13,126
[maggie]: you
4413
00:26:13,109 --> 00:26:13,209
[juliet_hahn]: mean
4414
00:26:13,186 --> 00:26:13,767
[maggie]: have podcasts
4415
00:26:13,310 --> 00:26:13,770
[juliet_hahn]: blogs
4416
00:26:13,807 --> 00:26:14,288
[maggie]: you have books
4417
00:26:14,211 --> 00:26:14,471
[juliet_hahn]: you guys
4418
00:26:14,428 --> 00:26:14,569
[maggie]: i mean
4419
00:26:14,511 --> 00:26:14,871
[juliet_hahn]: are really
4420
00:26:14,709 --> 00:26:15,190
[maggie]: blocks
4421
00:26:15,232 --> 00:26:15,612
[juliet_hahn]: doing it and
4422
00:26:15,630 --> 00:26:15,710
[maggie]: you
4423
00:26:15,652 --> 00:26:15,832
[juliet_hahn]: i think
4424
00:26:15,771 --> 00:26:15,891
[maggie]: guys
4425
00:26:15,872 --> 00:26:15,973
[juliet_hahn]: it's
4426
00:26:15,931 --> 00:26:16,011
[maggie]: are
4427
00:26:16,033 --> 00:26:16,153
[juliet_hahn]: so
4428
00:26:16,051 --> 00:26:16,271
[maggie]: really
4429
00:26:16,333 --> 00:26:16,753
[juliet_hahn]: important
4430
00:26:16,632 --> 00:26:16,812
[maggie]: doing
4431
00:26:16,814 --> 00:26:17,014
[juliet_hahn]: because
4432
00:26:16,872 --> 00:26:17,233
[maggie]: it and i think
4433
00:26:17,174 --> 00:26:17,234
[juliet_hahn]: it
4434
00:26:17,273 --> 00:26:17,373
[maggie]: it's
4435
00:26:17,334 --> 00:26:17,474
[juliet_hahn]: is
4436
00:26:17,453 --> 00:26:18,154
[maggie]: so important
4437
00:26:17,955 --> 00:26:18,395
[juliet_hahn]: nowadays
4438
00:26:18,215 --> 00:26:18,435
[maggie]: because
4439
00:26:18,455 --> 00:26:18,515
[juliet_hahn]: it
4440
00:26:18,575 --> 00:26:18,635
[maggie]: it
4441
00:26:18,576 --> 00:26:18,656
[juliet_hahn]: is
4442
00:26:18,735 --> 00:26:18,876
[maggie]: is
4443
00:26:18,736 --> 00:26:19,196
[juliet_hahn]: talked about
4444
00:26:19,377 --> 00:26:19,797
[maggie]: nowadays
4445
00:26:19,777 --> 00:26:20,017
[juliet_hahn]: more
4446
00:26:19,877 --> 00:26:20,058
[maggie]: it is
4447
00:26:20,077 --> 00:26:20,177
[juliet_hahn]: but
4448
00:26:20,138 --> 00:26:20,358
[maggie]: talked
4449
00:26:20,217 --> 00:26:20,538
[juliet_hahn]: you guys
4450
00:26:20,398 --> 00:26:20,599
[maggie]: about
4451
00:26:20,578 --> 00:26:21,319
[juliet_hahn]: have been doing this
4452
00:26:21,180 --> 00:26:22,261
[maggie]: more but you guys have been
4453
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:22,380
[juliet_hahn]: now
4454
00:26:22,301 --> 00:26:22,522
[maggie]: doing
4455
00:26:22,460 --> 00:26:22,600
[juliet_hahn]: for
4456
00:26:22,562 --> 00:26:22,722
[maggie]: this
4457
00:26:22,820 --> 00:26:23,662
[juliet_hahn]: a long time
4458
00:26:23,523 --> 00:26:23,784
[maggie]: you know
4459
00:26:23,722 --> 00:26:24,082
[juliet_hahn]: to really
4460
00:26:23,864 --> 00:26:23,984
[maggie]: for
4461
00:26:24,222 --> 00:26:24,302
[juliet_hahn]: be
4462
00:26:24,225 --> 00:26:24,245
[maggie]: a
4463
00:26:24,383 --> 00:26:24,443
[juliet_hahn]: at
4464
00:26:24,385 --> 00:26:24,665
[maggie]: long
4465
00:26:24,483 --> 00:26:25,104
[juliet_hahn]: the forefront
4466
00:26:24,786 --> 00:26:25,487
[maggie]: time to really
4467
00:26:25,304 --> 00:26:25,845
[juliet_hahn]: of helping
4468
00:26:25,627 --> 00:26:25,967
[maggie]: be at the
4469
00:26:26,025 --> 00:26:26,185
[juliet_hahn]: this
4470
00:26:26,028 --> 00:26:26,488
[maggie]: forefront
4471
00:26:26,485 --> 00:26:26,906
[juliet_hahn]: movement
4472
00:26:26,849 --> 00:26:27,250
[maggie]: helping
4473
00:26:27,086 --> 00:26:27,387
[juliet_hahn]: of like
4474
00:26:27,410 --> 00:26:27,570
[maggie]: this
4475
00:26:27,587 --> 00:26:27,907
[juliet_hahn]: we need to
4476
00:26:27,871 --> 00:26:28,291
[maggie]: movement
4477
00:26:27,947 --> 00:26:28,568
[juliet_hahn]: talk about this
4478
00:26:28,472 --> 00:26:34,201
[maggie]: of like we need to talk about
this yeah well we
4479
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:35,484
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4480
00:26:35,824 --> 00:26:37,407
[maggie]: so when we graduated
4481
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:38,460
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4482
00:26:37,507 --> 00:26:39,570
[maggie]: from college i would say both of
us you know
4483
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:39,943
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4484
00:26:39,650 --> 00:26:41,113
[maggie]: and started our adult lives
4485
00:26:41,790 --> 00:26:42,690
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4486
00:26:42,235 --> 00:26:44,138
[maggie]: i think me first and then a
little bit
4487
00:26:44,070 --> 00:26:44,534
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4488
00:26:44,198 --> 00:26:45,941
[maggie]: later abby we started to
4489
00:26:45,930 --> 00:26:46,171
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4490
00:26:46,201 --> 00:26:50,548
[maggie]: both realize that our anxiety was starting
to really rule the world
4491
00:26:50,700 --> 00:26:50,941
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4492
00:26:51,089 --> 00:26:56,338
[maggie]: like that we were making our decisions
based on what our anxiety was telling us
4493
00:26:56,438 --> 00:27:00,044
[maggie]: was okay to do or who it
was okay to see or you know there
4494
00:27:00,064 --> 00:27:00,966
[maggie]: were opportunities
4495
00:27:00,902 --> 00:27:00,983
[juliet_hahn]: ah
4496
00:27:01,046 --> 00:27:02,428
[maggie]: we wouldn't take because of
4497
00:27:02,460 --> 00:27:02,782
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4498
00:27:02,709 --> 00:27:08,238
[maggie]: anxiety there was just end um each
in our different ways it started to become
4499
00:27:08,338 --> 00:27:12,124
[maggie]: more and more intrusive in our lives
and i and abby and i always like
4500
00:27:12,185 --> 00:27:14,528
[maggie]: to call our twenties i would say
4501
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:15,810
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4502
00:27:15,109 --> 00:27:16,051
[maggie]: the decade of the
4503
00:27:16,051 --> 00:27:16,172
[juliet_hahn]: ah
4504
00:27:16,231 --> 00:27:18,896
[maggie]: is where you know we knew something
4505
00:27:18,810 --> 00:27:19,374
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4506
00:27:18,956 --> 00:27:23,203
[maggie]: was wrong we would go to try
to find out what it was
4507
00:27:23,220 --> 00:27:23,464
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4508
00:27:23,283 --> 00:27:25,387
[maggie]: so we go to the nutrition is
the
4509
00:27:25,860 --> 00:27:26,161
[juliet_hahn]: oh
4510
00:27:25,967 --> 00:27:28,952
[maggie]: cardinal just the acipuncturist
4511
00:27:28,950 --> 00:27:29,113
[abbe_greenberg]: yeah
4512
00:27:29,053 --> 00:27:30,535
[maggie]: the past life rogressionists
4513
00:27:30,493 --> 00:27:31,258
[abbe_greenberg]: the hypnotist
4514
00:27:30,639 --> 00:27:30,720
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4515
00:27:32,038 --> 00:27:35,183
[maggie]: hypnotist you know gastroentorologist whoever
4516
00:27:34,830 --> 00:27:35,940
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4517
00:27:35,323 --> 00:27:37,767
[maggie]: was an ist who would take some
money from us
4518
00:27:37,751 --> 00:27:38,013
[juliet_hahn]: we're the
4519
00:27:38,428 --> 00:27:42,335
[maggie]: we there and many of those people
had very good things to say and were
4520
00:27:42,375 --> 00:27:46,240
[maggie]: very helpful so i don't want to
put it all down but
4521
00:27:46,230 --> 00:27:46,391
[juliet_hahn]: ye
4522
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,844
[maggie]: we really did spend a lot of
time and money sort of running around trying
4523
00:27:50,924 --> 00:27:54,707
[maggie]: to find an answer because we still
didn't really have that vocabulary
4524
00:27:54,690 --> 00:27:55,440
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4525
00:27:55,027 --> 00:28:02,268
[maggie]: for anxiety and so um you know
it was a trial in era but what
4526
00:28:02,308 --> 00:28:03,510
[maggie]: we kept finding
4527
00:28:03,120 --> 00:28:03,202
[juliet_hahn]: ye
4528
00:28:04,011 --> 00:28:09,080
[maggie]: and what i think we responded to
in college to was that the more we
4529
00:28:09,260 --> 00:28:09,640
[maggie]: talked to
4530
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:09,862
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4531
00:28:09,701 --> 00:28:15,029
[maggie]: each other and shared our stories with
each other we could be each other's touchstone
4532
00:28:15,711 --> 00:28:17,213
[maggie]: um and that that was really
4533
00:28:17,310 --> 00:28:18,330
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4534
00:28:17,373 --> 00:28:21,164
[maggie]: some of the most helpful and healing
things to know i'm not lone in this
4535
00:28:21,070 --> 00:28:21,090
[juliet_hahn]: a
4536
00:28:21,687 --> 00:28:22,453
[maggie]: someone else gets
4537
00:28:22,452 --> 00:28:22,672
[juliet_hahn]: right
4538
00:28:22,594 --> 00:28:22,634
[maggie]: it
4539
00:28:23,113 --> 00:28:24,636
[juliet_hahn]: i love that and i do want
to pause
4540
00:28:24,490 --> 00:28:24,730
[maggie]: i love
4541
00:28:24,696 --> 00:28:24,776
[juliet_hahn]: for
4542
00:28:24,770 --> 00:28:24,890
[maggie]: that
4543
00:28:24,796 --> 00:28:25,036
[juliet_hahn]: a second
4544
00:28:24,930 --> 00:28:24,990
[maggie]: and
4545
00:28:25,056 --> 00:28:25,197
[juliet_hahn]: because
4546
00:28:25,111 --> 00:28:25,131
[maggie]: i
4547
00:28:25,237 --> 00:28:25,437
[juliet_hahn]: i would
4548
00:28:25,331 --> 00:28:25,391
[maggie]: do
4549
00:28:25,457 --> 00:28:25,597
[juliet_hahn]: love
4550
00:28:25,471 --> 00:28:25,672
[maggie]: want to
4551
00:28:25,637 --> 00:28:25,718
[juliet_hahn]: for
4552
00:28:25,712 --> 00:28:25,972
[maggie]: pause
4553
00:28:25,758 --> 00:28:26,178
[juliet_hahn]: you guys because
4554
00:28:26,052 --> 00:28:26,393
[maggie]: for a second
4555
00:28:26,218 --> 00:28:26,399
[juliet_hahn]: i know
4556
00:28:26,413 --> 00:28:26,573
[maggie]: because
4557
00:28:26,439 --> 00:28:26,619
[juliet_hahn]: there's
4558
00:28:26,593 --> 00:28:26,793
[maggie]: i would
4559
00:28:26,679 --> 00:28:26,940
[juliet_hahn]: so many
4560
00:28:26,834 --> 00:28:26,954
[maggie]: love
4561
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:27,280
[juliet_hahn]: people
4562
00:28:27,014 --> 00:28:27,775
[maggie]: for you guys because i know
4563
00:28:27,781 --> 00:28:27,981
[juliet_hahn]: that
4564
00:28:27,795 --> 00:28:28,637
[maggie]: there's so many people
4565
00:28:28,362 --> 00:28:29,123
[juliet_hahn]: are like okay wait do
4566
00:28:29,137 --> 00:28:29,338
[maggie]: that
4567
00:28:29,263 --> 00:28:29,884
[juliet_hahn]: i have anxiety
4568
00:28:29,698 --> 00:28:29,959
[maggie]: are like
4569
00:28:29,945 --> 00:28:30,125
[juliet_hahn]: i know
4570
00:28:30,019 --> 00:28:30,179
[maggie]: okay
4571
00:28:30,245 --> 00:28:30,385
[juliet_hahn]: even
4572
00:28:30,299 --> 00:28:30,339
[maggie]: i
4573
00:28:30,445 --> 00:28:30,706
[juliet_hahn]: talking
4574
00:28:30,460 --> 00:28:30,680
[maggie]: do i
4575
00:28:30,766 --> 00:28:30,806
[juliet_hahn]: to
4576
00:28:30,780 --> 00:28:30,900
[maggie]: have
4577
00:28:30,866 --> 00:28:30,986
[juliet_hahn]: like
4578
00:28:30,980 --> 00:28:31,301
[maggie]: anxiety
4579
00:28:31,026 --> 00:28:31,507
[juliet_hahn]: my kids
4580
00:28:31,361 --> 00:28:31,762
[maggie]: i know even
4581
00:28:31,828 --> 00:28:31,988
[juliet_hahn]: i'll
4582
00:28:31,842 --> 00:28:32,102
[maggie]: talking
4583
00:28:32,028 --> 00:28:32,128
[juliet_hahn]: say
4584
00:28:32,142 --> 00:28:32,223
[maggie]: to
4585
00:28:32,168 --> 00:28:32,529
[juliet_hahn]: to my son
4586
00:28:32,423 --> 00:28:32,503
[maggie]: my
4587
00:28:32,589 --> 00:28:32,749
[juliet_hahn]: that's
4588
00:28:32,603 --> 00:28:32,904
[maggie]: kids
4589
00:28:33,110 --> 00:28:33,470
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
4590
00:28:33,224 --> 00:28:33,505
[maggie]: i'll say
4591
00:28:33,511 --> 00:28:33,611
[juliet_hahn]: he's
4592
00:28:33,545 --> 00:28:33,625
[maggie]: to
4593
00:28:33,651 --> 00:28:33,751
[juliet_hahn]: like
4594
00:28:33,665 --> 00:28:33,725
[maggie]: my
4595
00:28:33,771 --> 00:28:33,931
[juliet_hahn]: that's
4596
00:28:33,785 --> 00:28:34,146
[maggie]: son that's
4597
00:28:33,971 --> 00:28:34,272
[juliet_hahn]: no test
4598
00:28:34,206 --> 00:28:34,426
[maggie]: test
4599
00:28:34,352 --> 00:28:34,692
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
4600
00:28:34,526 --> 00:28:34,987
[maggie]: anxieties
4601
00:28:34,733 --> 00:28:35,173
[juliet_hahn]: mom i'm just
4602
00:28:35,047 --> 00:28:35,809
[maggie]: like this a testing
4603
00:28:35,574 --> 00:28:36,395
[juliet_hahn]: i'm anxious
4604
00:28:36,289 --> 00:28:36,530
[maggie]: i'm just
4605
00:28:36,455 --> 00:28:36,836
[juliet_hahn]: and i'm like
4606
00:28:36,930 --> 00:28:37,752
[maggie]: i'm anxious
4607
00:28:37,758 --> 00:28:37,918
[juliet_hahn]: that's
4608
00:28:37,812 --> 00:28:37,992
[maggie]: and i'm
4609
00:28:37,958 --> 00:28:38,359
[juliet_hahn]: anxiety
4610
00:28:38,032 --> 00:28:38,172
[maggie]: like
4611
00:28:38,499 --> 00:28:39,280
[juliet_hahn]: like you might not
4612
00:28:39,194 --> 00:28:39,735
[maggie]: t's anxiety
4613
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:40,021
[juliet_hahn]: have a big level
4614
00:28:39,855 --> 00:28:39,975
[maggie]: like
4615
00:28:40,081 --> 00:28:40,222
[juliet_hahn]: of it
4616
00:28:40,256 --> 00:28:40,336
[maggie]: you
4617
00:28:40,262 --> 00:28:40,422
[juliet_hahn]: because
4618
00:28:40,376 --> 00:28:40,516
[maggie]: might
4619
00:28:40,462 --> 00:28:40,562
[juliet_hahn]: it's
4620
00:28:40,536 --> 00:28:40,637
[maggie]: not
4621
00:28:40,602 --> 00:28:40,723
[juliet_hahn]: not
4622
00:28:40,677 --> 00:28:40,797
[maggie]: have
4623
00:28:40,763 --> 00:28:41,063
[juliet_hahn]: stopping
4624
00:28:40,817 --> 00:28:41,378
[maggie]: a big level
4625
00:28:41,183 --> 00:28:41,384
[juliet_hahn]: but you
4626
00:28:41,438 --> 00:28:41,798
[maggie]: of it because
4627
00:28:41,704 --> 00:28:41,864
[juliet_hahn]: you're
4628
00:28:41,819 --> 00:28:41,939
[maggie]: it's
4629
00:28:41,904 --> 00:28:42,005
[juliet_hahn]: like
4630
00:28:41,979 --> 00:28:42,079
[maggie]: not
4631
00:28:42,065 --> 00:28:42,345
[juliet_hahn]: worried
4632
00:28:42,139 --> 00:28:42,440
[maggie]: stopping
4633
00:28:42,365 --> 00:28:42,566
[juliet_hahn]: you have
4634
00:28:42,540 --> 00:28:42,620
[maggie]: but
4635
00:28:42,586 --> 00:28:42,946
[juliet_hahn]: butterflies
4636
00:28:42,660 --> 00:28:42,720
[maggie]: you
4637
00:28:42,986 --> 00:28:43,106
[juliet_hahn]: you're
4638
00:28:43,081 --> 00:28:43,241
[maggie]: you're
4639
00:28:43,127 --> 00:28:43,367
[juliet_hahn]: a little
4640
00:28:43,261 --> 00:28:43,361
[maggie]: like
4641
00:28:43,407 --> 00:28:43,707
[juliet_hahn]: nervous
4642
00:28:43,421 --> 00:28:45,044
[maggie]: worried you have butterflies you're a little
nervous
4643
00:28:44,950 --> 00:28:46,232
[juliet_hahn]: there's levels of it
4644
00:28:46,286 --> 00:28:46,627
[maggie]: but there's
4645
00:28:46,412 --> 00:28:46,652
[juliet_hahn]: and so
4646
00:28:46,747 --> 00:28:47,147
[maggie]: levels
4647
00:28:46,933 --> 00:28:47,574
[juliet_hahn]: and there's different
4648
00:28:47,388 --> 00:28:47,648
[maggie]: of it
4649
00:28:47,614 --> 00:28:48,235
[juliet_hahn]: definitions
4650
00:28:47,969 --> 00:28:48,049
[maggie]: so
4651
00:28:48,315 --> 00:28:48,375
[juliet_hahn]: of
4652
00:28:48,329 --> 00:28:48,610
[maggie]: and there's
4653
00:28:48,455 --> 00:28:48,495
[juliet_hahn]: it
4654
00:28:48,670 --> 00:28:48,951
[maggie]: different
4655
00:28:48,796 --> 00:28:49,016
[juliet_hahn]: can you
4656
00:28:48,991 --> 00:28:49,612
[maggie]: definitions
4657
00:28:49,076 --> 00:28:49,958
[juliet_hahn]: guys both share
4658
00:28:49,692 --> 00:28:50,614
[maggie]: of it can you guys
4659
00:28:50,479 --> 00:28:50,599
[juliet_hahn]: what
4660
00:28:50,754 --> 00:28:50,954
[maggie]: both
4661
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:51,140
[juliet_hahn]: your
4662
00:28:51,054 --> 00:28:51,335
[maggie]: share
4663
00:28:51,260 --> 00:28:51,821
[juliet_hahn]: definition
4664
00:28:51,836 --> 00:28:51,996
[maggie]: what
4665
00:28:52,021 --> 00:28:52,803
[juliet_hahn]: of anxiety
4666
00:28:52,337 --> 00:28:53,198
[maggie]: your definition
4667
00:28:52,903 --> 00:28:53,384
[juliet_hahn]: is and then
4668
00:28:53,399 --> 00:28:53,459
[maggie]: of
4669
00:28:53,544 --> 00:28:53,624
[juliet_hahn]: you
4670
00:28:53,659 --> 00:28:54,180
[maggie]: anxiety
4671
00:28:53,664 --> 00:28:54,345
[juliet_hahn]: know abbie i would love
4672
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:54,421
[maggie]: is
4673
00:28:54,385 --> 00:28:54,465
[juliet_hahn]: for
4674
00:28:54,501 --> 00:28:54,581
[maggie]: and
4675
00:28:54,505 --> 00:28:54,586
[juliet_hahn]: you
4676
00:28:54,641 --> 00:28:54,761
[maggie]: then
4677
00:28:54,646 --> 00:28:55,207
[juliet_hahn]: to continue
4678
00:28:54,922 --> 00:28:55,402
[maggie]: you know abbie
4679
00:28:55,287 --> 00:28:55,467
[juliet_hahn]: where
4680
00:28:55,463 --> 00:28:55,723
[maggie]: would love
4681
00:28:55,627 --> 00:28:55,868
[juliet_hahn]: maggie
4682
00:28:55,763 --> 00:28:55,963
[maggie]: for you
4683
00:28:55,928 --> 00:28:56,088
[juliet_hahn]: left
4684
00:28:56,024 --> 00:28:56,585
[maggie]: to continue
4685
00:28:56,208 --> 00:28:56,349
[juliet_hahn]: off
4686
00:28:56,665 --> 00:28:57,707
[maggie]: where maggie left off
4687
00:28:59,042 --> 00:28:59,983
[abbe_greenberg]: well okay so
4688
00:29:00,229 --> 00:29:00,410
[maggie]: okay
4689
00:29:00,364 --> 00:29:00,845
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
4690
00:29:00,590 --> 00:29:00,710
[maggie]: so
4691
00:29:00,985 --> 00:29:01,045
[abbe_greenberg]: is
4692
00:29:01,091 --> 00:29:01,592
[maggie]: anxiety
4693
00:29:01,105 --> 00:29:01,746
[abbe_greenberg]: a human emotion
4694
00:29:01,712 --> 00:29:02,092
[maggie]: is a human
4695
00:29:02,107 --> 00:29:02,267
[abbe_greenberg]: right
4696
00:29:02,153 --> 00:29:02,974
[maggie]: emotion right
4697
00:29:02,988 --> 00:29:03,529
[abbe_greenberg]: and so if you're
4698
00:29:03,420 --> 00:29:04,230
[juliet_hahn]: yeah
4699
00:29:03,549 --> 00:29:03,809
[abbe_greenberg]: a human
4700
00:29:03,695 --> 00:29:03,775
[maggie]: and
4701
00:29:03,830 --> 00:29:04,010
[abbe_greenberg]: being
4702
00:29:03,855 --> 00:29:04,076
[maggie]: so if
4703
00:29:04,050 --> 00:29:04,210
[abbe_greenberg]: you've
4704
00:29:04,096 --> 00:29:04,236
[maggie]: you're
4705
00:29:04,230 --> 00:29:04,711
[abbe_greenberg]: experienced
4706
00:29:04,256 --> 00:29:04,897
[maggie]: a human being you've
4707
00:29:04,771 --> 00:29:05,192
[abbe_greenberg]: anxiety
4708
00:29:04,937 --> 00:29:05,418
[maggie]: experienced
4709
00:29:05,392 --> 00:29:05,893
[abbe_greenberg]: everybody
4710
00:29:05,4